I agree, there's other places for that, not here!

Gypsy dreams, Thanks for your reply! Yes I think you're right, we've been down different paths all along, I've attempted to go down his path and convert to his way of life while at the same time trying to keep up with my own life too, and I'm exhuasted and drained. I've gotten nothing in return but heartache.

Orchid how long have you been dating him?

Sunny I know it sounds strange what I told about the reasons he gave for breaking up with me, but he does seem overly concerned with petty things like that. His is abnormally bothered by anything going wrong in his environment. I'm really not clumsy or careless, he just construes every little mistake as being so. He seems to want to live in a bubble of perfection. He seems completely unable (or unwilling) to handle conflict of any kind.

Orchid, not sure what details to give but I will tell you that our relationship has been extremely sexual. This seems to be the draw for us. We're very physically compatible, it's been almost like an addiction.

Dear Sunny and Orchid, thanks so much for your responses. I have not in the past typically been a needy or clingy person. But in this case, maybe I have. I've tried to play it cool so as not to scare him off, but the truth is that I moved to a different state where I no NO ONE. I've essentially latched myself onto this guy because I'm all alone. He's all I have; my family is 3 1/2 hours away and I also think I have serious rejection issues from being hurt in the past. And the answer to your question Sunny about has he ever told me he loved me? Yes in the beginning after 4 months of dating, he started telling me all the time. I'm the one who held back in the beginning because I thought it was moving too fast. He pushed though and I let my guard down and fell in love with him. Then shortly after, he stopped telling me. Lately he has told me a few weeks ago that he loves me, once.

Yes they're very critical. My virgo once ditched me because he said he's not "used to being around someone like me" His examples were that I sometimes misplace things, I broke a bowl, I spilled a glass of water like a year ago. We argued about weird things too, but he refused to talk about anything that went any deeper than surface level. I had to walk on eggshells. Anyway, I broke up with him a week ago because I couldn't take his non-communication anymore. I'm really sad but I know that the whole relationship just wasn't normal and very unhealthy.

Thanks Sunny, you are so right about that, we as women need to be stronger and stop worrying so much. Although I do find, the more I read about it, there seems to be a strong indication of Virgo men being VERY non-communicatve and cold-hearted as compared to the other signs. I wish you would do a reading for me, I am so utterly confused by this man and really want help to know if I should walk away or not. I'm so torn!

Hey sexy sassy, what do mean a weird relationship if you don't mind me asking? I'm in a really weird one too. the more I read about Virgo men, the more I'm seeing this. We're both Virgos with Virgos. Maybe we can get some insight together on this.

I've been with 2 Virgo men, I'm a Virgo too. The Virgo women...so different from the Virgo men! I've read a lot of posts about Virgo men, seem to be pretty consistent. They're sooo critical, non-communicative, cold and unfeeling., but yet so sexual. Seems to be the chase and the fact that we can't have them that really is the appeal. what's the best approach with these guys? If you show too much feeling, they run. If you back off a little, they walk away. Is it really worth it?

Ms Sunny, I need your help! I got a reading by 2 psychics on phone and I was appalled at the inaccuracy of their readings of the situation! I've read some of your posts and was so impressed by your insight. I am a virgo 9/10/71. The man I'm in love with, 9/14/59, first name letter P. Been with him for almost 2 years. I'm so sad and don't know what to do. Please help and if you need more specifics let me know. Thanks!!!