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If someone doesn't listen to what you say, stop talking to them... Or better yet, tell them all is well, then gently ignore. The Leo is probably getting a weird ego stroking from getting a rise out of you. The harder you try to get them to understand, the more they will think you must really care about them, no matter what your saying (because they dont listen anyway right?). Try to become less interesting to them- shrug everything off and hopefully they will eventually get bored or someone else will come in to their life who can replace you. Good luck!

Hey PiscesParadox~ Well it seems obvious you know and understand this relationship very well. Maybe you're afraid of saying something that may be taken wrong, without more evidence. Then you have 2 options; 1) be observant and see if anything else happens or is supicous 2) go ahead and say something. I dont think Ego is the case here. I study psychology and the Ego maintains order within us. It prevents us from doing what our impulses wants us to do, which can be wrong becasue it wants to satisy an immediate urge, like to text a girl, or flirt with a guy etc. ..the Ego maintains what society deems normal behavior. I think your husband has the Ego that may be showing some behavior that may not be in order of what you know. So either, observe or confront. If your instinctcs/paranoia are getting the best of you, well then maybe you should pay attention. May times woman suspect something, but because of love, the kids, the home, the work they find excuses to stop them from doing something, thinking it will get better, because I can at least ignore it, even though it's there, but feeling uncomfortable beats all the trouble that will follow if I say something.

I'm so relieved to know that we aren't the only ones this happens to! I thought I was going nuts! It happened again today. You guys might be on to something with the water thing. I have two other Pisces and two other Cancers in my life besides my husband and we seem to have similar things happen between us also. Not to the extent that my better half and I do but enough to raise some eyebrows.

Piscesparadox whether the degrees are there or not, doesn't matter in terms of your question I can see from the list that the chart is not complete so unless you have all mathematical points (not degrees) and all asteroids position on top of all 10 planets then we can't be sure which house is empty, that's what I mean "I would be afraid to do a relationship chart! lol " LOL not always necessary. sometimes natal chart can show enough

Thank you but I'm not so strong. I'm just hardheaded and see things for what they are. This dance has been going on a very long time. I didn't call him out on what he's done to make me cry. I called him out on the candy coated lies he's tried to feed me over the past decade. He's loved every woman before me and now he's trying to feed me some BS about how he's never loved anyone like me. Trying to rewrite history. Too long of a story to go into. He let the cat out of the bag last night without meaning to and I caught it. Said he guessed he loved every girl he was ever with. I told him that I was sorry but I could do better than that. I admit he's put up with a lot out of me and has never left no matter what but his lying has to stop. I'm not going to be one of many. I'm going to be the one or I'm not going to be anything. What about you? What's your man troubles?

his mother has all his old navy stuff, he was in service for 10yrs till '04. thank you he i was very romantic he is a veryspecial guy. Well although you didn't wear a dress he planed a perfect wedding day for you two, looks like its going to last forever. Congradulations!!!! We are very lucky (u&I). And it is sooooo nice to finally see someone besides me who has nice things to say about cancers. They really are quite wonderful once you get past their eloaborate defense system.

Sorry about the double post. My laptop hates me and I don't know how to delete it!

hmmm, well all this back story on his past, with an affair etc... i think he clearly doesnt know what he has, he kinda sounds like the typical guy as-sh-ole if you ask me, im only 22 and im the nice sensitive guy last finishes last, so im single and never had a Relationship before, but ive been around with all my buddies relationship problems, so i think im more wise for my lack of experience lol i know really dont know what to tell you, i think we need to get other women in here to give you a response, cause you have a reason to have your doubts, and i dont think i can be of that much help, all i can say is that you need to tell him everything you have said on here, if you havent already, if you have told him everything that you have said on here, and he STILL doesnt get the hint that he needs to stop being jealous, and he needs to stop his little comments to you, he cant get over being insecure, and also its obvious i think that he has TRUST issues, and i think trust is probably the biggest thing to have in a Relationship, he just needs to get over it and you tell him that you are completely devoted to him, and he still has his doubts, i dont know what it will take to make him change, maybe you should REALLY move out, or leave him, not divorce him, but just make a statement to him that you are not gonna take his crap anymore and he needs to stop, something powerful enough to make him change his ways cause if he loves you as much as everybody says, he should do come around full circle. take care

captain can you take a look at my thread as well-- who should i choose? if there is anything else you need to know let me know-- thanks in advance piscesparadox i apologize 4 coming to your thread to ask this