Well that a funny set of questions you have there...
I’m also an Aquarius but I have Virgo moon and Taurus ascendant… so I can be as stubborn as him lol … in fact we do have lots of similar characteristics in our personalities.
As everyone been saying, it seems to me that really there is a trend in Taurus men behavior lol
You were asking if he was the one to choose initially … well we meet in the most unusual way, well at least for me!!!!
A friend of mine, a girl, was having a date with a guy she met online and she didn’t want to go alone so she convinced me to go with her.. The guy she was meeting took a friend with him also thinking that if he and my friend didn’t connect, then he could go and enjoy the rest of the night out with his friend. She didn’t know he was taking a friend and neither did he knew she was doing the same!!!! Well as you might guess the friend he took was the Taurus guy I’m dating now: D! The funny thing is that they didn’t connect at all but we both did right away!!! We talked all night long … it was an immediate empathy. And the even funniest thing is that if I had seen him somewhere else I wouldn’t even give him a second look because he isn’t definitely the kind of guy I would pay attention to. This have never happened to me since I’ve always had feeling or relations with guys I’ve known for some time, friends that became something else … Another odd thing is that by the end of the evening we did switched phone numbers, just in case, but you know that most of the times people do that but eventually never take the time or courage to call. The very next day I got a call from him saying that I had left my notebook on the back seat of his car …Impossible I said to him!!! … do you believe I didn’t used, moved or pick up that notebook during the time I was in his car!!?!?!?!?! I don’t know how but it felt from my purse into his back seat … and if it wasn’t for the notebook probably we would have meet again soon after that night.
So Gloweyes … I believe that in my case … the notebook pick us both: D:D:D
And I don’t know if they all have a thing for older women or not … I do know that we have a 10 years old difference!!!! And I do believe that this kind of bothers him …
Has you said, I too believe he is dating other woman simultaneously but we don’t have a steady relation yet and I too see other guys, not romantically but I do go out with them to dinner or coffee, and I believe that’s what he does too. Has you also said, Taurus have the need to feel appreciated especially by woman and I think he sees other woman just to feel that.
Also I know that hurt him at the beginning cause, after we went out for sometimes I started to have some feeling for him and we even already had plans to go away for a weekend to my summer house (I canceled it 2 days before) so when I realized things were becoming too serious, like a good Aquarian, I ran as fast as I could …. And “Into” another man, an old friend of mine!!!
For about 2 weeks I almost didn’t talked with him or respond his messages cause I was really just trying to forget about him… somehow I just wasn’t able to deal with our age difference so I thought it would be better to just let go and move on!!!!! …That was just until I saw him again and all the feelings came back in a very strong way :(. I was honest and told him about the other guy (meanwhile I already had stop seeing that other guy) and he felt hurt about it cause I decided all by myself and didn’t even talked with him about my fears and doubts (the “kid” ended up by teaching an important and true lesson to the 36 years old woman … never think for other or you might get it all wrong). So because of this I believe now he is afraid to commit to me… and that’s why he is always on and of.
You also said that they don’t like to be prodded and probed and interrogated… and this is something I don’t ever do!! Being an Aquarius I appreciate my independence too much and I don’t like to be prodded and interrogated so I don’t do that to anyone. We did had a fight sometime ago but that was because I got tired of asking him to do things and he would always say no but then out of the blue he would call me saying to go out or that he would come to my hose, so I was only seeing him when he decided to … I told him I was no puppet that was always willing and able to see him or being with him only when he was in the mood to do it.
Like Wenchie, I also believe that we didn’t commit to a relation yet, and most of the problems we have, are due to our lack of communication and both of us being afraid to open up… well at least I know that’s my problem!!!! It’s very difficult to me to let my feelings out on the open cause it makes me feel vulnerable and kind of week … stupid of me I know !!!!
Could you tell me some more about him? I already gave you his date, time and place of birth and I would really appreciate if you could see more about his behavior and as you stated “to give more insight into whether he is just going to be this immature, flip-flopping, gopher head-poppin guy...or if he has a chance of being someone cool for you.”
Well good luck everyone with your Taurus … I know I’ll need it with mine LOL
Hugs and lots of love
Ps – sorry for the long text :S