Dear Denise, Since you didn't say, I have to assume all the cards were facing upright not reversed.

The Death card is a card of transformation. It suggests bringing to light problems or differences, esp on the mental level which can lead more spiritual things. It also suggests that some ideas may need to be altered or let go.

The Hierophant is the priest, the revered teacher, the rabbi. So this person may have his particular agenda of advice, honour, morality, etc.

The Chariot represents the male and female aspects (the yin and the yang) of yourself under the control of the charioteer: Your High Self. In other words yoking one's opposites in a balanced team, that can run together like the wind. You must be the one in charge of yourself however. Always remember that.

The choice is yours. Blessings SuprFabSingViv

Dear Confused, What do you know about your astrology charts? I have had several relationships that could be similar. The on/off stuf could be partly because your sun signs are "square" or in challenge to each other; It could also possible be because one of your uranus's is in aspect to one of your personal planets. My experience with uranus relationship was with a Leo (square to me). This guy and I went hot and heavy for a short time and then it was like - - - over.

Another scenario is when one person's personal planet is sat on by saturn the planet of "stern parent". disciplinarian etc. My ex and I had that. We kept being on and off over a 3yr period. Our communication was never as good as yours seems to be.

Cancer is similar to the crab: soft on the inside/ hard on outer, very jealous and protective. Crabs sidle up, never direct. Once a crab grabs on it rarely ever lets go. But the one I had was very private and very tight with his money. His family was important but distant. Good luck.