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    • RE: Captain...Help with forgiveness & direction

      Thankyou Captain, your words made me feel alot more at ease. I am being too hard on myself, I will take note of the lesson in the experience. I guess we all make mistakes, I hope to be able to start 'new' again without this hanging in my conscious. "You are testing your attractiveness and lovability, to find out how others perceive you so that you can better understand yourself." <--yes!! u are so right, I feel like I can finally verbally explain what this is. It is just as you said, a test . I am glad you said that its not such a bad thing and that it can help me learn and grow. That has brought so much clarity to me, I feel I can almost define the issue I had with this person now (and have had with others) who I knew all along were not ideal partners for me. Hopefully I will grow out of my fantasies/illusions and the 'testing' soon enough as I learn my true identity and confidence in myself without so much influence from others 🙂

      Thank you for listening to me Captain & I very much enjoy reading your blog posts. I wish you a good coming week x

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    • Captain...Help with forgiveness & direction

      I'm feeling self-hate regarding a decision I made recently. I'm really struggling to let this mistake go, thoughts of punishing myself come and go constantly. Especially after I felt like I had achieved so much in the summer, I spent 3 months in Greece, it did me the world of good,my self-confidence rose amazingly, I met so many people and was constantly surrounded by good friends and sun & sea. In September, I had to return to reality, London. I'm half Greek half South African so I don't know if its the climate here and the crowds that are having this negative effect on me. But I feel like I'm in this darkness, its difficult for me to describe.

      I don't know how to forgive myself especially after the progress I made in Greece and also knowing it might be something I'd regret. I had had this summer romance which made me completely forget about this guy I had been upset about a few months before I left. (http://product.tarot.com/forum/topic.php?id=17591&replies=7)

      FORGIVENESS: After I had written to u, this guy was txting often and kept asking to take me out. He kept in contact throughout my holiday in Greece. I refused to see him for 6 months and was surprised he didnt go away, but a month ago I gave in and saw him after he tried to convince me that things had changed with him. I said yes because I felt like I could handle it after being on such a high after greece. Basically we ended up spending quite alot of time together that week before he flew home for a holiday to his family. However, he seemed to have had gone through something, because he had let himself go a little and indicated to me that he doesn't have many friends and is often alone. He wasn't as high up on his horse as he was before. He seemed much more aware of other guys looking at me and kept making comments about me talking to other guys. I think he saw things had changed for me and that he wasn't the only one anymore. He was telling me that he's ready to settle now, but I think he could tell that I couldn't really take him seriously.

      He called and kept in touch while he was gone although the last message he sent on bbm while he was in a wifi zone I only saw much later and my reply still hasn't delivered and its been almost 2 weeks. He hasnt been on whatsapp since either and he is always online. I guess if this is the way it ends so be it, he would have left to his home country after his studies in june anyway. But I feel angry that I saw him again, and gave in after his pestering. How do I let go of the hate I have for both him and myself? How can I forgive myself for taking it so damn seriously, the constant thought of 'Ive lost and he's won'. I don't understand why I have let this person have this effect on me, I don't really have loving feelings for him after all this, just a weird cross between hate and sexual attraction.

      DIRECTION: I feel trapped in this city, but an opportunity to go and work on the Canary Islands for the winter months has popped up, and if I were to go, I would be leave within the next 2 weeks. It sounds so tempting, the sun does me so much good. The thought of travel makes my heart sing 🙂 But is this just running away and leaving a good friendship group behind? Do you think I should just stick London out for the winter? I'm also quite creative and find it difficult to engage in my interests here.I am only in London because my father is here, although I think he is finally ok with me leaving as I have finished my degree.

      I would honestly appreciate it from the bottom of my heart if you could give me some words that may be of help to me at this time.

      Kalli x (18/09/90)

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    • Captain...

      Hi again captain,

      This question is regarding the guy I had asked you about below:

      http://www.tarot.com/forum/topic.php?id=17591&replies=7

      After a 3 week silence he popped out of the blue saying he really missed me and that he was sorry he was out of touch & had exams going on and wanted to see me before he flies off to visit his family this weekend. I took some time to think over it and decided I didn't feel ready to see him right now and I felt that I needed some time to mull things over so I gave him an excuse and politely said I couldn't see him before he leaves because I have this and that going on this week.

      At first he was completely ok with it, but then seemed to be a little irritated by the fact that I couldn't see him which made me feel uneasy, because there is obviously a big part of me that wanted to see him! But at the same time I do understand I deserve more than someone that thinks it's ok to just pop in and out of one's life & I feel I am on the road of getting over this guy.

      I guess I just want reassurance that I made the right choice not to see him this at this time? Do u think I made the right choice? Are your instincts still the same about him?

      I was also wondering if you had time to briefly tell me what I can expect from the next few months in general or any advice for the coming summer months ill be overseas and moving flat during this time.

      Lastly I just wanted to thank you for the advice you give out to everyone on the forum 🙂 its really kind of you to take the time to write out your answers.

      Kalli x

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    • RE: Captain, I could do with a bit of advice

      I see, your reading makes some sense. I can't say I'm not disappointed as I do enjoy his company and of course would still like to spend more time with him... Thank you for your time captain, I appreciate it. Hope you are well x

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    • Captain, I could do with a bit of advice

      Hi captain,

      Just over 1 month ago I met a guy (David) who I feel I have a connection with and have been on a few dates with since our initial meeting. Just his presence has been able to help me with getting over someone else I was involved with (who I had asked you about previously...) I ceased contact with this guy however my ego is still a little hurt by the whole thing. My mind is still on him but I realize that this guy was not right for me, and as you very correctly stated is a 'player.' I just want to forget about him completely....

      I feel I can be myself when I am with David and feel he does have the potential to be someone that could develop into something.

      I do realize I am still very young but I find myself craving the relationships my friends around me have, and feel I do deserve the same!

      It's just very rare for me to find someone who I am attracted to & feel like I can be myself around, (i am a foolishly picky virgo.) But I feel like it is going quite slowly with him however. He doesn't seem to be good with keeping in touch over txt (which is why I'm unsure about the situation) however when I am with him in person our communication is great. He has always been the one to initiate the dates, however I don't hear much in between. Should I be the one to initiate the next meeting or should I wait for him? I prefer not to chase, but I'd like your input on how to handle the situation..

      He is about to write his final uni exams and lives 2 hours away so this could also be why this feels like its lagging. However, we will both be moving to the city in September so it could technically escalate to something more. Shall I rather just give it time until the summer is over? I'd prefer not to know the outcome of this but more just advice on whether I need to be more forward or continue to leave it to him to make the moves.

      David: 11/06/1991 (only child)

      me (kalli): 18/09/1990 (only child)

      Thanking you in advance,

      Kalli x

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    • RE: Please help, I would really appreciate some insight!**

      Your right shadowmist, I don't want to delete him from my life completely so keeping him as a friend would be ideal.

      He has been back in contact since I posted this but im still unsure of it all. I just need to relax and chill out about the whole thing. x

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    • RE: Please help, I would really appreciate some insight!**

      Thanks for the offer 🙂

      Are your readings free of charge?

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    • RE: Relationship issue- please help, I would really appreciate some insight!**

      I see...thank you for your honesty... It does hurt a little as I obviously want someone who only has me in his mind, (and heck which chick doesn't! 🙂 )

      Growing up with a father who had a wondering eye has made me see a pattern in that I always feel I have to 'impress' the guys I pick and they have all been of the charming kind. Which is definitely the case with this guy...I guess the best thing for me would be to not see him again...

      I feel I have a lot to give, and really want to attract/meet the right guy! It just takes me so long to find guys I am attracted enough to or just generate interest from my side in general..

      Is there anything I can do or change from on my part to help make this happen? Is there something I'm not doing right?

      I apologize for pestering you with more questions. Thank you for your time x

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    • RE: Relationship issue- please help, I would really appreciate some insight!**

      ^^^Well he already was back in touch so that answers 1 of my questions.

      Is it completely over between him & the one that left him?

      Are all of what he says really lies?

      I just don't understand how someone can be like that...Its beyond me!

      And I don't really understand why I am so drawn to him as I dislike his charming & over confident personality, I feel awful that I actually like him only for his appearance (possibly because he is perfect on the outside & since Im searching for something I have just picked him). Not sure what that says about myself :s

      Lastly, without sounding completely naive...do u think it is possible for me to keep it purely physical fully knowing that its 'just for fun?' or for the mere pleasure of it?

      x

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    • RE: Relationship issue- please help, I would really appreciate some insight!**

      wow that makes alot of sense...he spoke about a girl who he was with for a long time and seemed still very hurt by it... You truly are gifted! 🙂

      Its terrible though that he just uses girls for sex.. He was able to make me feel really special. And seemed to genuinely care... Is he a bad person? I never ever sleep around but I think what led me to him is obviously my 'primal sexual urges' which i was holding back for a long time and of course my intense physical attraction to him.

      Will he be back in touch Captain??

      And if yes, do u think it is possible for me to keep it purely physical knowing that its 'just for fun?' ( I must sound so naive to you)

      Please do let me know your thoughts as this is really bothering me.

      Thankyou for your speedy response- I really do appreciate this very much.

      x

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