Just had to say Jenever you are one heck of a psychologist. Just finished reading your post of November, I made a copy of it to refer to when I need reassurance and guidance. No kidding you have missed your calling, you should become a psychologist. You have more understanding than Dr.Phil and Dr. Oz .Think about it, it's never to late to go back to school...my sister-in-law went back to school in her late 40s with 4 kids and is now a very successful practicing psycho-therapist. You described my ex-Virgo's manipulation, control and anger through generating chaos and uncertainty exactly. And as you said if I keep going taking him back, I have no one to blame but myself. Let's just pray that both you and I can stick to it. No one can brake your heart more than once- only you can allow it. . google: Trent Shelton,
a beautiful, insightful,wise, caring human being.
Thank you for your wise, caring and insightful shared knowledge.