You guys have been spot on I decide today that I wasn't going to run after him any more and just left him to it. He text me and I just gave him the kind of response he's been giving to me all week, then he rang me saying something's up but refused to tell me what it was, anyway to cut a long story short he left me in the end, which I've been expecting all week I could feel it coming and although I was upset I strangely felt relieved. He just said "I'm leaving you" and as I told him before, that I wasn't going to stop him if he left me, I didn't I just said okay and hung up......

Minutes later... I had numerous phone calls and texts from him, which I wasn't expecting as he's been so cold lately. When I eventually picked up it was just me giving him 20mins worth of a piece of my mind, and he FINALLY! opened up to me about everything that's going on with him put his feelings on a plate, I was quite proud of him, although I didn't tell him, as that would be like give a dog a treat after it took a dump on your rug.

I have no doubt in my mind that it will happen again but at least I'll know how to deal with it when it does. If he leaves me and doesn't come back next time then I will know not to waste me time chasing him, and move on.

Thanks victimofcancerian I guess I just have to keep positive and reassuring him but some times i think he gets fed up of hearing me telling him how much I love him, I know it certainly feels like it some times.

not to mention we got matching scorpiocancer tattoo's not but 3 or so weeks ago, I will be pissed if he backs out now, serves me right for doing such a stupid and permanent thing I suppose

mine is 14/11/1991 his is 19/07/1985

ive had mixed responses before im interested to hear back from you

And mine, the wrost part is that he's in university so im punished to the point that I cant sleep or eat until he flipping talks to me about whatever is going on in that washing machine of a head he's got. I'm a scorpio so holding back when I know he's being an arse has been extremely difficult but some how I've managed it, for the past 6 days it literally feel like im going to verbally hurl all over him if this carry's on but I cant because I'm frigthend he's going to leave me....again, but this time its for good says him and I believe him because when he's says stuff like that you know its serious, so yea I know this doesnt help in how to deal with it because I would also like to know but atleasst you know your not alone

Hi I'm a young black and white visioning Scorpio.girl

I've been dating my cancer man for over 2 years now, and last September he went to University. I know he hates it there he misses the home comforts, his friends, his family the usual. And we've been having a few problems lately, well i say lately we've always been an intense couple, but its make or brake now, when ever he comes home from uni its like we've fallen in love all over again, talks of love and marriage so on... then as soon as he gets back he completely changes, he snaps at me when ever i try to talk to him and he says he just hates me asking questions about stuff but its so hard to get him to have a conversation with me these days. I was on Skype to him today for a number of hours today just being myself positive and happy and he's just been completely unresponsive I have given him tones of space and free time but he stills seems on another planet when it comes to me, he speaks to his friends normal and happy and then speaks to me like im just an annoying little creature he'd like to swat, I don't want to say he's cheating on me because I dont believe he would do that, but I'm starting to wonder what the hell is wrong with me I send him messages saying how much I love him and I'm his biggest fan and all i get back is x or my last one which was exactly this ME: """Hey hero just checking that your doing okay, Ive sent you lots of love and kisses hope you get them in time for v-day all my love your biggest fan xxx"""" this was after he spoke to me about moving his course els where so i sent him a nice message to cheer him up the next afternoon and his response was this CANCER MAN "" ? X "" and that was it for hours soon following the empty 4 hour long skype call where he didn't even try to make conversation and every time i tried to talk to him he snapped at me, but he was talking to his friends at the same time and he was fine with them i asked him why that was and he just snapped and said "because we're doing something!" which i dont get . in the end i just gave up and said nicely and calmly and normal that i was going to go and watch some crappy telly and drink tea (which was our thing, sad and young I know baring in mind this man is 27 this year) and then all of a sudden he was energetic and sad to see me go saying that he loves me and so on so forth and blowing kisses, he also sent me a message saying sorry for being moody. (now I know what your all thinking by now, is this girl for real he said sorry yada yada) he plays poker every now and again with his flat mates, mainly a girl and a boy who he gets on with best due to closeness of age and he mentions this girl often he knows all about her and her friends but when it comes down to the blokes its just yea, yup, I dunno ask him...etc... I have spent the last two years trying to understand this man unforgettably its that kind of business i will never get done haha but this is a new one im afraid he's slowly withdrawing for me and running to some one els because he misses our strong physical connection and he's slowly forgetting we even have one I would very much love some one to tell them im crazy and its all in my head but unfortunately there is never a straight forward answer for anything especially when it comes to cancers I love him with all my heart and I will do anything to keep him happy even if it means ill be unhappy and he knows that so why is he being to withdrawn when it comes to me and fine with every other fucker... excuse the french.