Dear Serious, Can you do a reading for me as in my current relationship situation please? your help is much appreciated! Thank you
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Captain, could you give me some advice/insights for my relationship?
I hope to hear your opinions on my problem. It's been going for nearly 2 weeks since we broke up. We were together for nearly a year.
We had been in this distance relationship and haven't seen each other for 6 months. My ex claimed that I broke his heart 4 months ago as I had a fling but nothing more and ended up confessing and apologising to him. He said that his feelings were gone and that's why he broke up with me. He said he wanted to wait for me to come back and tell me that but I found out earlier. He said he has been hiding it away from me, pretending that he still loved and cared and all but still thought that maybe when we met face to face, we could work something out. I tried to comfort him and asked for his patience because I will soon be back with him. But he said he couldn't do that.
After the break up, he has been talking to me online, checking if I'm ok and if I'm getting over him and all. Until last night, I couldn't take it and questioned his sudden responsibility of making sure "I'm ok" whereas he has been faking the responsibility and love for nearly the entire relationship. And he got angry and said that this is entire bullsh*t and that everything that I said was right, even if sometimes in the future he said he wanted me, just would just be because he wants to sleep with me. I tried to calm him down and asked if he just wanted to try again, just tell me. And to which he replied "No I don't want. I don't love you anymore". And then he sent me a message says "F**k you all".
I don't get the sudden anger and why he is still putting me through all of this? When we were still together he was always jealous with my new friends and asking me to cut contact with them. And now post break up, he is still raging against me for what reason, I really don't get.
Do you think there is a chance I could try and work this out with him because I'm coming home very soon? Is he confused? Maybe he needs me. Or maybe not. I don't really know why but I'm prepared for anything that comes along.
My DOB: 13.12.1988. 7pm
His DOB: 24.11.1991 7pm
Thank you and waiting for your replies
RE: Advice on any topic using your birthchart
Thank you for the reading. I am a fan of astrology and have been reading a lot as a source of self-reflection for improvement but I must say that your reading thrilled me as you showed me points I'm not aware of about myself.
I'm truly indeed an energetic person and a free-thinker; I have little interest in others' doings as I'm quite non-judgmental.
I'm also the 'play hard work hard' type of person and sometimes become over-workaholic, damaging my own health over stress, hence minor illnesses. But i have never really noticed that I DO get allergic to over-medication (my fault).
Both my parents are Capricorns and I do feel that i have the Capricorn influence on me but I have absolutely no idea that CANCER also have an effect on me... until I saw your reading and started reading about CANCER. I do 'act tough' sometimes as I fear getting hurt and I do hold back issues from the past and have difficulty of letting go... even though I'm really working on it :)!
However what did you mean by:
"You have a 16 degrees CANCERIAN ASCENDANT - you have a natural affinity with the sea and marine life" - could you explain, please?
"5th house VENUS is in smouldering, powerful SCORPIO, its power increasd by being paired with PLUTO, Lord of the Underworld, suggesting that you will be drawn towads SCORPIOS and they to you" - two of my best friends are Scorpions will this also suggest my possible partner is Scorpion :)?
Also could you please give me any more foresight if possible about this year? This will indeed be a foundation year for my future path as I'm currently applying for a master course, however it will be very very competitive and whether I get in or not will have an impact on my future, I believe. I understand that it will depend on my own effort but would appreciate if you could give me more guidance.
Thank you once again and hope to hear from you again soon.
Love and regards,
As early as mid-February, an opportunity to increase your finances , more likely than not related to your career, will come your way, which you should take, but in view of what I said earlier, make sure the offer has a firm foundation. In fact February is important as the start of a whole year of exciting opportunities come your way , which will set you on your life's path for years to come. ..Go for it and please let me know what happens.