to mycancerbrokemyheart: He is enjoying your torment because it was the end of the world when U were late. They love to see you suffer. Just when you stop giving a flying you know what- he will come back like nothing happened and be all warm and cuddly ugh makes me sick!
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RE: Ego and the Cancer Male
RE: For anyone that knows cancers: relationship help please.
Cancer Men are selfish egomaniacs who take pleasure by torturing the girls that like them. By saying something like, you're a wonderful girl, someday you'll find everything you deserve what they really mean is , "Im really enjoying how rejecting you is feeding my ego, and I want you to think about me morning noon and night until the day you die." The minute you tell them to buzz off or to "stop calling you." They will get all sweet within a few days (probably 1 day) and keep texting or calling and "innocently" see how you are doing since they rejected you.
Then, once you have truly stopped giving a shit what they think, they will come to you like a lost little puppy with the sweetest most innocent words very comforting just when you need it most. They will promise you the sun and the moon and they will shower you with love love love!!! The problem here, is that they shower you with love NOT for YOUR needs...But for their OWN selfish insecurities to be fed. They are Takers. Not Givers. They dont know how. I have dated cancer men for the past 5 years (2 of them) and they are completely self serving (even when you feel them giving, its just enough for them to get the affection, attention, security, sex, cuddling, obsession, that THEY need to feel better.) The minute you start showing interest again, They will ignore you for the football game, Call you names, say they dont love you, get jealous over NOTHING and of course, andy punishment ( and OH THERE WILL BE PUNISHMENT) that they bestow upon you will undoubtedly ALWAYS ALWAYS be YOUR fault. I love these lil f'ers, but if I had it to do allover again I would say HELL to the NO!