Could anyone tell me if my recent ex will realize the truth and apologize?

She is preoccupied w/ a love interest. Not uncommon. It will pass and one of 2 things will happen 1.) they (the new couple) will grow used to eachother to a point where she will miss your friendship and fall back into you typical types of interactions (less fighting) or 2.) they will break up and she will need you to consol and be there for her.

Give it time and be patient (hard for an Aquarius) and understand that she is just in the grips of a budding new relationship and can't focus on much else atb this point. Give her some space and she'll miss you. And communicate w/ her without yelling or hurting. Tell her how you feel that she is neglecting you and that you still need her for support and friendship.

Does her love interest like you or dislike you?

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Well, thank you for your response. I'm not hoping for a reconciliation, but saddened by his judgemental nature. I'm assuming the shower is a symbol of emotional cleansing and the fact that he stops me before I get in makes a lot of sense. He doesnt seem to want me to get over him, and seems to want me to pine over him. I think the lack of communication could be the fact that he can not admit when he's wrong or say that he's sorry. I feel like that's what he's trying to say in my dream, but won't allow himself.

Thanks for the insight

Sorry if this topic is getting boring. I was hoping to get some input from this insightful forum.

I had a dream the other night and woke up perplexed. I'll give a little background first.

I recently broke up w/ someone who I was extremely drawn to and thought the world of. I thought we were soul mates. We essentially had irreconcilable differences but still love eachother very much.

I dreamt that ha and I were in a big house w/ a bunch of other people (I couldn't identify any of them individually, but felt very comfortable w/ all of them). It felt like a group vacation in a big rental house. I had the impression that my ex had something to say (something important) but we couldnt find any privacy in the house to talk. I just kinda shrugged and said we'll talk later. I then found myself in the bathroom, naked, about to step into the shower and I turn and he's standing there. I was a little shocked, but not self conscious about my nakedness. He said it was the only time he'd be able to talk to me privately, but when I was ready to listen to what he had to say, he just sat there looking like he had no idea what he should do. He looked sad and torn and reluctant to speak.

That's it. Not sure what it means but am willing to hear anyone else's interpretations.

Thanks in advance.

Robbigal

I am recently broken up, but not necessarily looking for love just yet. I have found that the good ones come along when you aren't seriously looking.

Thanks to both of you. I know I can't force anything. I am simply trying to remain open to messages that guide me to the best possible outcome for me. That may seem a little out there, but I see signs... sometimes they point TO him, sometimes they point AWAY from him. Yesterday, for example... I happened to drive past him... on a road that I am rarely ever on, in a city he lives 40 minutes away from. Neither of us drive down this road more than once every 3 or 4 months or so, and we were both on that same road at the same time of day. I don't believe in coincidences, and I feel that was a sign for me. It sparked a bunch of text messages where he eventually expressed a great deal of pain in dealing with his life without me... I don't know... He has always been like a magnet to me. Like a moth to a flame.

Signs that point away from him: After about 6-7 months of being committed to this guy, we are broken up for less than 1 week and I heared from 4 possible suitors (all of whom have no way of knowing I have broken up w/ him)! This tells me that the universe is, somehow making it known that I am available.

I feel like I am being pushed and pulled in different directions concerning my love life.

After a good deal of meditation, I have truly concluded that we should not be together. I am in the process of healing and moving on, but am still trying to be receptive to any signs that may point to the best possible path for me.

Thanks again for all your advice.

I am an Aquarian female (01/30/1980). Just recently broke up w/ the man I thought was the one (I'm pretty sure he's an Aries) and am wondering what lies ahead of me? I am very sad over this loss and hopelessly struggle to find a way to make it work (despite his stubornness and his hurtful comments). I have come to the conclusion that we are done, but feel stuck in relationship limbo so-to-speak. I don't want to move on in case he pulls his head out of his butt and realizes how happy we can be. But I don't actually think he will do this, and so... I'm in limbo. Are we past the point of no return? Are we even a good match? Any advice or guidance is greatly appreciated.

-Robin

Although THW seems to have covered all of the bases, I'll do my best to help w/ my interpretation. The same cards keep coming up b/c you have a pattern or their energies signify a strong influence in your life right now. You seem to be creating a pattern in your life and within yourself.

High Priestess: She is the guardian of the unconscious. Perhaps you like to seem mysterious or have a situation inwhich the answers are more obscure and less obvious. Perhaps she is challenging you to look beyond the surface and delve into the unconscious motivations behind your actions or words. Do you find yourself frequesntly saying, "I don't know why I do this to myself" or "why do I keep doing this?" If so, the priestess is telling you that there is an answer but you simply need to go behind the veil of consciousness and find your answers. It is also a card of Potential or hidden talent. Based on the self reflective nature of this card and the characteristics of the other 2 cards, I suspect that you are very intuitive and psychicly strong. Her continual reappearance is telling you to do some calm self-relection and tap into your abilities. Listen to your intuition.

Queen of Pentacles: She is warm, caring, grounded, resourceful and trustworthy. She is the nurturing go-to person when times are tough, and thus, has a lot of friends. She is very caring and nurturing of others. Her energy is showing up in your life, and b/c she keeps showing up, I suspect that she is describing you. People probably trust you with their secrets and call you first when they need a nurturing friend. Children and/or animals may gravitate to you. I suspect you are well grounded and down to earth. The energy of this card is either describing you or is asking you to adopt some of her style or characteristics, depending on where she lands in your reading.

Queen of Wands: She has a deep sense of self-assurance and strength. She has a lot of energy and is usually cheerful. She looks for the positive in the situation, no matter how bleak. She is popular and has a lot of friends and, b/c of her energy, is constantly on the go. Again, b/c she keeps poping up in your readings, I believe she is a description of you. Perhaps you need to adopt her characteristics of strength and self-confidence.

To sum it up: Both queens have a lot of friends... one b/c she is warm and nurturing and the other b/c she is admirable and self-confident. Perhaps you are puting everyone else first and neglecting yourself. The Priestess may be telling you to give yourself some time for self reflection and meditation in order to balance yourself out more. Only you can know the answer.

I hope that helps.

I am an Aquarian female (01/30/1980). Just recently broke up w/ the man I thought was the one (I'm pretty sure he's an Aries) and am wondering what lies ahead of me? I am very sad over this loss and hopelessly struggle to find a way to make it work (despite his stubornness and his hurtful comments). I have come to the conclusion that we are done, but feel stuck in relationship limbo so-to-speak. I don't want to move on in case he pulls his head out of his butt and realizes how happy we can be. But I don't actually think he will do this, and so... I'm in limbo. Are we past the point of no return? Are we even a good match? Any advice or guidance is greatly appreciated.

-Robin