I know we Taurus women take things to heart, are really great partners but we are not perfect by any means. Some are bossy (not me), messy (me but I remember where everything is) and tend to put things away until we can't take it anymore and then explode. Our partners and family and employers may think it comes from nowhere but it does not. It is that we are willing to go above and beyond but when these cross the line and ask too much, we feel abused. Or if someone doesn't give enough.
I have the same issues right now and am very sad but cannot to someone who gives me the silent treatment because I was unreasonable when he has been more than unreasonable and non caring and sharing. I support myself and live separately but we saw each other often and knew each other's familes but I guess there were super compatibility issues and then he is just so stubborn. I am not a stubborn Taurus until I have been abused.
Just try to keep busy and it's okay to cry. Taurus does not like pain and if you go back you know it will happen again because sometmes we are weak and try to see it from their point of view which is not the reality. What we WISH were their point of view. A lot of times men will promise the moon and then do a manipulation trip to make YOU feel bad about it then it will happen again. I say cut your losses and if he is worth it after time he will come back. It is EXTREMELY difficult for a Taurus because usually break-ups that are not dysfunctional are more easy to handle but once you become manipulated and you can be so smart normally and maybe never met a manipulator in nerd's clothing...they know just how to pull the strings of a Taurus to hook you. You will find someone else. Most men don't do these things particularly if they appear status quo on all levels, intelligent nice, as long as they are not cheap and say you are a life partner but don't care if you suffer...but expect you to take care of them when you get older...because of some favor they did you but with Virgos after the initial few years you have to ask...just cry and go to yoga and latin dance or zumba or other activities. You will meet other people and laugh again. It may take time and you will laugh maybe with a male friend if you are a Taurus you might not be ready for awhile but we Taurus women always find someone to love us ...our ruling planet is Venus and we are not curmudgeons (sp)!