Posts made by rainyrain

I started seeing someone bout 1 yr ago, but initially i stated i dont want a serious relationship,, i just want an " IT IS WHAT IT IS FOR THE MOMENT I'LL CYA WHEN I CYA!" But im getting smothered with "who's that?" on my phone and "where did u get that"? with anything I wear and "If you still keep in touch with any male friends then Im being disrespectful!" He is helping me out financially right now but im starting to think its not worth the stress i go through and its gettin to complicated with having to explain my every move like if I dont answer the phone he wants to know why i didnt answer and what was i doing that i couldnt answer,even gettin to the point of accusing me ignoring him cause i was with someone else , just very insecure accusations and if I dont have a excuse thats believable,which is the truth ,he still doesnt believe me and uses the financial help he gives as leverage ,I know I should get out now but i thought maybe there might be another alternative,or maybe im crazy for thinkin that there could be a solution to this mess of a relationship lol