THANK YOU! THANK YOU! YOU ARE ALL THE BEST, SUNSHINE FOR EVERYONE!

looking everywhere, can't seem to find trick or treat candy, whose door do I have to knock on?

HELLO FELLOW TAUREANS!!!! I married an Aries, WOW!!! talk about hot tempered intense arguments, I love a good argument!!! but like a true taurus, I don't back down when i know I'm right & I take no prisoners either, just state the facts, perhaps this is stubborn to some, but it truely is determined. on the flip side, I have been gifted with a great sense of humor, & quick wit , with a funny response in any situation. I am fiercely protective of those i hold close to my heart. nature is queen, I love to hang out in my garden, planting, weeding, & playing in the dirt. (barefoot no less) I too have a gift of knowing as you put it. it manifests itself thru dreams (daydreams too, just need a quite place) also when I close my eyes & concentrate on the darkness, I see what i call specks of white that move forward the closer they get the bigger they become, & like an 8mm film i see scenes & faces of people & places i have never been, at least in this lifetime. this has been happening ever since i was a little girl. I love the fact that we are ruled by Venus, the goddess of Love. My love is given freely, & is naturally unconditional.

born: may 7th

lilone you there?! you share the same b-day as my husband, it must have been hard to spend your special day without the one you love, i'm sorry for that, but you are not alone. do not blame yourself for the situation, it takes two, did he leave after an argument, or was it totally out of the blue? did you try to find him, people he knows, hospitals, police station, the morgue?! sometimes people just need time to think. although no contact at all is a little harsh. i feel for you & your situation, can you call a friend even if they are in another state. someone who knows you & loves you?! men can be so selfish at times, you didn't mention much on why you two split. but your pain is felt by others, who understand, & are willing to be of comfort. try to rest & eat, maybe an old movie will help, music, comedy, anything to take your mind off him & on you, take a nice bath, or go for a walk, these things help, they don't cure, but they do help

BY THE BY, ANY RELATIONSHIP IS HARD, LIFE IS HARD, MARRIAGE IS EVEN HARDER, PEOPLE CHANGE EVERYDAY, EMOTIONS CHANGE ALL THE TIME, & NOBODY HAS IT DOWN FINE & IS 100% HAPPY. THAT BEING SAID, UNLESS THEIR MEDICATED, YOU MAY HAVE BEEN LOOKING WHEN THINGS WERE GOING WELL, & THEREFORE EVERYONE SEEMED HAPPY. OR IT COULD HAVE BEEN PART OF YOUR LESSON. MAYBE YOU WERE WEARING ROSE COLORED GLASSES. OH, I ALMOST FORGOT, DO YOU KNOW THE MEANING OF FINE?! IT MEANS; FREAKED, INSECURE, NEUROTIC, & EMOTIONAL!!! LOL, JUST THOUGHT YOU WOULD LIKE TO KNOW.

To Advice, People come into your life for a "reason, season, or a lifetime. Either way we learn from them, the lessons we are here to learn. some lessons take longer than others, if children were discussed in the begining of the relationship, then he knows where you stand on the subject . as for the laziness (laid-back approach) well that could just be the person he is. Does he support your decisions? do you support his?! before you say good-bye or attempt to move on talk to him, communication is the key. try to understand him & yourself, take time to reflect on your past decisions, your present & future decisions, i found myself in your position when i too was in my 30s, could just be another change of life or learning experience. Be true to yourself & to him. My prayers are with you both.

P.S. I am a taurus married to an aries, & I am the one to do all the house chores, pay bills, etc., & yes I have three wonderful children, grown for the most part, & yes there are still days when I want to change the world or my piece of it, but I have always led with my heart to make those decisions.

I AM THANKFUL FOR MY HUSBAND & CHILDREN, WITHOUT THEM I DON'T THINK I WOULD HAVE GOTTEN THRU THIS YEAR, OF HEARTACHE, & LOSS. I AM THANKFUL FOR MY SENSE OF HUMOR, WHICH I TRULY BELIEVE IS A GIFT FROM GOD!!! AND AT TIMES A CURSE. I AM THANKFUL FOR GOOD FRIENDS, QUIET TIMES, & THOSE HECTIC MOMENTS THAT KEEP ONE TOO BUSY TO MOURN THE LOSS OF FAMILY. I AM THANKFUL THAT THOSE WHO HAVE PASSED BEFORE ME, WILL BE WAITING FOR ME, WHEN MY TIME COMES. I AM THANKFUL TO KNOW THAT I TOO AM LOVED, CHERISHED, & DEPENDED UPON BY THOSE I LOVE. I GUESS I'M JUST THANKFUL..................