He finally talked to me

He finally talked to me

thank you that's exactly what I was planning on doing

thank you it really helps me feel better being able to talk to people going through similar situations

but since you are a cancer also, I have a question

he has court on thursday do you think I should text him "good luck" and that's it? (to show that I still care)

or continue to give him space and wait for him to contact me

or move on

nope still haven't heard from him

today is going to be 2 weeks since I said anything to him

and I've been feeling really down since friday

starting to lose hope
I hope it works out for you though

what you guys may see as negatives we see as blessings because we can feel deeper than most people it's not like we could just change who we are though

atleast I loved somebody with all my soul and it was magical while it lasted

and my gut is telling me he still cares and he'll talk to me eventually but everybody goes through hard times when they need to be alone and try to make things right with themselves first. And if we do end up getting back together I think it will be better than before because it would be like we could start over and learn from our mistakes. But I'm not dumb I also know that there's a big possibility that things won't work out how I want them to so I'm preparing myself for the worst

but deep down I still have hope, and my heart tells me it's not over

@littleHarmonica thank you I really appreciate the help

I mean I feel like I'm doing a good job handling the break up but I still feel like we had something special

I really hope he just needs time and space but hopefully he'll come back

haha yeah that is so true somebody finally gets me lol

I also have to say that this has been the longest relationship for both of us

and a couple months ago he told me he was depressed because he feels like he can't even count on his family and he still lives at home and his dad is constantly telling him mean things. And it was sad he cried to me for an hour. And about 2 weeks before he dumped me he crashed his car and it seemed like he was really stressed out about that.

his best friend found out that we broke up and told me he would try to talk to him for me. He says that he asked my ex if he still likes me and misses me and that he said yes. And all he talks about is how we used to fight. And that he tries to act like he doesn't care but you could tell he does

yeah I would keep texting him but I did send him a message saying I'm sorry for not leaving him alone but it's been a week since I've said anything to him.

but idk I just can't help but feel that it's not over yet

I was with a cancer for 3 years I always felt like h was the one. I felt like I could count on him for anything. I thought he was my best friend. I thought he would always be there for me. We both assumed we would get married one day and always casually talked about or future together. We did have our fair share of fights, but not as bad as other couples. He would aways tell me that I was the only girl he wanted to be with and could talk to and be himself with and how there was no other girl that even compared with me. I felt we were soulmates, and still do. The day before he dumped me we had a fight, but it wasn't that bad. He told me he feels like a jerk because all he does is make me cry. I went home and we didn't speak. Until the next day I tried talking to him but he ignored me, a few moments later I got a text I knew it was going to be him and I knew he was going to break up with me I could feel it. And I knew he was seriouse. I also knew he wasn't going to want to talk to me at all after that. When he broke up with me he told me he swears to god that he really does love me but it's not healthy for us to stay together because supposedly we fight too much. It's been a month and he doesn't want to talk to me at all, he even blocked me from facebook. He hadn't told his family or best friend yet until I told them. And everybody keeps telling me I should move on because it's clear that he doesn't love me anymore. But most of the time I feel like we're still togehter and he just doesn't want to talk to me right now. I feel like if I give him space he will come back, because from the bottom of my heart I feel like we're soulmates. I try to tell myself that it's over and to move on but I can't. Because I can't help it nomatter how much I try I still feel like he loves me. What should I do?