Thanks a lot: that helped. I know how to fix it now and it starts at home. Appreciate it.
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RE: Asking for Libra men to answer
I am a Libra male currently in a relationship (yes in love) with a Leo female. I am not a cheater although I do recognize there is a certain affinity for promiscuity that lurks deep inside. However, I would never let this instinct take over and ruin the most integral and pure part of any relationship I am in: in fact, although inside I have the instinct to chase after women, in practice, I despise the idea of having many meaningless sexual relationships.
I am a creature born to love: all I've ever wanted romantically was to have one beautiful woman who I could love and trust, showering her with all the compliments, love and flattery which flow so abundantly and naturally from the Libran soul.
As for vengeful, yes: we can be. If your Libra man is not getting an adequate return to that love he so generously and graciously engulfs you in, it will turn a switch in him and he will have an inner (good v. evil) battle on his hands. When the Libra male feels he is slighted, he has a compulsion to get even, make it right, to balance his scale. This can be done extremely in some cases, or like me, you can 'tame the beast' so to speak, and work hard not to overdo it, which takes fairness, exacting and meticulous contemplation plus a WEALTH of consideration for your partner.
The negative Libra is extremely powerful and it is NOT easy to contain him after he is instinctively released from his chains in response to lack of love or a misdeed. For those of you reading this who have a Libra partner, at all costs avoid setting this off: trust you will be better off having never seen this side of your partner for when the gloves are truly off, all that charm and love becomes guile and bitterness; Libra will break you and leave you in a heap.
In my current situation with my gorgeous Leo (I'd like a little advice on this btw) we are only able to see each other once a month if we are lucky. Because we spend so much time apart, primarily through text message, I rain down upon her heartfelt compliments to assure her of my love (I do this instinctively, I just read up on Leo females yesterday and patted meself on the back :p). The problem is its beginning to drain me: she seems rather careless when it comes to returning that love and there's not much snow left up on the mountain to fill my love river with you know?
Now she's a wonderful young lady, sweet, caring and generous but unless its in person, I don't get to feel much of this. She doesn't go outside herself like I do to express herself like I do; she has, in a word, become complacent: content to accept the compliments and love but not really doing much by way of returning it of her own initiative. Because of our circumstances, I understand it is difficult for us to get together but that complacence I mentioned makes it so she doesn't really try. I seem to be the only one concerned with actively trying to make something happen..I don't fault her for it because she's busy and stressed but, it doesn't even seem to cross her mind! Which of course baffles me, you know with the being in love and such LOL (gotta have a sense of humor 'bout this kind of thing or it drives you insane).
The thing that gets me is that she's always able to go out to her little girl's night things with her cool, but needy (sigh) friends without a second thought about seeing me! Don't get me wrong, Im not suspicious, this is only once a week if that, she gets picked up and its all easy for her but still it pisses off my inner Libra that she's so careless about spending time with other people and not MAKING time to be with her man.
Otherwise she tends to be forgetful, liable to forget what she had my hopes up for (don't mistake this for deception, just carelessness) and its taking its toll. Whenever she goes to see one of them I feel resentful and neglected. Im starting to feel like the only way to save myself the heartache is to reserve my attention (but that doesn't work Libra has no love if he is not expressing it) or just save myself the trouble and stop trying. I've tried to explain this time again to get her to do something about it but she's really not getting the memo whether its failure to comprehend, ambivalence, forgetfulness or some fuc ked up combination of the three, this Libra is struggling and he's feeling alone. I know the love is there, she's unbearably pure and childlike at heart, but a careless lover is such a torment to Libra. HALP!!