spiritual you couldn't be more correct, i sense that the only way for him to feel safe is to be by himself and having some woman once in a while. but something else too... what's with his family ?? oh my god i have to say. I love my mother too but he couldn't spend one day without seeing her for about 5 hours. Same goes for his sisters, nephews, even grandmother. I think that if he let me into his life i might be let's say his 12th priority (a very optimistic thought, that is), behind family, male friends, even work. I am starting to think, do i really need this...In logical terms no way, but my heart is leading me there for a very long time now. I hope to get over him, i believe in my heart he would never change. I think i might just continue loving him but i wish i could find another man, an aquarius for heaven's sake!
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RE: Are all cancer men sooo defensive and self protective?...
Are all cancer men sooo defensive and self protective?...
Please tell me this. I am a gemini girl and ok i know a cancer man would not be my ideal mate. However I have mercury and venus in cancer as well as mars in pisces, so i can understand waters and their sensitivities and all. However....I love this man for 3 years now, i know he loves me back, we were together for 1 year and then split (he wanted to), he made a relationship with another woman, but he kept on coming back to me, we were talking everyday, we were sleeping together blah blah. His relationship ended and he confessed that he was always thinking about me. For a year now he is alone, so am I, we see each other from time to time (we live in different towns), but he has developed a self protecting and defensive behavior, he reacts badly when i seem to ask for something more and keeps reminding me that "we are not together"...So, what the **** is wrong with him... He avoids commitment, but he always reaches out for me (especially when he senses I am pulling away). Where are all the traditional traits of cancer - commitment, family, kids lalalalalalala. I am a gemini and I am more into all these than he is!! And I am wondering, maybe I am a cancer and he is a gemini!! Helppppp!