My question is, is the LEO really this freaking conceited and self absorbed blinded to the fact of their own actions to others? You have got to be kidding me right, he go sleep in some body elses bed, expect me to be sitting by phone with open arms when he get back, and when I tell him NO , GOODBYE.. hes got the balls to have a baby fit and tell me I will be considered gone.. OMG this is unfreaking real. because hes nit getting his way anymore.. advice please. AM I missing something here.?

HI,

I need some advice/ backup/ good words/ some sanity about the following situation. I already know all these things myself but it might help to get some extra words from others. To make a very long story short my leo boyfriend of 4 years,(me Sag) has been going back and forth with me and anothe scorpio ex. it has been hell and Ive tried to go away and be done but as women know , so hard to do. Some of the mind games and things that have been played have been

unbelievable to the normal human. Cut to the end, he is trying to act like hes so confused, dont know who he wants etc, blah blah. Playing with feelings , hearts and taking his time. After this weekend of him spending it with the other, I decided I am completely finished with this shit,

I have no desire for him or any of this anymore, even tho Im dying inside . I have to stop for my own self esteem that is already on the floor. I cannot stand him at this moment for the way he has acted is unbelievable. Can someone tell me Im still sane. just even last week he begged me to come over, which mistakenly I did, he text and called me all day every day all this past week. also on my work phone, sent xmas jokes, etc. goodnite sweet dreams etc. Come friday night all that stops because I know he is with her and cannot text or communicate with me. and just like clockwork as soon as he gets back from weekend last night on the dot, texts up with WAT UP?

I said Goodbye to you too. He claims dumb what ever do I mean.. more bs and texts continue thru the night. This is what Im getting at, when I continued to tell him off and goodbye. He had the nerve to say that I was the one texting and calling, he is innocent. and then Finally said, "OK FINE BYE< dont text cause I wont answer, piss on it , you will be considered gone.." I replied , u already did.

Somebody please tell me WTF? is he kidding himself, have I lost my mind to even speak to this jefrk ever again in my life. OOOOOO F@#$ him and his insanity.

So I quit, adios mother F@#$%^.......you lose.

Guess what , as I am writing this, my phone is blinking with santa jokes and Have a good day texts from him.

HELP !!! I already know what advice is plain as day but some backup or new advice would be appreciated.

Saggie

Hi, I am also a sag and I dated an aquarius for a couple months once. I found him to be very flighty and wishy washy, also other women. Now the main thing i can tell you is , I sit next to a man at my job who is an aquarius we actually tease that we are work spouses since we have to work together.. altho we get along great and have a lot of fun and all kinds of serious discussions on numerous topics. He drives me crazy. we always say we couldnt be married or wed kill each other. I always chatter about whats going on in my life, and I dont care what it is about he will have to debate me and tell me how Im wrong. On everything. I get so mad, like I am nobody and his oppinion is what matters in my life. We got in a fight last week and didnt speak for 2 days because of he told me how I addressed someone at work was totally wrong.

It was not his business but mine. and I told him that just because he thinks I was wrong does not mean that I was. He also has been married and divorced to a sag , said she drove him crazy.

One more thing, they say that the aquarius has a lot of friends of the opposite sex. Its true. My coworker is married and all day long he talks to millions of other women on the phone. they might just be his friends, but sometimes i tease him that hes out playin . So I would say maybe good as friends if you can tolerate the constant debating, which i hate. it wears me out. Relationship , no way... sorry.

Thanks for your info, it means a lot. I did tell him a while ago that it seems that when things were good and comfortable he has to start some drama to get some excitement. And now that youve said the same, I had to look at the fact that maybe I dont want to spend the rest of my life being thrown into turmoil every now and then, just for some kicks for him. This time it has caused so much damage mentally and physically, that I am litterally sick. My immune system is down on the floor from all of the trauma. It is not worth that , no one is no matter what sign they are. I hope I dont hurt your feelings in saying that maybe you should look at what you told me. and try to get a grip on it for future. Even if your cancer comes back or he doesnt and you find someone new. If you dont stop the drama, you will lose again. Thanks again and good luck

well yes, I totally spoiled him, because I am a giver. He has done a lot for me also during the whole relationship, but has also been a complete jerk and ass and has made me also feel like shit. I have lowered my self esteem a few times and not proud of it. Just like Im doing now, however i was trying not to make the first move and to leave for good but I also being a sag dont stay mad long and dont like to have animosity with anyone no matter what, I will always make the peace whether they do or not. Im embarrassed to tell my story, but during the last year an ex of his from past popped into his life and decided she wanted him. at first during the time we were having some issues between us and in this fight/makeup period like now. He went with the girl and broke up with me for a couple months. all the while he never kept away from keeping me on the line and me being so freaking hurt i stayed on it. They didnot work out real fast and he told her to get f---kd. We got back together and for the most of this year have had a wonderful time, no fights we never do. just easy going and comfortable. A couple months ago here she came again and said she was having him hell or high water. He started talking to her and I started getttin furious and my mouth, and all hell broke loose. I broke up with him, but I couldnt stand it so as of course he tried to keep me on the line again I have tried to get off and cant. He says he wants to see how it goes now and claims hes nothing to do with her. But i feel shes still around and i cant be in this position no more. We have been not stop fighting for the whole 2 months, I have said some horrible things and pissed him off and i guess hurt him, but give me a break. The last couple weeks he has tried to take me out and start making up, but once again i have been flipping out bcuz i think shes still there. So I was totally done, want to be done and told him off and quit contact, he didnt contact me. That usually lasts for one day. And so because I dont want to lose him, I am bowing down again and kissing his ass after what hes done to me.. Im retarted.

P.s.

also, any tips on what will happen as far as leo will act. now that i caved in and am layin on the mush? he responded immediately to everything, but idk what will happe now

d123456, thanks for that info. how long does the bending over go on to prove the love tho?? lol.

I dont know about cancers but I read they crawl in the shell, yours is probly in there . Keep trying to crack it. and look up everywhere you can on the internet on ways to do it. Yahoo answers is the best I have found for anything, somebodys been there and done it. EX.

How to get a cancer man back.

not bowing out, i never give up either until im done, and if i get there theres no turning back . it will be history to me. sounds like the scorp loses, because of her own actions. sorry no offense to you

Cusp, Yes it take two to tango and we have a hard time talking face to face, both being really awkward about it. I tried to stay away but I cant stand it, and I broke down last night and had to start the shit you gotta do to flatter the leo. Its retarted, this is all his doing and he should be the one bowing down to me. but the leo wont do that, so it always has to be the other person eat their pride. I know its the only way I can overpower the situation, because my sagittarius fire spitting tongue has not helped in this matter at all. lol

Hello, I cant speak for a cancer because I am a sag, but my bf of 4 yrs is a LEO , we have been playing the same game a lot of the time. AT this moment the same thing is going on, who will call, who has to eat their pride and it is always me. SO we were at a stalemate, the last few days and of course I am the one bending over and making the peace. I hate it but that is the way the leo is. and the reason is totally something he did that is unexcusable. I too dont want to lose our good time together and I almost die when we are not speaking. My advice is swallow your leo pride and keep calling, keep the communication open, take the friends for now and try to start over and pay attention to not let things get here again . Theres only so much another human can take after a while. and no offense but the leo is not fair in anything. Hope it works out for you.