You know so much lol! Does this mean I have alot of Water signs in my chart? Does this mean I am more water than Air? I am confused with excitement! tell me more?
No! I would call him dear! I am currently dating a cancerian man! But I talk to him and I listen to him and I am very patient! He asked me to be the mother to his kids and even said he wants to marry me, after over hearing me say that I wanted to be married by the age of 30! We had a couple of bumps in the road and then he asked me to move in with him. I moved in and then he became distant and alot of things were going on for him! He told me that when he gets stressed he does not like anyone around because he takes it out on them! He stoped coming home, It made me very stressed! I kept pressing and pressing and really I should have held on! He tried to brake it off and I told him that I still love him and wanted to be with him! It was a case of he did not want to get his heart broken again! He as much as said so.
He has played mind games with me, you can read my post its up here too lol! Sometime he does not answer his calls, he treats me like a stranger! However I have learnt to understand him and not take his hurt personal. But since Friday everything has been back to almost normal! He knows that I can take the rough with the smooth and that I am here for him! I send him text telling him things will get better in regards to his personal situation and that I love him! But not as much as I used to because he never appreciated it (well I dont thing he did)! You will find alot of people on here with Cancerian Men that are having the same problem! Dont be put off everyones circumstances are different!
For me I am staying with him because for what we have been through in a short space of time no one has been through in 20 yrs of marriage! I have fought long and hard for this and I refuse to give him up!
Text him or call him he might think you dont care or dont want him? Make sure you tell him how you feel about him! If he says its over then at least you know where you stand instead of feeling low! Good Luck!
He is done with the testing now! Im all tested out! He wanted to make sure I was not going to cheat on him like his ex did! She also made him do a paternity test on there child? (The child is literaly his twin) and because it was not in her name she wants it done again?
If she is certain he is the father why do another paternity test? This girl is crazy and that is what is making my Bubzy the way he is!
He said to me the other day, as long as I can handle the situation between he and his ex partner (mother to his only child) then we can be together just fine! The more and more this Saga with her goes on the more and more I wonder why I fought so hard to be with him! We talk everyday on the phone sometimes its just a quick hi and bye. We see each other almost everyday but with us working different shifts its only quick! (We dont work together).
When he is really stressed out he wont answer his calls, I used to take it to heart but now It does not bother me! I just let him call me back which 9/10 he does. Or I text him if it is important. I think that I will be in this for the long haul!
AQUABUBBLES is my DC my Descendant? And what does that mean? Sorry I dont understand as much as I thought I did lol
Oh my this is the truth!
I dont mind your long reply! Thats just what we Aquarians are like! Lol
Well I gave him space and he came home cooked dinner for me and left. He came back later on that evening and I was out partying but he never called to see where I was. I went to this after party and he was there! That night I had made the effort to go out! Hair, makeup and a dress (Im more of a jeans and t-shirt person). I went over and said Hi! He was like are you going to get me a drink!
We talked and talked and we sorted a few differences out! He came home! However it was less than a day for him go back to his same Routine only difference is Im not changing mine. Still not running to my phone when it rings im giving it time letting it ring out and if he callls me back then I answer. I am not texting him constantly that I love him and I am there for him. He should know this by now especially as I have the keys to his place! But I am going to and I know I sound foolish! Stick by him because I am not someone who gives up so easily! (Heart and sleeve). I have told him I wont tolerate this behaviour too long because there is only so much one person can take! Hopefully I have passed all his tests now and he can just appreciate what he has in me.
Stay tuned Lord knows its not over yet! Cancerians we got to love them!
From personal experience! I have to say they all seem the same! And its strange because There is no need for the mind games!
My cancer man, the first day he asked me to be his woman said are you faithful. Later on I learned his ex had cheated on him, he puts me through all sorts of weird and wonderful tests. Well wonderful to him and weird to me because I dont understand at all! In all honesty it makes me want to not trust him! But at the same time I love him more because I want to help him let go of his past!
At the begining we were inseperable, we did everything together he would call all the time and want me around! Then he asked me to move in with him and I was like are you sure its what you want? Since I moved in he has been distant and stand offish. He has said that he just wants to be friends for now as he is under alot of stress! He changed that to were on a break thats all? Yet he does not want me to move out of his place! Or find a new man?
Apparently this is normal behaviour! Not to me it is not! He told me in the begining that he likes to go away for weeks or months at a time to get some alone time but I thought nothing of it! Sometimes his phone will be off, sometimes he does not answer it or reply to text.
This time I have decided to reverse the role I am not calling him or texting him sweet nothings (I love you babes, Going to bed now baby, love you). And it appears to be working! But at the same time I will not take this to far as it will push him away and he will think I have moved on!
If you think he is worth it then wait but never try and make him jealous as it will backfire!
Arh that is so kind! I think that I was a bit miffed about the comment on maturity! I am not a teenager ( love struck teen). I am a sensible person who wears there heart on there sleeve! I am brutally honest and I have alot of patience! I looked into this as I have always been into astrology and strongly believe in it!
I am glad that its not only me with a crazy Cancerian man to deal with! I have given him a wide birth and started to concentrate on me! No calls, no texts just space as he asked for! Maybe distance will make the heart grow fonder! But who knows I can only listen to his feelings and what he wants and the rest is up to Fate! But I am staying away he knows I am there for him!
I was with a Virgo and to this day he still loves me and if I date someone else he stills says we are together. Its funny really how he still wants to be with me after all this time! Btut he is a womaniser!
Virgo men are great!
I belive this Cancer Men confusing Mine was my friend of 10 yrs started dating and our friendship well its deep and meaningful but our relationship is hell of strange! He says he loves me and would never hurt me and he cant hurt me but he has! I stand by him through everything and I think that is half the problem! He knows I will let him get away with it! I am a very forgiving person I dont have hate or Malice in my heart!
But as of today I wont be chasing him around when he does not answer the phone, I wont be calling him or texting him sweet nothings I am just going to leave him be! He will get space alright!