I am an Aquarian woman and my partner is also an Aquarian. Our birthdays are 10 years and 2 days apart. We get along very well. We are both emotional and lovey dovey most of the time. We communicate very well in that when there is the slightest hint of conflict we are both just as miserable and wanting to solve it. It gets solved after a thinking process of about half a day where all the sides have been reviewed by both. I feel I am very fortunate and would never agree with the statement: "Opposites attract." I feel that the more you have in common the better. As you get older you love the companionship and comraderie that comes from having
joint hobbies and interests but also ensuring you have sufficient time on your own to do things apart. Aquarians are people with strong opinions and if their partner has like opinions about the same things, life is heaven. They also need freedom to pursue their own interests because they are well-rounded people who are often engaged in intellectual pursuits.
I don't believe that Aquarians are stereotypically unemotional at all. It depends on the experiences the person has had. We have both had several disadvantages that have made us realize just how lucky we were to meet. He had to deal with a number of women who never were at his level and had various idiosyncracies. I had to deal with a partner (Scorpio) who was only ever into work, work, work, for his validation. As for Scorpio men being extremely lusty, he certainly was not.
Aquarians are often not easily understood by others because they are planning and thinking all the time and are often daydreaming or musing about topics or solutions that seem a little far-fetched to others, yet are very legitimate pastimes which often lead to exciting outcomes.
As for being into all things technical (another stereotype), that is also dependent on a person's age and influences...There are many people over age 50 who refuse to get into computers because they have others in their life who think similarly and they prefer not to stir the pot. Granted, Aquarians usually do not let naysayers get in their way most of the time. I know some Aquarian women who are interested in only the basics about computer literacy and couldn't care less about checking out every aspect of it or of any other new item in the marketplace.
I believe Aquarians are generally people who have many interests or careers with several sidelines. I myself am a professional in both music and art and teach them about half time each. I find I have lots of energy to pursue other things as well. I am an avid cook, reader,
organizer, socializer, gardener, and hostess. My life is full of productive things and I have little time to waste on getting embroiled in what is not fruitful.