Hi. I'm not sure if the "cancer problem" i've had with my cancerian husband has been resolved nor it's considered changes but maybe you can tell me what it is....I've posted a thread earlier "Problem with Marriage between Cancer and Gemini HELP!!" and is summarized as follow.
I'm married to a Cancer male and 20 months into our marriage with a 9-month old baby boy. There are good happy times as well as bad unhappy times along the way. At the beginning of the relationship and marriage, everything was good...we could talk about anything, anywhere and anytime and the conversation is just endless....As time flies and with the pressure building up from moving home 4 times, my pregnancy, arrival of the baby, his new job, misunderstandings from in-laws, etc., the situation between us began to get worse. I was constantly throwing tantrums and he would swallow all that was dished at him. Starting in Aug/Sept we went silent on each other and that was when I felt the distance between us. I, stupidly suggested a divorce and the impact was huge because he later on agreed to it but I regretted ever saying it. I didn't want a divorce. I said it to see his reaction but it's too late....that was 3 weeks ago and since then we have had minimal communication. There was no talk about our issues nor the divorce. I don't know what the status is, whether divorce is still on his mind or he's put it aside for the time being and concentrated on work (he's been very busy with work recently). So please tell me if this is some sort of changes? How do we resolve the issues? I'm almost afraid to see him (i moved out with my boy) let alone sit down and discuss our issues....
How did you resolve your issues with your Cancer friend? When is the right time to bring up the issues for resolution?
Any insight will be appreciated.