i can see exactly what will happen here !!! you and yr friend will end up at loggerheads fighting over him ,while he sits back and enjoys all the attention ,what man wouldnt !!! it will all end in one almighty bust up with you losing yr friend and him , n do you no what hell end up with neither of you with his pride intact , hell probably end up with another girl , n i bet you n yr friend wont speak for years , this is a totally bad idea , but i would find out who is pulling whos strings here babe xx

like pfee said danashae im not judging , this is not a one of 3 sum he is suggesting but basically it boils down to having both you and yr friend !!! i would be sick at the thought of my boyfriend sleeping with my best friend i seriously think you are being manipulated hun , dont be , you wouldnt be putting comments on this forum if you were comfortable with the situation , would you ? if he was mine id have his balls on a skewer by now !! please wake up hun , hope it works out for you xx

yes i think yous are all right !!! im not waiting around for him anymore , because stars signs aside A MAN WILL PURSUE YOU if interested ,simple as !! im not gonna respond to any more jokes , i will probably respond if he asked me an outright Q or asked to see me , but im not waiting anymore , but thx every one for yr comments xx

yes i definately think 3 is a crowd , if yr boyfriend truly loved you babe he wouldnt want another , and as for yr friend , i have a sneaky suspicion that she may be out to get yr man ! whos idea was this ? someone is going to be very hurt here and ive a feeling its gonna be you babe , id seriously rethink this situation , if you are a jelous person by nature it wont be long before this situation starts to eat away at yr self esteem every time he pays her any attention , i would also choose my friends more wisely !!!

sorry hanswolfgang , ididnt see yr comment about saying show him yr dissapointment ,can you ellaborate on that babe ?

well ppl i sent a txt back to his joke just saying good 1 haha , but didnt add anything personal !! i also sent him a joke txt today about halloween , but he hasnt responded yet !!! this is sooo... frustrating for me playing the waiting game !!!

next time you go into chat room or where ever you speak to him let him come to you first , if he wants you hell make all the moves , if he does click into chat just act like nothing has happened and be friendly towards him , if he doesnt chat you will know hes waiting or chatting to someone else , is there no chance of you meeting with him for real ?

he has just sent me a txt , but it was one of those jokes that you send to all , so what does any one else think , watch this space !!!!

my ex was also a cancer , and what youve got 2 remember is they live in the past a lot (he never got over his ex wife ) they are needy and use people to their advantage and never take responsibility for wrongs that they do to you and make it look like yr fault !!! he knows perfectly well what he is doing and playing with yr feelings , my advice is dont let him let him pursue you and just see what happens , just keep yr cool dont send him messages first , take yr time to reply to his and always be the one to end chats , hope this helps

thx for yr comments , i know what u mean im going to give him a coupe of weeks and

if he doesnt get in touch its leaving me with little choice but to move on