I had the same issues with my Cancer hubby at first. We kept working at it. I do not regret even the hard times we've had between us. The good and bad between us has made us both grow as people. Even if it ended tomorrow, I would be thankful it happened. Advice? Don't expect each other to be perfect. That was some of the biggest trouble between me and my Cancer. Your Pisces is probably not freaking out because anything is wrong with you. He is most likey insecure with himself.I've never met another Pisces who wasn't scared of commitment. Myself included. We WANT it but, when it is right in front of us , we get scared and run. It's nothing personal. Pisces people have a lot of doubts.

Wrong. I have tried to hurt this Leo's pride. I've tried everything. I am at my wits end. I don't know what to do!

Happy for you! The only people who has ever really got me is Cancers. Hang in through the rough patches and you will have something amazing. Cancers always connect with me on a spiritual level that no one else ever seems to.

There is a few Leo people in my life who I am friendly with but , after one of them tried to manipulate me repeatedly, I have tried every tatic in the book to ditch this Leo! I've been blunt and this person won't leave me alone. What is a deal breaker to a Leo wanting you in their life because I can't seem to find it? I hate to be like this but this person is bring havoc to my life. They never listen to what I say.

Art museum is a good idea. ANY museum is a good idea! Neptunian Dreams is right. Guys who aren't afraid to be silly are amazing! Part of my attraction to my cancer guy is his love of being silly and teasing. Good luck!

Roses are wonderful but something bright and cheery will do just as well .It really is the thought that counts. Pisces are all about connection. Plan it yourself but keep it low key. She'll want to hear you talk about yourself. Romance but no pressure. A Pisces will run if you move in on them to fast. I was always a sucker for the shy guys.

Take her to dinner. Is there a park or something similar close by? Take her to that and just talk.

Oh, it couldn't have been going on for awhile. Before this we where together from the time we got up to the time we went back to sleep. The past few weeks is the only chance he would have had. I still think it seems suspicious. I won't let it just go on. I'm not saying that. I was afraid of being overly paranoid because of things that have happened in the past. I am a very jealous spouse and a suspicious person my nature. Everyone reminds me of this all the time. The thing is, I'm rarely wrong. That is what scares me! How should I go about it. Just keep my mouth shut and wait?

I'm not okay with the texts. That's the point. He is the love of my life. We've been together almost our whole life. I do try to understand people. People get confused and make mistakes. He defended his love for several other girls for years until I put my foot down. He came home and I had it all packed up. He spent years treating me like he could do better than me. That's changed in the past few years. Our kids actually have done better because I've stayed with him. He's is crazy about them and will go out of his way to get them whatever they want. It's just hard because real love means letting go of ego sometimes. It's a thin line and the boundaries of that line are blurry. My ego has taken quite the beating over the years but I can't say I haven't given it back.

I AM demanding emotionally. I know this. I'm so devoted that I expect the same. Over the years I will say that whatever I've stood through, he has stood beside me, dam*n the consequences. He has also stood against me to defend the girl he had an affair with ( even though she threw him to the dogs). He knows that sort of disloyalty won't be forgiven twice. I know that this is putting him in a bad position if he's telling the truth about the coworker. I really don't want to do that to him. I try to understand that. It's hard for me to because I have no problem being the bad guy but it bothers him. To me it's cowardly. To him, it's politics. He really is a good person with a great heart. I guess that is what has kept us together so long. He has everything I lack and visa versa.

I appreciate you all's advice. Sometimes other people can plainly see what you don't want to. The only time I can't account for all his time is when he is at work. Love is worth it if it is true. You can never know how true love is unless it is tested. The mistakes you make shows how much you mean to someone. Forgiveness comes for those who love you outside of ego. The thing is, if that love isn't a two way street, is doesn't mean anything. Ego destroys alot of relationships that could have been something good if they both are willing work at it and grow. Mistakes allow that learning and growth but there is always a tipping point because none of us can exist totally without ego. The line is different for everyone, with different people. Ego and self worth are two different things. It seems like I put up with alot and it Seems I have little self worth. I have plenty self worth, just less ego if that makes any sense.

He said that the boy wants to talk to me before he leaves tonight. The girl sent a text offering to call me. I can't say my husband has alot of time unaccounted for because he doesn't. A little the other night but that is all I'm aware of. The calls and text have just started within the past week.

He's never been able to trick me. I've always seen through all of it. He knows I believe that turn about is fair play and I took him to school last time. The last affair he had the girl came out and admitted everything. She tried to discipline one of my kids after that and I walked right up in her house and exploded. One thing I don't do is back down.

I know it burned him because the only place he will go without me is work and he goes everywhere with me. I just don't want to falsely accuse him because of something that happened long in the past. I want to be sure because falsely accusing someone is like spitting in their face and saying," Deep down, I really think you're a POS." At the same time I have to make my boundaries clear. I want to be very clear with him that I won't put up with this suspicious mess... even if that means leaving.

He has had exes contact him and he refused to send them on their way. I did it myself. I have one he is very jealous of and I know that it eats him up when we talk. I told him that when he puts his on the curb then I will mine. It hasn't changed anything. I told him that it is a respect thing. He not getting anymore than I'm given. He knows this. He says he is going to clear this up tonight. We'll see.

More than 2. I'm about to go see him. I guess I'll start packing my kids and I's stuff. * Sigh* I am going to talk to that boy. We'll see what's what. I noticed a girl parked where him and I usually park and meet up. She was looking at me and smiling. I saw her texting and he got the text right then but has never said anything to me about it. He took me out and spent a bunch of money on me today. Guilt?

He made comments about 2 or three weeks ago that if he and I started having problems , he wouldn't stay for our kids. Now I see that it wasn't just a random, out of the blue comment like it seemed it was at the time.