can you give me an analysis for me: September 24, 1987 and him: October 4, 1988
Thank you Captain
One thing that is stood out to me is you talked about the competitive urges. That is so far a big problem for us although you said that we are 'not particularly susceptible to internal power struggles'. I feel like for the most part that is all we do and it an either be cute and fun or turn down right nasty and it does have a major impact on the people around us because we have the same circle of friends and when one of our competitive moments turn bad we tend to put our friends in the middle.
Another thing you mention is he is looking for security and comfort/ a place where he can be himself and boy is that so correct. And it amazes me since we are both so young that he always acts like he is carrying the world on his shoulders and is just looking for someone to love him, something or someone to find peace in. He is always so stressed. But the thing about mothering him throws me because more than anything he fathers me. He always wants to be in control, at least he says and acts so. It's so confusing