AuntBuck I think that the psychic reader had a point about the karmic debt - he clearly has ties to this woman so strong that they are pulling him away from you & what I think would be a great relationship for you both but you will drive yourself crazy trying to figure out the whys and wherefores of this. I totally understand about the connection you have, I too have experienced near telepathy with close ones. That shows that you have great potential for the future, you have a real bond!
I see relationships as a timing and evolution thing. Relationships that end or do not work out are not unsuccessful, they have just done what they needed to do and we are not the same person afterwards that we were before. If that person returns/the relationship starts up again then there is more to be done.
In essence I believe that with relationships with others, we must 'go with what is'
We all have karmic pulls and unfinished business and these things, though they often cause chaos, are as much a part of our lifepath as the good times are. I have Muslim friends and there is an interesting aspect to their belief system which kind of acknowledges the force of 'karma' and unfinished business in our lives. They believe that all human urges and actions, even the most negative like infidelity, are sanctioned by Allah. Note that for them Allah is not a single being called God in our Christian sense - Allah is the overall energy that makes up the universe, the higher force. So we are all Allah, the flower on your doorstep is Allah, your pet cat is Allah.
Basically what they are trying to say (I think!) is that everything does happen for a reason and sometimes we are inexplicably pulled to courses of action despite our attempts to prevent it.
What I suggest now is go with what is as far as this man is concerned and ask your innerself where you need to go from here, what is best for you. Where is your heart pulling you? Where is your unfinished business or where are the souls you need to seek out right now?
If the psychic reader is right about this man loving you and coming back, he will come back when it is time. When whatever needs to be accomplished with this ex of his has been accomplished. How many of us have had to fulfil a responsibililty/be at work but at the same time have been wistfully looking over our shoulder or at the clock at what we plan to do once we've met our obligation. This I feel is where this man might be at the moment. He has a spiritual responsibility to fulfill with this woman but once its done, he's outta there!
Bear in mind this could take a while. It could even be in a future life that he finds you again lol!
Go with what is right now, let this man go with love and let him know that the door is open for him when he is ready. In the meantime, you must go on with your own path and fulfill your own karma.
Love & Light xxx