Sweetdee-

Thank you for your reply. Your reading makes perfect sense to me as my partner and I have been through the ringer this year. He is a great guy but also does try to control and run full speed again. Thank you for your advice. I have been sensing changes coming which your reading supports. We shall see! Happy New Year!

psyche23

Sweetdee-

I would love a reading from you. My birthday is 2/23/69 and my partner's is 6/28/69. I would appreciate any insight into our future together. A blessed holiday season to you and yours!

Serene One-

I have no answers for you but I have the same issue here. The numbers that pop up for me are 11 and 23. I was born on the 23rd day, major events have occurred on the 11th of any given month and even my home address is 1123! I too look at the clock at the 23rd minute of any given hour! Let's hope we both get some guidance here because I'm as concerned as you!

psyche23

AquaGodes-

I am a Pisces too and I agree with all that is written. I have to say if someone said to me that it's ok that I do not call I would take that as the "out" they are looking for. We love our freedom but we also need to be needed. We are passive and like our partners to take the wheel so the odds of your man reaching out to you are slim, unless his emotions get the best of him. We retreat if not disappear completely. We are though, very understanding and forgiving so probably one of the easier signs to clear things up with if the delivery is honest and sincere.

Pisces are sponges and typically very quiet and private. I struggle with this every day. We feel the problems of others and experience the plight of the world as our own. We intuit the emotions of others and feel these feelings deeply. I know for myself that I need time to recharge and isolate, meditate and contemplate. It's how we get ready for the next round! We are highly sensitive to a fault.

I can say that a healthy Pisces man will treat you like a princess. An unhealthy one will take you down. We are sinners or saints. You know your man so after 6 months you should know what you are dealing with. We are not forth-coming however we're not good actors either. At least I'm not.

Definitely reach out to him in a non-confrontational way. Best of luck to you!

Golden Egg-

I read your posts and felt absolutely horrible for what you are going through. You did say one thing that stuck with me. You mentioned he got divorced 5 months ago and it wasa nasty one. The questions I would be asking myself are:

Did he dive into a serious relationship to quickly and is emotionally and mentally unable to be a full-time partner to you?

Was he using you and other girls to help lick his wounds after this divorce? Cancers do not handle loss and rejection well.

Is his marriage truly over? Not in a physical sense but again emotionally and mentally?

You mentioned several time the age difference between you two. Why is this such an issue in your mind? Plenty of couples manage this just fine.

Was his cheating a way of telling you he simply can't do this right now? Clearly he does not want to be the "bad guy". What happened in his marriage? Cheating?

Don't get me wrong. I do not want to sound sympathetic to him as I'd have sent him to the curb after the cheating. It just seems that you are looking for answers. It sounds to me that you fell for someone who is desperate and not particularly stable.

Love is not betraying others to meet our own selfish needs and feed our fragile egos. This guy sounds weak to me. Why would you want a relationship like this? He doesn't even have the courage to face the cheating. This is not a man. He's a little boy and you deserve better. I have been in your shoes before and believe it or not I am better and happier for it! I now know what I want and what I will put up with. Ride it out as much as it sucks. I wish the best for you!

I really don't understand why Cancers (particularly men) take such a beating on these posts. Granted I'm a Pisces so flakiness does not phase me one bit but I have known Cancers all of my life and I find them to be some of the most wonderful people. Yes they retreat but so do I. Yes they do not put all of their cards on the table like a Sag or Leo but neither do I. I absolutley adore the mystery behind these folks and the benefits of giving patience and space are truly amazing!

My guy is a Cancer and at times plays the typical games. When he does I ignore it and we just seem to move on. We have been there for each other through terrible times and our love and friendship have continued to deepen. His heart is huge and he is one of the best father's (next to my own of course!) that I have seen. He tells me his secrets, confronts me when he's upset, and is affectionate and loving. I wouldn't trade this man for anything!

I did date a Cancer in college and he was a dirtbag. He was a dirtbag because he's a dirtbag. Not because he's a Cancer. Sometimes people are just selfish and disloyal. It's more to do with the way they were raised than their actual sun sign. Also sometimes we simply end up dating people and the relationship lacks compatibility. That's not a reason to bash a particular sign.

Many family members and friends in my life are Cancers and I absolutely enjoy and love who they are. Cancers, in my experience, are good people!

hotvirgorising and capcan-I too am dating a Cancer. I am Pisces and I love him to death. He is a handful for sure and loves to play games. I just refuse to play back. Do not chase your man. They are intrigued by women who have their own thing going on. Do not carry on other relationships while dating him, but do set aside time for yourself. It relieves the pressure that men often feel and since a Cancer is so emotional and caretaking it alleviates stress for them that you will be OK without their help. Cancers need to be needed so don't take it too far. Mine makes sure the oil in my car is changed and fixes problems around my house but knows that I do not need him to get by.

What I love about my man is that he is who he is. Nothing more and nothing less. He crawls into that shell of his and I let him go because it's what he needs. He comes out pretty quickly and starts talking. Cancers are wonderful, yet guarded people that need to be loved. When they know that they are loved unconditionally they will treat you like a princess.

Do you both love your guys unconditionally?

I would recommend that you have your charts done. Because you were born on the cusp does not mean that you float between one sign and another. You need to know the exact placements of the planets at your moments of birth. Anyone please correct me if I'm wrong but the cusp means that the Sun was moving from one sign to another on a specific day and specific time. So if the sun left Libra at 11 am and you were born at 3 pm you are Scorpio. My guess is that your guy is Pisces and you are Scorp which is a great combination! Getting your charts done is important though because other planets come into play as well.

I would be careful and start slow. Scorpio men are very emotional and passionate and do tend to cling to the past. They do hold grudges though and there is a possibility that your issues will resurface after the honeymoon is over if you become more than friends. Scorps are suspicious and paranoid. Before starting anything romantic up I would have a conversation about how the two of you will establish trust again. Scorps have a very hard time with trust and your past infidelity may come back to bite you when and if he starts to feel insecure, even if he is guilty of the same. Just be open and honest and put it all out there. I agree with Junemoon26 that you both seem to have a very strong connection and deep friendship. Your Scorp feels that too or else he would not be around. Just be brave and put it all out there! Best of luck to you!

I am with a cancer too and space is inheritly important to them. Do not push the conversation to air things out. Suggest an outing (dinner/movie) and invariably the topic will come up. Cancers go into hiding because they do not deal with "limbo" so well. You will only win your Cancer back by being yourself so why not try that. Stop trying to win him back. If he's yours,he's yours!