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RE: Requesting a reading
Thank you for your advise! I'll be sure to report back here when this is finally sorted out someday. I'm too agreeable and I love him so much it's hard to put my foot down...especially when he visibly shows remorse and gives me affection. But then he disappears again and I'm left just as hurt as before, if not more because I can't believe he hasn't come to his senses yet and is still confused. I'll stay strong! I'm supposed to be after all, I'm a leo
RE: Requesting a reading
Thank you! I think you are bang on with the fact that I want to be a risktaker...I definitely had no problem going ahead without knowing for sure what would happen but it also scared me a little. I wanted to take a risk and jump right in to see what happens, but I know I was just trying to ignore my cautious side. It definitely did start out like a house on fire...even after two years we still are intensely attracted to one another. I feel he did hang on to some resentments and hurt for so long, then he just blurted it all out one day and I was in shock! He had kept his feelings hidden so well. It did start out feeling like we were different people, then it grew into so much more. When he left he said he didn't think we had anything in common, are you kidding? I tried to open his eyes because we have so many things in common it's ridiculous, but he was trying to focus on a few little things instead of the big picture (he admitted to making excuses).
So in your opinion this may take time, and I shouldn't waste it waiting around for him...should I always leave the door open for him then? I haven't dated yet but I've flirted, they just don't get me excited though because they aren't him. I'm not ready to get into a new relationship yet, but should I in the future? I guess it's a silly question because I don't know what would happen in the future so I will find out. But I guess my question then is what should I do when he wants to see me again? I don't want to be cold and ignore him because I love him so much, being friends is a little painful for me but we also don't seem to be friends right now...he flirts with me in a way and it feels in between friends and strong romantic feelings. Is staying friends while each person is dating unhealthy? This part seems to be a confusing area for me.
RE: Help with Scorpio male, sad breakup!
Oh and the last time I saw him two weeks ago, we had a great time talking and laughing (tried to get comfortable and pretend that nothing has happened) so we had fun and the thing is, he couldn't stop smiling at me and staring at me with those hypnotic eyes...I felt like he was looking into my soul and it made me uncomfortable! I love him so much it's just all of the mixed signals he gives me scare me, he stared at me so lovingly (sometimes when I wasn't looking but I saw him at the corner of my eye) and I wasn't sure what to think, because now he's disappeared again...
RE: Requesting a reading
To The Captain again! I'm also new to the forums...I'm sorry, but I've seen you've done some readings for people and I'm wondering if you could do one for me? I've posted a lot of my story in my previous thread and I'm curious if you have any insights to my situation, we're both young and inexperienced and I fear that it was just bad timing, but I wish we could come back together some day and be happy. My birthdate is 07/24/87 and his is 11/13/84. Will our relationship work out in the end? I've learned so many things about myself and grown but I still feel like we complete each other, it may be my inexperience talking...but I wonder if he could ever open up to me and have it be amazing for both of us. I appreciate your help!
RE: What does it mean when you dream of snakes?
I looked up snakes also in my dream book called, "The Element Encyclopedia of 20,000 Dreams" by Theresa Cheung. Snakes are featured in different sections so I'll give you all the descriptions I find:
"Snakes are archetypal symbols that have both negative and positive associations, being on one hand thought evil predators and on the other hand agents of healing and transformation. Dreams that feature snakes in them will also arouse different reactions depending on your associations with snakes in waking life. If you are like most people and snakes arouse fear and loathing in you then if your dream focuses on a snake it may well turn into a nightmare. Snakes can often represent intimidating situations in waking life.
The most common dream is a pit of snakes of pile of snakes lying on the floor around you; this may represent the many worries that are threatening you, or the poisonous words and innuendo of people around you. If, however, you admire snakes or keep them as pets, your dream is unlikely to have been sinister. Dreams that feature snakes poised to strike their victims with venom or suffocate them with their coils may be warning you about an emotionally cold person who is suffocating you in waking life. If there is a viper in your midst or a snake in the grass, someone who appears friendly but who is about to stab you in the back?
If the snake doesn't try to attack or harm you in your dream, it may be referring to physical or emotional healing that has begun in your waking life. If the snake sheds its skin, this may indicate your desire to cast off the past. According to Freud, the snake is a phallic symbolic so it could also denote repressed se xual urges or fears of masculine energy that are creating power issues in your relationships.
Pythons in dreams embody the power to dominate a situation by having a potent grasp on it. If in your dream the python is not menacing but a benevolent presence, it is likely to be a reminder of your power to cope with a challenge by wrapping yourself around it. Pythons also represent people or situations who are trying to put the squeeze on you in waking life. For example a jealous lover who watches your every move or a financial commitment that limits your freedom to spend."
"Snakes are the most common dream reptile. They can be symbols of trouble or male se xuality but they can also represent the afterlife or the potential for transcending a difficult situation"
- another section says that the hiss of a snake in a dream represents se xuality
Help with Scorpio male, sad breakup!
Hello everybody, I've been so lost and confused I was hoping for some insight into my breakup and whether or not it can be saved. My scorpio boyfriend broke up with me 5 months ago. I was (still am) crushed.
Details: I'm a Leo female (07/24) near the cusp with my moon and venus both in Cancer, and a Virgo ascendent. I consider my personality to be a mix of Cancer and Leo, my confident Leo side comes out when I'm in comfortable social situations and also in my intimate relationships, but I'm also a very sensitive person so I'm shy too, also very caring and nurturing like a mother (a cute and sexy fun mother).
He's a Scorpio male (11/13) with his moon also in Cancer, his venus in Sagittarius with a Capricorn ascendant...he's playful, passionate about all his interests, goofy sense of humour, very sensitive and loving, also excruciatingly honest and blunt in a cute way. He's part way between being immature and aloof, and also goal oriented and very serious in life. He has some bad experiences from his past (addiction) which he barely touched upon - always being mysterious, has some issues he holds inside about his family, and he also claimed he was a really angry person inside....yet never showed that side to me, we never fought about anything (he only got upset with me a few times before the breakup but I just laid low).
Okay so overall we had an amazing relationship for 2 years, lots of love, respect for each other, had tons of fun, and of course amazing physical relationship. Everything seemed to be going well, we lived together and got along famously. We talked about our future, our career directions and living situation, getting married eventually and having kids... Then what happens? He starts freaking out about being committed and walks right out the door one day after explaining that he was really confused, scared, and needed his space. That was 5 months ago, and it's been an emotional rollercoaster ever since.
I thought it was over and done so I packed his things and had him pick them up. Then he calls me upset saying he wasn't sure about breaking up and he wanted some space for a while, but he didn't want to give me false hope. I tried to get him to talk to me but most of my attempts failed, he just avoided me altogether because he said his emotions were still raw. We saw each other a few times in a friendly way after, then he got weird and upset at me for something silly so I backed off and gave up altogether. Once that happened he came by wanting me back, he said he never stopped loving me and felt like a piece of him was missing. We agreed to work on things...and started seeing each other again for a few weeks but he wouldn't call me at all until he wanted to hang out, then we would and I wouldn't hear from him for a while after. After getting weird mixed messages, his avoiding, but also some expressions of love and intimacy I expressed wanting to talk about things because I was confused....then he up and disappeared for two weeks!!
After 2 weeks he wanted to see me, so we did and we had fun...then after that he's disappeared for going on another 2 weeks now. I'm completely crushed and devastated, he was the love of my life and I haven't lost any of those feelings yet over the past 5 months He says he loves me but he's also so distant and I have no idea what to think.
What should I do!?! Should I continue giving him space and seeing him every once in a while until he makes some sort of concrete decision about us, or should I completely give up, ignore him (when he does contact me again) and make him lose me for once, then wait to see if he wants to come back for real?
I'm sorry for the long post...I've completely lost my direction on how to handle this situation.