I am wondering if any one can help me out with this.

I would like some insight on the number 333.

I was given a holy picture of Jesus that has been blessed, I have one at work on my desk, and a few months ago I had a heart shape appear on the desk next to the picture. One of the providers I work with gave me the picture ( she is catholic and very religious) and said I should have another one for home. I put this picture on a mantle in my bedroom, 2 nights in a row I awoke to my clock reading 3:33am. I decided to google the meaning of this time and most of the posts I read are all positive, a few posts were not. I am a little freaked out by this, can someone tell me what they think this means.

I have been doing a lot of soul searching this year, I still am finding love heart shapes, and found so many heart shape rocks this past week end while being outdoors.

Is this just a coincidence. Right now I want to sleep with my light on!

capgirl17,

Sorry I missed your earlier post.

You already sound like your on the road to recovery, good for you girl!

You did good with the message you sent to him and who knows, maybe one day you will be friends. You will be in a better place to do that, I know you are going to be just fine and I bet it won't take long for a new man to come into your life. You will be ready and you will have learned not to repeat your last experience..........................

My road to recovery was 12 months long but it was good for me, trying but good.

Many lessons learned, anger has gone from me and acceptance finally arrived...........................

Sending you a big heart<3

Taurus7,

I am here for you girl. Yes, go back and look at the North Node astrology. Do and read up on everything you can. Time will heal your wounds.

So proud of you to remain true to yourself, honesty will reward you.

Take your confidence to work tomorrow, keep your head up and be proud of who you are.

Will check in on you tomorrow.

Big hugs your way.............sending you many healing hearts<3<3<3<3<3<3

Taurus7,

I feel you will go through ups and downs, just make sure there are more ups than downs.

If you can still be friends with J, that's a good thing. Having a working relationship seeing him everyday, I think you will be better off being amicable with him.

At the beginning of my break up, I was devastated, but in time going over the circumstances, I felt very liberated from him, I allowed him to hold me back, I wasn't being true to who I really am, remember that thing, losing your power?

I just discovered the passive aggressive behavior, and this was exactly the description of the guy I was dating. It's called abuse, a very unhealthy relationship to be in.

Be careful of the mind games, him being all sweet then with drawn, this is the roller coaster ride.

Be firm, don't mope in front of him, be confident and happy...fake it till you make it, it will help you.

You did nothing wrong, its not you, very important to remember these words.

I will send another message to you.

Love and Light

capgirl7,

I went through the exact thing, he would talk about his ex-wife too. He also had over protective parents, so again, all about his past carrying the baggage into the present day.

Just like you I am strong, confident and honest and because of his insecurities, he could not handle that. He disappeared on me, still no explanation 1 year later. He did how ever get married 3 months ago to a younger woman with very low self esteem. If you read the different passive aggressive threads, men go for women like that because they want the control, these types of women are easy to control, everything is on these men's terms, it's safe for them in their closed up world.

It was sad the way he ended things with me, he misses out on having someone who would have treated him with honesty and respect. (I was really good to him). I know I can't handle someone with this behavior, it's just not healthy. I have 2 children and they also don't deserve to have someone like this in their lives. He did me a huge favor by walking away, it hurt bad at the time, but I am in such a better place now, it took many months to heal and to finally find the answers as to why all this happened, I got my closure.

I was shocked to see one site on passive aggressive behavior, where people were married for 30 and 40 years and put up with this type of person. Now days, we are more aware, this is the good thing about internet, you can google anything and find answers. These women settled for their passive aggressive men and have said how miserable they were. Thats the part of DON"T SETTLE FOR ANYONE! I have to mention that there are many women that are passive aggressive too, it goes both ways.

capgirl7, You will definitely find a good man, you see, this guy was a spiritual test for you, you will know when the right man comes along, you won't be chasing your tail trying to figure him out, it will be the way it should be, simple. (relationships are work, but not mentally draining).

All the best to you

capgirl7,

I should also add, this does not just apply to cancer men, but what I have studied and observed, cancer men are the most difficult of signs to understand especially when they hold wounds from their past. Many of them never heal, some try to heal. This is where people say you need patience, but is it really worth putting your life on hold for them. These men have to be in control, this is what took me to the passive/aggressive behavior of men, this is what actually gave me the final closure from my relationship with the cancer man I was with. (understanding why they behave the way they do)

I now know, there is absolutely nothing I could have done to help him, he is the ONLY one to help himself. Women heal so much easier when they go through hardships, as to where men bottle everything up inside and become withdrawn and very important "emotionally unavailable".

The scars they keep are very deep.

Ask yourself if you are willing to put up with their behavior, you will NEVER change them, it is a fact. If you choose to stay in the relationship, you choose to adapt to their behavior, that is called settling.

This is my opinion, you and likewise for Taurus7, follow your heart and do what's best for you.

PS I do feel for these men, everyone deserves to live a good life it's so unfortunate they miss

out on having a wonderful and loving relationship.

Love and Light

I found with cancer men, look into their past, growing up, a not so happy childhood has/will affect their future. Past wounds are VERY hard to escape them.........take a close look at passive aggressive behavior, google this and you will find some answers.

Hope this helps.

Sam012,

Don't waste your time, if he is into you, let him do the work, LET HIM COME TO YOU!! in the mean time get on with your life, don't wait or wonder about him, you move forward. If it does not feel right, move on!! Save yourself the heartache!!

When a guy truly is into you, he will move heaven and earth to be with you..................

YOU WILL KNOW WHEN THE RIGHT ONE COMES ALONG, IT WILL FEEL RIGHT> TRUST YOUR GUT..........................................ALWAYS!!

Wishing you all the best!

Hi Loap,

Your always so kind and thoughtful and you have a GREAT big heart too when it comes to people.

Take notice of the signs around you, just like the paper heart you found at your son's school. That was a reminder of just how loved you are!

I love the spirit of the Australian people, it makes me very proud how we do rally together in times of need.

I continue to find many hearts and sorry for still not posting any pics of them, my daughter promises me very soon she will help me with that, maybe when the days start getting chilly and snow starts falling, being home bound will motivate us to getting that done.

Thank you Loap, thank you for being you, continue to be the voice that touches our soul.

Love and HUGE hugs to you

Hi LOAP,

Sending you love and hugs.................

I was told about this very tragic and so sad story.

Words fail me with this situation....................

My heart goes out to the family.