Posts made by PisceswomanandScorpioMan

Captain, Thank you so much for the reading!

You are so right, at times I do feel like giving up and sometimes he said the same thing, but both of us always take turns to make it work. Last week, i said something bad and he's doing the withdrawing from me right now, which is not usual from him. I tried to give him space but I just wonder if he's really giving up right now...

Is he the kind that forgives and what should I do to get him back to normal again?

Don't just give lip service to freedom, however - live it! Taking a stand now will save you problems later on. -- WHat does this mean, Captain?

Thanks again!

Hi Libraluli,

Thank you for your input!

Sorry to hear about your daughter... Virgo is usually very responsible. Doesn't sound like a virgo at all leaving her alone and pregnant. Grrr!

I'm leaving him alone right now. Didn't say anything, I know it's best for now. Told him I want t cook for him this week and he said he liked that idea a lot.

The reason why I wanna make him happy, because he's been really supportive to me during my rough times and I feel I haven't been nice to him. Now, I've found myself back and I wanna do the same thing he's done for me.

I;m just afraid if he's withdrawing and chasing other girls now. Limit the communications with me until he's ready to say that he can't be with me at all. I've had that experience before with a Virgo man, Keeping me as a back-up plan.

Hey everyone,

I've heard that Pisces and Virgo are compatible for each other, if both are willing to compromise and adjust to each other's differences. So I've known this guy for 6 months and we became exclusive 3 months ago. We're on the rocks now cause I had mental breakdown from having an abusive relationship with Scorpio guy and currently on the recovery. Plus I lost my job 2 months ago. So, please bear with me, I would wanna make this guy happy but I need to understand more about this guy and what I should do.

I've been really depressed for the last 1.5 month. But, this Virgo guy is such a sweetheart. He’s been supportive all the way , very loving, very gentle, very kind, he wants to make me happy and would like to help me get through with it.

He doesn't express his feelings a lot, which is understandable. I do think he's insecure that I would go back with my ex, he often saw my phone if it rings or when a message comes in. He once picked up my phone when it rang. We’ve had deep discussions before we became exclusive 3 months ago which is happened often when he’s drunk. The second month we met, he said, "I'm afraid you're gonna dump me.". But, when he's not drunk, he often said, "I like u a lot. but I'm not in love with you.". I get confused because from his action and effort in trying to make me happy, i do feel like he is in love with me.

He took me on a trip because he knew i was depressed last month. He let me pick whatever I wanna do on my birthday. When I told him regarding my relationship with my abusive ex, i was crying because I'm scared it would happen again to me and he cried with me. I told him that he shouldn't be responsible for my depression and he said, "You are my responsibility. I wanna make you happy. I like u alot and there's a lot of things i wanna see from you.". He’s sober when he said that.

Another time (sober) he said this, "I think you're not the one i wanna spend the rest of my life with." I asked why he's still with me. He said, "because i'm hoping I would fall in love with you."

I'm really confused about this Virgo guy. Maybe he's covering up his feelings? I don't understand this part. Do you think he’s in love with me but are shy to admit it?

I said something bad to my Virgo guy in Tuesday last week, it was a slip of the tongue and I didn't really mean it. He asked for a space to think things through. I apologize on Friday when we met and explained the reason why I said it, he said it's fine and he understands. he didn't wanna meet at first but we did and we had a really good time.

On Sunday, he became quiet and talk a little. I just thought maybe he's tired or thinking about his work (he's a workaholic). So, we just spent quiet time that night. I rubbed and massage his shoulders and his neck. I asked at night about his work and he said work's been really crazy.

On Monday, I left his place and told him try not to worry too much and relax. At this time, I just think he needs time and space. How do I know that he forgives me and how should I make things better with him?

He's been quiet and doesn't talk to me often or joke with me the last time we met. And he hasn't been very communicative with me for the past 4 days, as in replying my texts.

Could he be losing interest in me now? I heard that when a virgo man losing interest he would withdraw and lose the communications slowly until I get the point and he said he doesn't want it anymore.

I love this guy and I wanna make it better between us as he's been helping me through these rough times. .

Thank you so much for the help!

Hey everyone,

I've heard that Pisces and Virgo are compatible for each other, if both are willing to compromise and adjust to each other's differences. So I've known this guy for 6 months and we became exclusive 3 months ago. We're on the rocks now cause I had mental breakdown from having an abusive relationship with Scorpio guy and currently on the recovery. Plus I lost my job 2 months ago. So, please bear with me, I would wanna make this guy happy but I need to understand more about this guy and what I should do.

I've been really depressed for the last 1.5 month. But, this Virgo guy is such a sweetheart. He’s been supportive all the way , very loving, very gentle, very kind, he wants to make me happy and would like to help me get through with it.

He doesn't express his feelings a lot, which is understandable. I do think he's insecure that I would go back with my ex, he often saw my phone if it rings or when a message comes in. He once picked up my phone when it rang. We’ve had deep discussions before we became exclusive 3 months ago which is happened often when he’s drunk. The second month we met, he said, "I'm afraid you're gonna dump me.". But, when he's not drunk, he often said, "I like u a lot. but I'm not in love with you.". I get confused because from his action and effort in trying to make me happy, i do feel like he is in love with me.

He took me on a trip because he knew i was depressed last month. He let me pick whatever I wanna do on my birthday. When I told him regarding my relationship with my abusive ex, i was crying because I'm scared it would happen again to me and he cried with me. I told him that he shouldn't be responsible for my depression and he said, "You are my responsibility. I wanna make you happy. I like u alot and there's a lot of things i wanna see from you.". He’s sober when he said that.

Another time (sober) he said this, "I think you're not the one i wanna spend the rest of my life with." I asked why he's still with me. He said, "because i'm hoping I would fall in love with you."

I'm really confused about this Virgo guy. Maybe he's covering up his feelings? I don't understand this part. Do you think he’s in love with me but are shy to admit it?

I said something bad to my Virgo guy in Tuesday last week, it was a slip of the tongue and I didn't really mean it. He asked for a space to think things through. I apologize on Friday when we met and explained the reason why I said it, he said it's fine and he understands. he didn't wanna meet at first but we did and we had a really good time.

On Sunday, he became quiet and talk a little. I just thought maybe he's tired or thinking about his work (he's a workaholic). So, we just spent quiet time that night. I rubbed and massage his shoulders and his neck. I asked at night about his work and he said work's been really crazy.

On Monday, I left his place and told him try not to worry too much and relax. At this time, I just think he needs time and space. How do I know that he forgives me and how should I make things better with him?

He's been quiet and doesn't talk to me often or joke with me the last time we met. And he hasn't been very communicative with me for the past 4 days, as in replying my texts.

Could he be losing interest in me now? I heard that when a virgo man losing interest he would withdraw and lose the communications slowly until I get the point and he said he doesn't want it anymore.

I love this guy and I wanna make it better between us as he's been helping me through these rough times. .

Thank you so much for the help!

I'm a Pisces born on March 9, 1985 at 1 AM. He is a Virgo born on August 23, 1982 at 3 PM.

Is this good for long term? what are our common traits and differences you can see? what can we do to make the relationship work over our differences?

Rising Sign: 05 Deg Cap (Me) – 02 Deg Sag (Him)

Sun: 18 Deg Pisces (Me) – 00 Deg Virgo (Him)

Moon: 11 Deg Libra (me) – 27 Deg Libra (Him)

Mercury: 03 Deg Aries (Me) – 23 Deg Virgo (Him)

Venus: 21 Deg Aries (Me) – 11 Deg Leo (Him)

Mars: 25 Deg Aries (Me) – 11 Deg Scorp (Him)

Jupiter: 06 Deg Aqua (Me) -- 04 Deg Scorp (Him)

Saturn: 28 Deg Scorp (Me) -- 18 Deg Libra (Him)

Uranus: 17 Deg Sag (Me) -- 00 Deg Sag (Him)

Neptune: 03 Deg Capricorn (Me) -- 24 Deg Sag (Him)

Pluto: 04 Deg Scorp (Me) -- 24 Deg Libra (Him)

Node: 20 Deg Taurus (Me) -- 12 Deg Cancer (Him)

Thank you so much!

I'm a Pisces born on March 9, 1985 at 1 AM. He is a Virgo born on August 23, 1982 at 3 PM.

Is this good for long term? what are our common traits and differences you can see? what can we do to make the relationship work over our differences?

Rising Sign: 05 Deg Cap (Me) – 02 Deg Sag (Him)

Sun: 18 Deg Pisces (Me) – 00 Deg Virgo (Him)

Moon: 11 Deg Libra (me) – 27 Deg Libra (Him)

Mercury: 03 Deg Aries (Me) – 23 Deg Virgo (Him)

Venus: 21 Deg Aries (Me) – 11 Deg Leo (Him)

Mars: 25 Deg Aries (Me) – 11 Deg Scorp (Him)

Jupiter: 06 Deg Aqua (Me) -- 04 Deg Scorp (Him)

Saturn: 28 Deg Scorp (Me) -- 18 Deg Libra (Him)

Uranus: 17 Deg Sag (Me) -- 00 Deg Sag (Him)

Neptune: 03 Deg Capricorn (Me) -- 24 Deg Sag (Him)

Pluto: 04 Deg Scorp (Me) -- 24 Deg Libra (Him)

Node: 20 Deg Taurus (Me) -- 12 Deg Cancer (Him)

Thank you so much!

and by the way he's 34 years old. I don't see why he's not evolved yet as a scorp.

Thank you blmoon... I was actually on the verge of stop talking to him before i read your last message. Another drama blew up.. well i was at fault cause said i'd give him some space to solve something out. and i was actually just saying that because he's being passive this entire time and i'll leave him alone to that. and he's gone mad.

M : you know, you used to be a lot less dramatic.

M : what happened?

because i just want something real. the way you behave doesn't match with what u said u wanted. but it's okay, i know u must have lots of thoughts in your mind, that's why i'll give u space. i cannot wear my heart on my sleeves everytime, i wouldn't have gone this far if i wasnt real about this.

M : I'M FUCKING PLAYING XBOX

M : WHAT THE FUCK ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT?

M : you know what...

M : just fucking leave me alone

M : i'm tired of this shit.

what?

M: you are such a goddamn drama queen

u asked me question

M : go back and read the fucking conversation

M : what the fuck is that supposed to mean?

noo i was referring to what u've been acting...

anyway..

M : yea

M : anyway

M : i don't need the drama

M : and it seems like you can't stop

well..

M : i fucking had you over to my house last night and cooked you dinner.

M : so don't talk about how I'M acting.

M : so on that note...

M: why don't you go figure something out for yourself.

M : instead of trying to make me feel like an asshole.

M : anyway

M : i guess you'redone

M : done

M : as am i.

You didn’t give me answer when I’m trying to solve the problem. I told you I agree to take things slow but u gotta understand it takes two to repair something.. You gotta give to get that changes.

M : and i told you (while we were still dating) that i'm sick and fucking tired of "talking about it"

M : there's nothing else to talk about.

M : that's all we fucking do

yes

M : i told you

M : if anything happens

M: it's going to happen naturally

yes...

M : it's not going to happen by you asking me what our status is... (I never asked about our status not once...) or fucking pressuring me in to saying something i'm not ready to say

M : and you can't see to get that fact.

M : anyway...

M: i dunno what to say

i am not pressuring you to get abck with me.

M : i'm not talking about it anymore

M : i'm sick of you making me feel like shit.

M : i told you where i am

M : and if you can't accept that...

M : it's your own problem

M: not mine

okay.. im sorry if i make u feel like that.

M : well i can't even count how many times i've told u that.

M : so i dunno what to tell you

M : except i'm SICK of having this same conversation over and over and over and over

okay then stop..

M : ha

i'll stop

M : is this the part where you just start some off-topic sentence

M : like "how was work today"

M : do you know how many times we have said this exact same thing??

hey.. calm down..

M : i'm sick of it

it's fine..

M: you obviously don't get it.

M : yea i think we just shouldn't talk anymore.

M : i really don't think this is going to happen

M : if you can be at all interested in trying things again

M: and act like you just acted

M : and not apologize.

M : then there's a problem

M: guess you don't have any intention.

I totally ignored him now. I'm tired. He texted me"What's our problem?" Didn't reply.

We met on sunday, he texted me to meet up but i was up until 2pm, watching football until 4am. He's being suspicious if i were in the club or was not even home at all watching the game with a guy. We got through it. We met. It was okay at first, then after dinner his mood gone down again, he acted distant and aloof. I returned his coldness with caring and gentle move.

Then today that happened. So I'm done blmoon... I'm not gonna try to contact him anymore. Like u said, I'm gonna wipe him out of my mind. He definitely doesn't want that change. So if he really loves me and wants me, he should make his move. I've done my part.

What makes me really mad is that he doesn't show respect at all to me or at least appreciate my effort. Maybe i was at fault again for doing the things i did. I was just doing those things because i am being sincere and genuine about it.

Thank you blmoon...

I really font feel like talking to him anymore now. It feels like mind games to me and i prefer effort.

Thank you bl moon..

Should I send the email ? I really font feel like talking to him anymore now. It feels like mind games to me and i prefer effort.

I really want to write him email that I’m not into games like this. I’m serious about what I said and I’m not trying to force him back 100% but at least a bit of effort would be appreciated. I agree to take things slow but I can’t tell if he’s seroious or not when he said he wants to take things slow, if he’s acting passive like this. I wanna get to the bottom of the issue why it’s hard for him to trust me again. I am a lady and I do not lower my integrity by doing the things that he accused me of doing. I wanna say I’ll leave him to figure out and judge my sincerity I’ve been trying to work this out.

Or should I just leave no contact and see if he makes effort?

Captain.. He stopped accusing me tho… but he’s still jealous about me.. Should I send the email ?

I really want to write him email that I’m not into games like this. I’m serious about what I said and I’m not trying to force him back 100% but at least a bit of effort would be appreciated. I agree to take things slow but I can’t tell if he’s seroious or not when he said he wants to take things slow, if he’s acting passive like this. I wanna get to the bottom of the issue why it’s hard for him to trust me again. I am a lady and I do not lower my integrity by doing the things that he accused me of doing. I wanna say I’ll leave him to figure out and judge my sincerity I’ve been trying to work this out. Should I email him or just not saying anything? It’s been a week since the last time we met.

Or should I just leave no contact and see if he makes effort?

Hey guys.. I’m a Pisces. I broke up with my ex scorpio last month. When we broke up he accused me of cheating on him, which I never had. We were together for 8 months. Please bear with me..

He initiated the contact a week after we broke up. He texted me hi and said he’s thinking about me. I contacted him 2 days later. On the first and second week he turned our conversation by accusing me but I was calm and assured him that I didn’t. One time I ignored him and he called me. During these weeks, he asked whether im seeing or talking to someone else. And I said no, because I didn’t.

One time he said this: “if u felt half as crazy as I am now, you would be contacting me like I am now.”. I said, “I did, but u keep accusing me when I contacted u last time and you’re doin it now. How am I suppose to do?”. He still asked about whether I talk or see someone else after we broke up and I said no. Shortly, I ended up changed the topic and we talked about other stuffs. At the end of convo he said, “maybe we should get together some time.” I said, “sure.”

Third week: He contacted me again, we talked for 2 hours. I asked if he’s seeing someone else and he said no. He’s too busy right now, he doesn’t even wanna date anyone and feel pretty turn off to relationship after we broke up. He asked me, “Why do u want to?” I said, “All I know right now is I still wanna be with u cause I do still love you.” He replied, “I dunno.. Im going through hard time right now. I mean I dunno what wud happen. We tried and we tried and we tried to work things out. i just feel like we are too similar in ways and too different in other ways and it’s hard because I do love you.”

Fourth week: he’s getting distant at me so I made a move, contacted him but he’s being passive. Didn’t really asked about anything in my life. I texted him one day, he didn’t reply. So I decided to make last attempt to write him email, I poured my heart out about our relationship, did some self-introspection and where things went wrong. And I did mention I wanna get back but I also give him space if he needs it. Next day, he said he got my mail and he said he needs time to think about it.. Then the day after, he asked if we could meet up on Sunday, which was last week. He’s still jealous at me about who I went out with and stuffs. But I was just out with my friends, I haven’t seen new guy.

So we met, we talked he’s getting talkative. And I brought up the topic about the email. He said he doesn’t have the answer yet, he needs to read it again. Then he continued saying, “you should understand that my life’s changed right now and my job is very stressful (it’s true tho..) and I can’t deal with the issue if we got back together and nothing’s changed. If we wanna get back together, I have to see something’s changed. I do miss you and I wanna hang out with you, let’s just stay friends and see how things are. Al we did was just talk and talk about it but nothing’s changed..”

I asked him if he still loves me and he said of course I do.. I asked him if he’s seeing anybody and he said no. he asked me the same question and I said no, he asked one more time “are u sure?” and I said no. We ended up having **** that night. I woke up first, I was at his porch then he went to me reminding me to take a shower cause i need to work. Then when I was about to leave, he kissed me 3 times.. When I left, he texted me “good seeing u..” and asked about the traffic. We texted each other for 3more times. At night I found him online and asked how his day was, we chatted for a bit then he went to bed cause he’s really tired..

I did send him email 3 days ago to respond to his wish to take things slow. I told him that I respect his wish to take things slow and I understand his situation. I can’t pressure him more to be in a relationship with me without seeing any changes. I said I accept his decision and I want to gain his trust to see that changes. I wanna make this work for both of us cause I know we both still love each other. I will give him space and at the same time I need him to give effort for us.

I just wanted him to know that i’m being sincere and genuine to what I said about what I want from us. He said he got my email 2 days later when I said hi on ym.

I’ve been initiating the contact for the past 3 days.. Yesterday he responded passively. Ended up not replying back. I texted him todayand asked him if he wants to hang out tom.. He said he has meeting tom morning and will text me after.

I did tell him I wanna work this out and I need his effort but I’m not seeing it from him.. instead he is acting passive. He’s the one who wanted to see if there would be changes and I complied but why he is acting this way… What changes he actually want to see?

I really want to write him email that I’m not into games like this. I’m serious about what I said and I’m not trying to force him back 100% but at least a bit of effort would be appreciated. I agree to take things slow but I can’t tell if he’s seroious or not when he said he wants to take things slow, if he’s acting passive like this. I wanna get to the bottom of the issue why it’s hard for him to trust me again. I am a lady and I do not lower my integrity by doing the things that he accused me of doing. I wanna say I’ll leave him to figure out and judge my sincerity I’ve been trying to work this out. Should I email him or just not saying anything? It’s been a week since the last time we met.

Am I being weak by showing my sincerity this whole time to him? I dunno I just thought that they like it when someone’s showing deep genuine feelings and I’ve been true to my feelings to him. And I’m not afraid of shedding my ego as well for the one I love but that takes two to tango, right? I never called him 10 times a day, actually I called him once after we broke up but he didn’t pick up. Then I never called again. Does this scorpio think I'm being weak by showing my good intention?

I tried to contact him every 2-3 days if he doesn’t just because I wanna see his effort as well. Does it make him think I’m not being consistent about my will? I don’t wanna appear like im after him like crazy as well. Im just giving him space. Usually he would contact me in 3-4 days.

Also, he’s been adding girls on his fb.. and his friends said he’s been sleeping around with plenty girls ever since we broke up. He’s hurt and I can can see he’s hurt. maybe that’s what he does out of depression? But he’s been loyal and never cheated when he’s with me.

My mind’s filled with negatives now that everything he said was just his intention saying in a soft way that he cant get back to me, slowly but sure drifting away, hoping I would get his message. But all he said makes sense to me. He wouldn’t wanna risk his job to be with me without seeing any changes because we have tried and tried in the past.

Please help what should I do to get back with him? Do u think it’s really over and he’s just being nice to me when he said he wants to take things slow? What is he trying to do now?

Thank you so much! Especially for reading this… I know it’s long but i’m really lost and need some insights..

Hey CodenameBnna..

Yea he is jealous and possessive. I mean I don’t mind with his jealousy, it makes me feel secure somehow, but I agree he needs to control it. I know I shouldn’t have reacted to it.

I still wanna try until he really said that he doesn’t want it with me.. cause he said he still loves me and he wants to take things slow. So that means we could still make it. I don’t wanna give up if he still has that love for me.

I did tell him I wanna work this out and I need his effort but I’m not seeing it from him.. instead he is acting passive. He’s the one who wanted to see if there would be changes and I complied but why he is acting this way… What changes he actually want to see?

I really want to write him email that I’m not into games like this. I’m serious about what I said and I’m not trying to force him back 100% but at least a bit of effort would be appreciated. I agree to take things slow but I can’t tell if he’s seroious or not when he said he wants to take things slow, if he’s acting passive like this. I wanna get to the bottom of the issue why it’s hard for him to trust me again. I am a lady and I do not lower my integrity by doing the things that he accused me of doing. I wanna say I’ll leave him to figure out and judge my sincerity I’ve been trying to work this out. Is it too soon if I write this email to him? It’s been a week since the last time we met.

I just dunno why he is acting like this.

Thank you.

Hey blmoon.. thanks for the reply..

I’ve been initiating the contact for the past 3 days.. Yesterday he responded passively. Ended up not replying back. I texted him todayand asked him if he wants to hang out tom.. He said he has meeting tom morning and will text me after.

I love him blmoon, I never pursued him like this ever since we broke up. Usually I would wait for him to initiate first then I made the next move. Should I just leave him now and wait if he contacts me? Usually after 3-4 days he would but I’ve been trying to find him for the last 3 days..

Do u think it’s over for us? What should I do to get him back? Should I ask him what makes him acting disinterested like this and what makes him hard to trust me? Just wanna get to the bottom of the issue really..

I did tell him I wanna work this out and I need his effort but I’m not seeing it from him.. instead he is acting passive. He’s the one who wanted to see if there would be changes and I complied but why he is acting this way… What changes he actually want to see?

I really want to write him email that I’m not into games like this. I’m serious about what I said and I’m not trying to force him back 100% but at least a bit of effort would be appreciated. I agree to take things slow but I can’t tell if he’s seroious or not when he said he wants to take things slow, if he’s acting passive like this. I wanna get to the bottom of the issue why it’s hard for him to trust me again. I am a lady and I do not lower my integrity by doing the things that he accused me of doing. I wanna say I’ll leave him to figure out and judge my sincerity I’ve been trying to work this out. Is it too soon if I write this email to him? It’s been a week since the last time we met.

this is not how love behaves ->> I agree with this entirely.

I agree I have this feeling that his friend is talking back behind me as well. My ex met this guy months after he met me, and truthfully he is not a good guy. I’m afraid my ex is getting influenced by his lifestyle. But I never said anything bad about him to my ex tho.

Am I being weak by showing my sincerity this whole time to him? I dunno I just thought that they like it when someone’s showing deep genuine feelings and I’ve been true to my feelings to him. And I’m not afraid of shedding my ego as well for the one I love but that takes two to tango, right? I never called him 10 times a day, actually I called him once after we broke up but he didn’t pick up. Then I never called again. Does this scorpio think I'm being weak by showing my good intention?

I tried to contact him every 2-3 days if he doesn’t just because I wanna see his effort as well. Does it make him think I’m not being consistent about my will? I don’t wanna appear like im after him like crazy as well. Im just giving him space.

Also, about this new guy within 6 months.. Is it a Gemini?

Something from that PAST brings him forward.--> u mean that could be one of my exes?

that June connection within six months can also mean someone you connected to in June will reconnect around nov-dec---but am definate there is a June connection to this man. >>> do u mean someone who I met in june will contact me again around nov-dec?

Thank you!!

I just wish at least he would respond to my mail...

Lol.. i did delete random guys from my fb after we broke up.. but not the ones who are actually my friends tho..

Just sent him a message saying i miss him.. he's probably sleeping now, just wanna tell him that.

just read the message we had on yahoo. I actually did initiate the contact almost everyday.. maybe that's what should do..

Do u think there's still a chance for me? Why is he ignoring me now.. ? Since you're a scorp, u probably know. Im just guessing that the mixed feelings keep him on guard and he actually wants to see me pursuing him... Do u scorps like women to pursue u?

Hey scorpwithwings… Thanks for the reply..

No I never kept secrets. Every time he’s jealous, I asked him to see it for himself about my ym or my fb or anything, if that could make him trust me. I’m not scared of it because I didn’t hide anything from him. But he didn’t do it.

At first, he pursued me, he was all over me and always wanted to hang out with me. Then, after having these fights, he realized we were being codependent to each other. I always came to his place on Friday and stayed over until Sunday.

We’d been fighting since Feb-march, basically because of his jealousy over my fb and twitter male friends.. I did assure him and I did ask him what he wants me to do to see I didn’t flirt with those guys. I never did flirt and I never did cheat on him. I was being patient and understanding.

Then on march, I saw a text from his ex sending him a kiss. I confronted him about it but he said there’s nothing between them, I was in doubt but I said ok I trust u. Then in april, he went outta town for 2 weeks (business purposes). We didn’t talk during the day, cause I didn’t wanna disturb him. So I always tried to find him at night. Everytime I called him at dinenr time, he never picked up but then he could sent me a text instantly after I called him. I didn’t need him to talk to me long, I just wanted to say hi. He called every night at 11pm. But I just found it shady he never picked up during dinner time. He said he’s with his friends having dinner, didn’t feel like it’s polite picking up the phone.

We broke up in mid of may, after he asked for a space. We didn’t meet for 2 weeks but he wanted to be in contact. Then we met, and I became emotional because I was so scared of losing him and the next day he’s acting really cold and didn’t even talk to me. Just quiet. Everytime I tried to talk he would respond but that’s it. So that night, I packed my stuff, I acted really cold and hurt by his behavior and went out to his porch. He came out and asked me, “So I guess we’re done now?”. I said, “yes.”

Then he started accusing me of cheating on him. I can tell his face that he’s hurt. But I didn’t cheat on him.

I never did this with my exes, usually after a break-up. I would just disappear, but I love him so I put aside my ego and tried my best to make it work.. I want to contact him, but he’s just being passive now.

So what should I do now? Should I always be the one initiating the contact? I do know he doesn’t like being ignored but I don’t know what he’s thinking now.. whether if he wants me to pursue him or just give him space.. If I keep contacting him, wouldn’t he see me as someone desperate?

Or if it’s really over for us.. but what he said seem make sense to me, I know he’s hurt and he can’t be with me until he sees changes.. But how can he see changes if he doesn’t contact me and ask me out again..

Thank you.

I broke up with my ex last month. When we broke up he accused me of cheating on him, which I never had. We were together for 8 months. Please bear with me.. I need your help..

First week: I didn’t contact him. He did contact me online, said hi and said he’s thinking about me and asking where I am. I was out having dinner with friends. And that was it. I contacted him 2 days later, we chatted a bit and he turned this chat into another drama by accusing me again.I stayed calm and I did in my power to assure him that I never cheated on him. I ignored him and he called me. He was really calm nothing like the words he said on yahoo, which stung me real bad. On this week, he asked whether I'm seeing someone else or talk to someone else, and I said no, because I didn’t.

Second week: He contacted me again, and he went mad all over again at me, accusing me and bringing everything in the past. He said, “if u felt half as crazy as I am now, you would be contacting me like I am now.”. I said, “I did, but u keep accusing me when I contacted u last time and you’re doin it now. How am I suppose to do?”. He still asked about whether I talk or see someone else after we broke up and I said no. Shortly, I ended up changed the topic and we talked about other stuffs. At the end of convo he said, “maybe we should get together some time.” I said, “sure.”

Third week: He contacted me again, we talked for 2 hours. I asked if he’s seeing someone else and he said no. He’s too busy right now, he doesn’t even wanna date anyone and feel pretty turn off to relationship after we broke up. He asked me, “Why do u want to?” I said, “All I know right now is I still wanna be with u cause I do still love you.” He replied, “I dunno.. Im going through hard time right now. I mean I dunno what wud happen. We tried and we tried and we tried to work things out. i just feel like we are too similar in ways and too different in other ways and it’s hard because I do love you.”

Fourth week: he’s getting distant at me so I made a move, contacted him but he’s being passive. Didn’t really asked about anything in my life. I texted him one day, he didn’t reply. So I decided to make last attempt to write him email, I poured my heart out about our relationship, did some self-introspection and where things went wrong. And I did mention I wanna get back but I also give him space if he needs it. Next day, he said he got my mail and he said he needs time to think about it.. Then the day after, he asked if we could meet up on Sunday, which was yesterday. He’s still jealous at me about who I went out with and stuffs. But I was just out with my friends, I haven’t seen new guy.

So we met, we talked he’s getting talkative. And I brought up the topic about the email. He said he doesn’t have the answer yet, he needs to read it again. Then he continued saying, “you should understand that my life’s changed right now and my job is very stressful (it’s true tho..) and I can’t deal with the issue if we got back together and nothing’s changed. If we wanna get back together, I have to see something’s changed. I do miss you and I wanna hang out with you, let’s just stay friends and see how things are. Al we did was just talk and talk about it but nothing’s changed..”

I asked him if he still loves me and he said of course I do.. I asked him if he’s seeing anybody and he said no. he asked me the same question and I said no, he asked one more time “are u sure?” and I said no. We ended up having sex that night. I woke up first, I was at his porch then he went to me reminding me to take a shower cause i need to work. Then when I was about to leave, he kissed me 3 times.. When I left, he texted me “good seeing u..” and asked about the traffic. We texted each other for 3more times. At night I found him online and asked how his day was, we chatted for a bit then he went to bed cause he’s really tired..

I feel like he wants to see how far I wud go to prove my love for him. I feel like he wants to test my patience. At the same time, he needs to see that change but im afraid of getting into this FWB thing.. I know for a fact he still loves me. But i'm just scared…

I did send him email last night to respond to his wish to take things slow. I told him that I respect his wish to take things slow and I understand his situation. I can’t pressure him more to be in a relationship with me without seeing any changes. I said I accept his decision and I want to gain his trust to see that changes. I wanna make this work for both of us cause I know we both still love each other. I will give him space and at the same time I need him to give effort for us.

Does it make me seem weak and desperate by emailing him that? Well I just wanted him to know that i'm being sincere and genuine to what I said about what I want from us. He hasn’t replied or said anything until now. We haven’t spoken to each other for 4 days. Last time was on Monday when I found him online. Why is he doing this to me? What is he trying to do?

Also, he's been adding on his fb.. and his friends said he's been sleeping around with plenty girls ever since we broke up. He's hurt and I can can see he's hurt. maybe that's what he does out of depression? But he's been loyal and never cheated when he's with me..

My mind’s filling with negatives now that everything he said was just his intention saying in a soft way that he cant get back to me, slowly but sure drifting away, hoping I would get his message. But all he said makes sense to me. He wouldn’t wanna risk his job to be with me without seeing any changes because we have tried and tried in the past.

Please help what should I do to get back with him? Do u think it's really over and he's just being nice to me when he said that?

Thank you so much! Especially for reading this... I know it's long but i'm really lost and need some insights..

Hi.. I really need your point of view on Scorpio man. I’m sorry if this is gonna be really long story.. Met this guy i really like, he's 33 yrs old. Our first date went really well and we enjoyed it so much. We kissed on the first date. Second date I went to his place to hang out watching movies at his place. So i came. We talked after the movie the suddenly we started making out and somehow i stopped cos i didn't want anything leads to sex. Told him it was too early but we made out again i said again that i couldn't this this, not because i don't want to but because i think we need to get to know each other better. He decided to go out instead with me and we talked a lot of things for hours, till we finally hit back to his place and i asked if i could stay at his place cos it was already 2am and i couldn't possibly go home. He said no problem. Then at his house we talked again for hours and hours till morning.

When we were talking he said that he really likes me and he likes the fact that i took him out of his comfort zone. He likes hanging out with me cause I'm beautiful, smart, independent and really fun to be around. he can talk about alot of things with me and really enjoy spending time with me. He told me that we should hang out more cause he wanted to get to know me better. he respects why i don't want to have sex with him. He said because I was trying to protect myself. He said he's a really passionate and hope i could understand that.

After talking for hours, We made out and things got hot and heavy, in the end we had sex. After having sex, we slept together like lovers do. We cuddled and he kept staring into my eyes and he always kissed me on the cheek or in my forehead every once a while till we fell asleep. He would caress my hair and starts looking into my eyes and just smiles. Even when he woke up, he began kissing me on the cheek or in my forehead. We just laid there on the bed and stared into each other's eyes. I left his place and when i got home , we started chatting again and told me how he had a great time with me last night..

he then ignored me for 2 days but I never acted like I missed him, I just ignored him back. We chatted again everyday ever since and have had few dates somewhere the going back to his place and I stay over at his place.. So far I’ve known him for a month. He started calling me baby last night, when I asked him why is he calling me baby he said that it’s better than calling me a friend.. I was like “what?” This thing confuses me cause he’s been acting really caring to me, talking to me everyday, and he keeps asking to meet me even on working days. I can’t go out during working days cause I have to work, so we only spend time together every Saturday and sunday. We cuddled, he loves looking into my eyes deeply then kisses me on forehead and cheek and yes we have sex as well, he said he misses me, calling me baby,. He said that im a genuinely good girl, unique and he said there’s something great about me and something really great about being with me. That’s why he keeps wanting to see me. He makes plans for us to go somewhere together. I told him I like him too. We’ve been acting like couples do but why he’s not making us exclusive..?

I really like this guy a lot, everytime we hang out the quality time of knowing each other is just amazing. our conversation went really well and he opened up to me about his family and stuffs. I know that scorpio are secretive but opening up about his family to me does mean something rite? I just don’t wanna end up as friends with benefits.. Help! Does he really like me? He told me twice that he really like me I just wanna make sure. And what is it exactly he’s trying to do? Is he trying to string me along? Thank you! Appreciate it!