hi. i am a new member and just came across this discussion.

i am a true blue gemini and i guess my high levels of optimism is responsible for bailing me out of any unfavourable situation.

i got seperated from my husband ten years ago and live with my parents and 13 year old son. just about a year back, i fell in love with a married man who has a family of his own. we love each other a lot, but neither of us wants to break up his family and cause hurt to his wife and children.

sometimes i feel as though i should end this relationship as it is causing me a lot of heartache, especially when i see him with his family, but then i console myself with the thought that some day if fate permits, we may be able to live together.

it is very confusing and i wonder if anybody could help.