WaterMoonChild...quoting that you lose interest if your calls are not answered...what if its the Cancer that is aloof and does the exact same thing. I have been off and on with a Cancer man and he doesn't seem to understand the concept of consideration for others but yet, this is the very thing he complains abt of others?? What iz that... he doesn't see how checking inif you are on the road traveling is being considerate, or gong on a date and him calling to make sure you made it home safely.....I could go on and on but to chime in on the original poster...My Cancer does the same thing in when he sees me he is like a bee on honey...he literally can't keep his hands off me...It's the very same when I try to leave. He is a dirty talker during this time too. Later he is mainly quiet and when he is not he is constantly talking abt doing a million things all at one time....I don't know if this is common with Cancers but he seems to work tirelessly to please everyone around him to gain approval or acknowledgement but when it comes to the one that does the same for him and tries to takes care of him he completely overlooks me. How disheartening this is and he doesn't seem to see it. By the way 7/4 is his bday as a few others I have seen here his rising is in Taurus(Mean/Stubborn) and Moon in Virgo(Analytical/Strategic)... What you all say??

Hey July4thBaby...The post was Cancer men...I'm so confused! I wanted your insight being that you share the same bday as my Cancer 7/4/72. I met this guy and immediately felt connected with him. We talked as if we've known each other for years...I even allowed him to touch, kiss etc me even though I'd only met up with him once. Very unusal for me but it's something abt him. He is always running, running, and running doing something. He never slows down bec I know this is his way of not having to think of past hurts. He can be sensitive but at the same time very inconsiderate...Ex: we got out spend most of the nite to the wee of the morning 2gether....he doesn't call on the way home or even text to make sure I have safely made it home. He will put you on hold and spk w/ others and come back and spk of the phone call which is usually insignificant..not an emergency and doesn't see a prob with it. He complains all the time abt what he does for other people, which he always tries to be a hero/superman to be noticed and appeciated but he never gets the adoration he desires. I see this and try to give him those things and he completely misses it.....He goes for days without calling and then calls in which he is complaining abt all things around him...says he will call you back and its quite a while later.....I could go on and on Help me out here.

Hey Perla2...I didn't get a reply so I'll go for what i know. I am a Leo and as your guy, shy away from the spotlight even though almost always people set us center stage anyway...it's just the Sun ruler of the Lion. I have a Cancer rising which is the reasoning there. I agree as well abt me being the center for our lovers..Because we give our all to a relationship on all levels, we expect for you to appreciate that and realize the significance. We are very loyal and expect it from others. I will admit I have a few relationships as all of them seem to offer so much of what the others do not. We crave a challenge and must be fulfilled in a relationship for it to thrive. We/I love the idea and the feeling of being in love therefore, we usually spread it around..do not be alarmed as this is not necessarily physical. Since we have to have open and free flowing communication, we seem to get caught up in many emotional affairs. We cannot stand to see others suffer or going without; therefore we are often the ear, shoulder, lover of many. We love to be appreciated and complimented when it is warranted as we are usually helping someone in need, volunteering, or working to improve the schools and community. We tend to have high expectations of others as we do of ourselves which leads to much disappointment. We expect others to think, act, respond as we do. We expect that if you love us then we will receive a call, text or e-mail throughout the day confirming those thoughts. Flowers or a surprise weekend getaway as we love Gifts and affection. WE thrive on showing our generosity to our lovers and pull no stops in treating our King/Queen as royalty. MUSTs for a Leo are: LOYALTY, SECURITY, FREEDOM 2 ROAM(know we'll return to home to the one we love to protect), be COMPASSIONATE, TRUSTWORTHY & FAITHFUL ....I am adamet on OPEN COMMUNICATION & BE ADVENTUROUS. We are just big kittens and love to play and have fun while enjoying all that life has to offer...jut love and support us. Stick to the above and we'll be hearing wedding bells....NOW I have been on and off with an Aries(4/17/71)for over a yr...this relationship has been one battle for me...this person can be highly volatile, sexual, paranoid, sensual etc...1 min we are intimate and spkg ov how good we r 2gether and the next she is saying bye for ever as she thinks I am playg games with her??? Her Moon is in Capricorn and rising in Taurus....Please Enlighten ME!

I was in a live-in relationship with a Taurus for 5 yrs....I agree they love gifts...my Taurus loved to be praised..whatever his passion display interest and be very supportive of it. They can be extremely stubborn and set in their way. Sometimes they will retreat and give you the "silent treatment"..this is their way and for me a Leo, was a challenge to my personality....I would get this person in a quite place with no interruptions and do what you do. His reaction to your subtle but yet seductive moves will dictate your next move. If you are good at your job...business is business...make sure its understood, business continues no matter what. I sent a response to you on the help with Cancer Man thread some days ago as I wanted you to respond. I have a Cancer in my life now born 7/4/72 and would like yo to give me some feedback...would you please go take a look and holla back. Hope I helped some above...Queen

Can someone please enlightent me on the Moon in Sagittarius @ exactly 22:16. It will last

until 29 August 2009. I am a Leo and my Moon is in Sagittarius. I just want to experience all it has to offer! Thanks

Thnx for your response rnrchick...I do appreciate any and all feedback rcvd. To answ your question I want to understand the behavior bec I am really interested in this person and I am open to the challenge of working through ehat maybe keeping them abay. I am still living my life and have no intentions of ending or even slowing them. I love life and know that I am blessed to still be here to enjoy it! I appreciate your response and respect your decions and what you would do BUT AGAIN I asked for replies that would help me to understand maybe from other Taurus women, by the way her bday is 4/21/76, or someone who is a little more sensitive to what I would like in a relationship instead of 'of why would you want to understand this behavior;. STILL wanting POSITIVE feedback !!!!!!!!!Thnx

Thx for all your replies and insight keep them coming.....question for Evilizabeth "are you married or in a commited relationship?" I am inquiring as to get to know what then draws or attracts you to someone. If someone ask you out and you run the other way then how do you date/mingle or ever get to know anyone. Tell me more abt your chart..rising , venus and moon. I am eagarly awaiting your response. Thnx again

helloooo...any insight?

So what is it when your Aries lady calls constantly and says how much she wants intimacy and more of a relationship and then her actions are the exact opposite. It's almost like a strong chase and then when the mouse is caught...she doesn't act....HELP. K2thaT seems to be straightforward and insightful...holla back!

Whoa Erlybird54..although I appreciate any and all feedback...I must say that yours seemed to be very biased. Have you dated/been in a relationship with a Leo? As for my situation, I can honestly say I have been nothing but kind, generous and very understanding of this Taurus. I been respectful as in giving them space even when they never clearly come out and say that is what they need. I've given time to open up and share their true feelings....at times they would and the next day as stated above ...Mean, Rude and Obnoxious comments and behavior. This forum is meant to open and share to help, not to tear others down.