cancerpig,

I think I replied before to this message-somewhere in here about your Virgo male. I think you should get together--as nothing is happening --and everyone is "nervous" when you meet up again after a passage of time--but I think if you saw each other maybe a year or so ago--I think not too much has probably changed appearance wise-and you have been talking--and the feelings seem stong--so start the dating/mating process--and see how it goes. You both share the same values-and you said he was a cutie pie a year ago--so connect. You may find your soul mate!

Cancerpig,

I think you should connect with this Virgo male since there is such a strong attachment -courting process already -you have exchanged a gift-and take it from there. I think it will be interesting to meet/or reconnect and talk about feelings-and physical needs etc as this man is really overworking or overcompensating or stressing about this relationship. You need to get this meeting process going on as it seems to be stressing everyone. If the vibes are as you say and you have both expressed how you feel--it seems right to connect --see how you guys flow together and if it flows real well- perhaps you can start planning for the future. I think you know what I mean.

Worthy 1248''

sorry--I was replying to others comments and I didn't put down the folks I was trying to reply to. Not out here too long in this chat stuff. Hope the folks know/ or can figure out.

Cancermen,

Sounds like a person that had problems with past relationships---so see if you can't go with the flow. Be friends and go do things together. Maybe he'll warm up eventually if you just go along and then he might not feel threatened. What have you got to lose if you care for the person?

Buffers,

I am sorry to here that there mught be a battle for some independance--but i thought that might come from insecurity or something,however I believe most women have the "b---s" to handle this situation and can dish it out also. I think it also helps the family if a little more dollars comes in--either to help the family or to help the community you live in. It is possible I believe to have loving family situations with children and provide services to the community you live in --or work for a better community. I would always want to take care of the community I live in--as they take care of us too!!

Don't people in relationships start as friends first and go from there,and don't couples eventually reveal all their secrets --or they come out anyway. You both may know alot of stuff about each other---which is normal in relationships---so just let the energy flow and see where it goes--and stop worrying. Enjoy the time and the relastio nship---they way it is and was.

You need to teach that man how to express his feelings---and he will learn if he desires to stay in/values a relationship with you. You may need to guide this man carefully if he is sensitive--aren't all men?? You might have to explain what you want in the relationship and how he can ago about making this a more satisfying relationship. If he doesn't wish to make the effort---Well--that your decision.

Well said Gemini Twin 52. Rising Leo here. Completely agree. i can't say that the sign "traits" will definately determine the relationship strength--as said by others in this discussion. It should go like this: as others have also stated; It takes two--and if two people care about each other, they will work it out through discussion , compromise, and love I hope ! I also believe in destiny a little bit too. If you are supposed to be together --you will be together!! Doesn't that sound wonderful--but I believe that!!

try some Pink hair extensions in your hair/mane to show your support. Pink is shown for the breast cancer movement I believe.

You may have a terribly insecure sensitive person on your hands. He may have been really badly hurt before because Scorpio people are really tough folks and it takes more that he usual stuff to hurt them.. You may have to--or try to provide more loving reassurance to this person--he might have problems in showing what he needs or doesn't know how to get what he needs. If you love this person--you will know what he needs as there should be a really strong connection between you both. Don't let him constantly test you--and don't take any abuse--and give it back---I think it is a big test--to see if you will leave. Once he feels better about the relationship and that you are going to be together to work with him on this relatioship---he'll probably stop the b---!!