I have been married recently it's been 5 months to a beautiful man my dream man a cancer male but I just cudnt get a gemini guy out of my mind. Reason??? I want to know what goes on in his head. He was my friend for past 3 yrs and he use to flirt healthy flirting and told my frnds that he liked me, though he was never direct just put some hints to my frnds..even with me. I knew he was into me but me being a scorpio moon found him very shallow n materialistic, he was never my choice to be a life partner. But by passing time things developed and I thot let's check the potential of this gemini for a mate and I just asked him what he thinks for future.. to which by surprise he insulted me saying silly things and teasing me with my ex name and all..it was ultimate insult and I just got back to my mind thinking this was the reason why I didn't wanted him as a partner. He was so insensitive. Later on one fine day I said to him that I made a mistake of thinking u as a potential mate, we just can't handle each other to which he agreed and it was finally concluded that proposal was an impulse from my side. And withing a week my cancer husband came to my life and ironically he is the friend of that gemini guy. Gemini guy knew I was moving on with him and we wer planning to get engaged. One fine day..suddenly this gemini asked me to play a rapid fire game and asked me to give a quick reply to his game..I said ok cool. The first word he said was- I love you...I was done with him earlier and moved on with his frnd cancer man which he already knew..how cud he play such petty games?? When I replied to his I love you with I love mother earth...he said u r very proudy behaving as if I have proposed u literally, it was just a game.
That instance just made me confuse. Why he did that? We wer already sorted that day that we cudnt handle each other.. why he played that game??? Any gemini who cud help me out??

I have been married recently it's been 5 months to a beautiful man my dream man a cancer male but I just cudnt get a gemini guy out of my mind. Reason??? I want to know what goes on in his head. He was my friend for past 3 yrs and he use to flirt healthy flirting and told my frnds that he liked me, though he was never direct just put some hints to my frnds..even with me. I knew he was into me but me being a scorpio moon found him very shallow n materialistic, he was never my choice to be a life partner. But by passing time things developed and I thot let's check the potential of this gemini for a mate and I just asked him what he thinks for future.. to which by surprise he insulted me saying silly things and teasing me with my ex name and all..it was ultimate insult and I just got back to my mind thinking this was the reason why I didn't wanted him as a partner. He was so insensitive. Later on one fine day I said to him that I made a mistake of thinking u as a potential mate, we just can't handle each other to which he agreed and it was finally concluded that proposal was an impulse from my side. And withing a week my cancer husband came to my life and ironically he is the friend of that gemini guy. Gemini guy knew I was moving on with him and we wer planning to get engaged. One fine day..suddenly this gemini asked me to play a rapid fire game and asked me to give a quick reply to his game..I said ok cool. The first word he said was- I love you...I was done with him earlier and moved on with his frnd cancer man which he already knew..how cud he play such petty games?? When I replied to his I love you with I love mother earth...he said u r very proudy behaving as if I have proposed u literally, it was just a game.
That instance just made me confuse. Why he did that? We wer already sorted that day that we cudnt handle each other.. why he played that game??? Any gemini who cud help me out??

Re: Gemini man in love and the conflicted Mind Game

Hey fellas...I m new in here. And I got

Hey there..m new to this forum and this is my first post!! I married past 5 months and before marriage..I had a fun and spontaneous friendship with a gemini male. He flirted me all the while and gave me attention I adored. But I was never upto him for marriage.. as he was not my type. U see I m a scorpio. But anyhow something happend..and I went to him to ask what he thinks abt me, I assumed he will definitely look forward coz he liked me and flirted with me a lot. But to my surprise, he just insulted me saying go to ur previous bf,u r too late, I can't handle ur quirks and what not. It was too insulting for me. And then the next day I accepted that I did a blunder coz we both knw very well we can't handle each other and yet I did a mistake my asking u abt ur thots on future.. to which his reply was very casual he said I m just going with the flow. And after one week..I got the man of my dreams.. a cancer male. I just decided to be with him. Irony is my cancer is that gemini guys close friend and colleague. And after some days..that gemini friend texted me asking to play a game of rapid fire..where he wud say any word and I have to give a quick response, I said ok let's Start. And he said.." I love you" I was shocked. And confused like he'll. I mean what he is upto. M I a matter to game or petty entertaining game to him??? Also, my cancer man was his friend..he knew we r deciding to get married...he must have not played that I luv u game as I had decided for my cancer. What the hell went wrong with him?? Why don't he have that boundary?? I already confessed it was a mistake coming to u..to which he nodded and said yes.
I replied to his I love u with a I love mother earth! And he said.." u r so proud!! U r behaving as if I have proposed u for real". Till now after being in a happy marriage I can't get over this confusion.. what was inside his head??? Help is sought urgently for my peace of mind.

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