Posts made by SagittariusSign

doeyeyedpisces - thx for the sharing, I really got a lot from it. And, you too tauruscb - I forgot IF in the beginning ... your husband did the wrong thing 1st by fathering another child while you both still married ... now I understand your situation better.

PS: If my moon sign is Aries, my Venus sign is Scorpio. and Mars sign is Capricorn ... so I'm likely to behave like an Aries male, but in romantic situation / love ... I'm likely to act like Scorpio Male? Which tends to attract and compatible with another water sign and earth sign? And, the way that I'm presenting and communicating myself to other people, and what I want, and how I think about my children is like if I'm a Capricorn?

the censored word is'fifth house'

In the context of relationship, boyfriend - girlfriend, husband - wife ... what are the houses in our natal chart that we should look at? I read it from some website, that in the context of relationship, you should look for the V house, and VII house of your natal chart. Is this true? So, for example: If my V house is Capricorn, and my VII house is Pisces, what are these things telling about me? Should I look for 'earth' and 'water' elemental sign girls, because I'm likely will get along with them smoothly? Or? What are these V house and VII house means to my natal chart or the relation of them with my sun sign, sagittarius?

Also, I read it from another website ... in the context of relationship ... its better if you compare your moon sign, venus sign, and mars sign to your potential mate's moon sign, venus sign, and mars sign ... rather than just comparing between your sun sign with each other, because these planets tells more about relationship than your sun sign, is this true?

And what about the rest of the planets? What are they for? For example: Rising sign, Jupiter, Saturn, Uranus, Neptune, Pluto, and N. Node ... Sometime they also mentioned 'Ascending', what is that means?

One last thing ... which is more influential between western zodiac signs and Chinese zodiac signs, in term of telling someone about themself, and the compability between two people? What if according to western zodiac signs, 'A' n 'B' is NOT compatible, but according to chinese zodiac sign, 'A' n 'B' is compatible, so if they are going into ccommitted relationship, boyfriend - girlfriend, or husband - wife, are they going to be for the long haul?

Thanks TheCaptain, I really want to know all about these, usually I just look at my sun sign and compare it with another person sun sign, but I knew there is must be more about this whole astrology and horoscopes thing. I tried to googled them, but it just made me more confused.

tauruscb, and doeyeyedpisces ... I'm not trying to judging you guys or anything, I just want to learn from your experiences ... can you guys enlighten me a bit with your situation ... what are the things that your husband do / didn't do that makes you guys losing attraction towards him? And, also what are the things that this Cancerman do / did that pulls you guys towards him? Thanks guys.

I think if anything else ... don't try to mislead people, if you just wanted to be friend with them, tell them from the start, if you really wanted romantic relationship, let them know too. I'm a Sagittarius, so I know the thing that I really hate most is if people lied to me, or cheating, its better if you be upfront, we can take almost anything, as long its the truth, even its painful.

Ok, thank you TheCaptain.

Thank you TheCaptain, I really appreciate your reply.

Hello, TheCaptain, my birthday is on 16 December 1980, and her is 23 April 1994, are we compatible? Thank you.

Hello, TheCaptain, I was born on December 16, 1980.

I did some Natal Chart reading before, and its said: Rising is Libra, Moon in Aries, Mercury in Sagittarius, Venus in Scorpio, and Mars in Capricorm.

I would like to know what signs are the best for me for wife / long term relationship. And, am I compatible with Taurus girl, thank you.

Hi, I'm sagittarius male, Rising is Libra, Moon in Aries, Mercury in Sagittarius, Venus in Scorpio, and Mars in Capricorm.

I would like to know if I'm compatible with Taurus Women, if any of you guys have experinces with Sagittarius - Taurus relationship, boyfriend - girlfriend, or husband and wife, please share.

Especially what are the things / quality in your partner that make you get attracted to each other, and if something bad happen in your relationship, like the ups and downs, how do you guys take care of it / to solved it, thank you.

'SagittariusSign: You are 100% right on with this comment. Now if you could just convince my heart of this I would very grateful lol.'

Just think this way ... that God have many ways in saving people's life ... and he choosed this way to save your future ... by breaking your relationship up with your ex ... its good that you breaking up with her while you still in boyfriend and girlfriend stage, rather than when you already in married stage with kids ... trust me ... you really don't want to marry your ex, and messed up your dream about a good marriage and family. She is the wrong woman to get involved with, for ex: Your house (your marriage n family) is likely to crumble easily if you choose to use the wrong foundation (your potential mate - girlfriend / wife) to start with.

Asia118x, its really up in your hands on what you wanna do, but don't get your expectation ups too much with your ex, you know that he already 'ditch' you before for some stupid reason. There is no telling if he is not gonna do it again in the future. So, if you wanted to try to get connected with him again, make sure that this time you are 'well prepared' for all the worst case scenarios, especially now you are still trying to heal your wounds. Make sure that you can move on with ease if something bad will happen between both of you, before you try to contact him.

About your parents, I think they really wanted the best for you, eventhough sometime they seems to try to put you in cage for some good reason. And, I believe even if sometime they seems to be just some old people who just didn't get us, they can see 'things' that is not right, that we can't see, because they already live long enough before us and with all the knowledges along with it.

For ex: My mom used to tell my younger sister that the guy my sister picked was so wrong, but because my sister was deeply infatuated with him at the time, she couldn't see the real him. Until ... the real him comes out, and its opening my sister's eyes.Then she starts running back to my mother, crying, and saying 'I'm really sorry, and I should have listened to you in the 1st place'. Well ... thankfully she is now married with a good guy, that my mother said 'He is a good guy for you' when she introduced him to her.

not ... *or you ... but ... *for you

'Something I thought about tonight that saddened me. There are lots of people in this world but when your heart is attached to a particular person, and you can't have them, there is nothing you can do but wait for your heart to heal. If you desire let's say Edy's chocolate ice cream, or a particular model of car, there are many places you can get one, but when you desire a person, there is only one of that person in the entire world.'

I remember one of my friend that work at Walmart said to me, you know ... there is a reason why we put all of these games (PS3, 360, Wii, etc) behind this glass door (beside for security purpose) ... lock it, but people still can see them ... because this barrier playing with their 'mind' ... most people wants what they can't have, and take it for granted of something that they can easily have.

The same thing with the reason why they make small quantity of 'limited edition' of some product ... I can go crazy sometime if I know that the thing that I wanted is almost sold out.

After I realized about this ... I'm concious about how our mind and feeling can be manipulated so much by outside event, eventhough sometime other people / event not always purposely wanted to do that to us, I think its already hard wired to us since birth.

'Love is hard because nothing even comes close to the feeling of knowing someone cares about you more than anything. You can't buy that. I know many people fall in love more than once in their lives and I'm glad we are capable of that, but it's not easy, at least it isn't for me.'

Love is hard because nothing even comes close to the feeling of knowing someone cares about you more than anything - I'm sorry bro, but I'm gonna be blunt, I don't think your ex care about you, or maybe ever? I don't know, you are the only one that who knows her. If anything ... I think she only care about herself, once she think that the guy who supposedly can provide safety / romance for her already unable, she will jump to another new guy. And, you really don't wanna married and have kids with that kind of woman, thank god you didn't marry her, just think what will happen to your marriage, and your kids.

Just heal first, work on yourself on what you need to be done, and date other women, I mean lots of them, you might find someone who is truly or you in every sense.

Thank You Cancerman276, and also Happy Birthday to you Asia118x.

Asia118x, about adding your ex to your facebook or not, its definetly up to you, you are the one who knows the real strength in yourself. In my case, eventhough I already broken up with my ex (because she was cheating on me), but when she tried to add me back into her facebook, I accepted it, and until now she is still on my facebook. But, I treated her like mannequin, I never tried even once to contact her in anyway. Because I decided that I'm done with her. And, its quite tough at first, because she purposely posted her pictures with her new guy, etc2 on it, almost everyday ... but, I used her for my on benefit. I believed that constant exposure to what you fear, or what make you feel sad will make you indifferent at the end, and its, I don't have any feeling towards my ex now, ice cold, I really don't care if she is with her new guy, or whatever. I only took the lesson from our relationship, and move on. And, its feels like HELL at first, unbearable unknown emotions for almost 8 months, but I lived.

I like to mentioned it too ... that says what you really wanted and mean it ... I'm not purposely pointing this to Taurus7, but for women in general ... If you really wanted your man to stand up for you, and when he is going to do that, let him do it, especially if this is his 1st try, this will tell his 'unconcious mind' on how to treat you in the future, so he is not to 2nd guessing ... 'should I defend her ... or letting it go?'. Well, confronting someone can be 'brutal' with pyhsical, like muscle with muscle, or .... with just word ... ex: saying 'I don't like what you said today to my girl', etc2 ...

If you told 'J': 'She is just a hateful woman who loves to create drama' - If you like not to sweat over small thing ... but that drama queen is likely to repeated what she has done in the future ... just because she knows she can, and nobody is going to do anything about it, and your 'J' is likely to follow your attitude in the future ... 'not to sweat over small thing'.

And, if you said to 'J': You don't have to worry about me!! She is just a hateful woman who loves to create drama. - - - 'you don't have to worry about me' ... hhmm, because we men, in general, taking everything on face value including with words ... if you said to him like that ... 'you don't have to worry about me' ... he is likely to play everything cool in the future, and make you wonder why he seems not worry with me? Especially if in his eyes, you are a strong women, it will make him think that you can 'tank' everything, and its not because he doesn't love you or care about you.

So, I'm still not sure on how to handle a situation like just what you had, but if it was me, I'm going to confronts that drama queen ... I just have to think the more 'socially acceptable way' on how to do it, instead of 'the rough way' that I much preffer.

'Sagitarrius Sign - see what happened today, that is my security, what I described. My ex husband would have joined in the convo how horrible I was, yes, while we were still married.' - Taurus7.

Yes, I see it, and I think its the normal social norm ... that you should defend the one that you loved, especialy in public. But, if I were in that situation, I might actually confronts that drama queen face to face, lol. Because I'm easy to loss my temper.

Anyway, I think both you made a very wise decission ... everyone knows that she is drama queen ... so everyone likely to say to her 'yeah ... ehem ... whatever' ... and, if we are feeling at war when we are in our workplace, thats going to bugs us down.

'I have told him and he has listened and acted on it. A couple of weeks ago, my husband was out of work sick. I made some homemade chicken soup for him, gave him a massage, (focusing on his chest where he was congested) and pretty much babied him for the day. Then next day he went to work and when he got home he brought me a big bouquet of flowers with a thank you card. That is the first time ever. It was nice to be appreciated. Because we have been together for 20 years (including dating) and I have babied him from the beginning and that was the FIRST thank you for it all. He is listening...'

I'm happy for you too ... see its all in the communication, and how you communicate ... as I said before, we guys and girls wired differently in our head, its really hard for us to pick up subtle signs that you are trying to communicate, we are not a mind reader, and its not because we don't care or love you, but we can only focus on 1 thing at a time in our head, so if our work taking so much space in our brain, and we know that you are fine, healthy, etc2 ... we gonna go to our own 'little planet', cutting ourself from outside world, and trying to solved our problem at work, and we gonna be normal again after that ... in the mean time, if you feel like that we have been abandoned you while we are doing that, or you think that we didn't give you the attention that you need ... you do need to speak up, slapped us on the face with what you really need, literaly, and that is how to call us back from our 'little planet'.