Thanks ABB, VS and Gem4Ever. It is so nice hearing from you all. Gem, you are so right in the way you described your Virgo because mine is sorta the same way. He puts up with my hot/cold reactions and continues to want to be close. He continues to remind me that he really loves me. But honestly, I don't jump when it comes to him if you know what I mean. He can be hanging out with me, and still, I don't feel anything exciting or simmering inside me. So for the third time again, yesterday, I told him I just can't get into it with him like he wants. I let him know that I feel bored and empty even when he is here. I explained that my honesty may be brutal but I really would not like to lead him on to nowhere! Nor do I want to see him hurt. Not by me anyways. Anyway, I think this time, he gets it and told me that it is all up to me on what I want...be friends or not. I haven't responded to that yet and still sleeping on it.
VS, SS was probably going through a lot to where she just could not figure out what to do with all that hurt. I can see where she is coming from because I too went through that hurt but I DID NOT take it out on ANYONE. She sounds like she is a professional and returning to work may do her plenty of good. I strongly feel she will be okay and hopefully, will find it in her heart to return to the thread in a much happier mode. I hope so and nothing is impossible.
I am so happy to see everyone doing well and wishing everyone well and the very best.
Enjoy the rest of your weekend ladies.
Much love to all.