Having a Gemini rising and saturn in Sag in the 7th house ; being married is a very difficult thing for me. I never cheated on my husband; but did notice when he would try to push me into believing what he believed and tried to tell me what and how. i found my eye wander; and have thought over a million times that I would leave him. I know this relationship worked best when he allowed me to me ; and he was so needy or controling. I also have my sun in the 7th house in Cap so I will stay as long as I feel I haven't given my free will over to him. I think we as Gemini personality need to have a mental stimulation; and our cries are don't hem me. The same cry for the Sag. Can we be faithful yes. Do we always want to is another question.