I’ve been dating this cancer man for 4 months and it has been an emotional rollercoaster for me.
At first he was very closed in (Aquarius moon) and I was very wary of opening up to him also (Scorpio moon) as I’ve had a lot of trust issues in the past.
We have had the “talk“ about our relationship and where it’s going and he has said that he’s not looking to put a title on us yet but however he’s fully committed to me and doesn’t have interest in seeing anyone else only me and he expects the same from me also.

I was fine with that because our relationship is going well we spend every weekend together and speak every day.

My problem is the more I’ve got to know him I’ve learnt that he’s constantly putting his business before me which is why he didn’t want to put a title on us because he knows that he would have to put me before his business and right now his aim is just to get rich (his dad is a millionaire so he’s constantly trying to be like him)...

The man cares for me like I see it, his actions tell me everything I need to know about how he feels about me but when something goes wrong with his business or finances he’s very cold and he kind of pushes me away without him noticing. He’s a typical moody cancer and I’ve been with one cancer before and I see how toxic it can get when they are moody like this. So I often shy away as a Pisces and give him like a 2 day space in to which he dislikes. I always tell him that my actions are mirroring his so when he is distant with me I act distant too but he doesn’t realise this because he’s so caught up in his business.

My question is now what can I do? I read that cancers often want you to “mother” them and I know this is true because my ex was a cancer and I was constantly being a mother to him more than anything. I don’t mind doing it for this new guy I’m dating but it’s stressful because I don’t think he’s that type of cancer I just think he’s very focused on his business and to be honest I feel like a fish out of water I don’t know how to act around him. How can I be a “mother” to him like how can I support him?

@TheCaptain 12/mar/1993 and 11/sep/1994

Basically I’m a Pisces but I’m more ruled by my Scorpio moon which stops me from pursuing things, I hate to be too obsessive and controlling which is what I am deep down and I have this fear I’m going to push my potential lover away.

As of late I have met a Virgo man who has a Sagittarius moon and he’s really sweet and kind, but as usual when I first meet someone I’m shy and I don’t like to give off too much so I never initiate contact first and act like I’m not interested (I know it’s really bad)

Me and this guy have been intimate already but we are really good friends but because I like him I’m so shy to ever call him first.

He mentioned to me that I never call him which is why he doesn’t bother chasing after me. The reason I don’t ever feel comfortable to call him is because I know he’s dating other people at the same time and he’s not afraid to tell me this he never hides anything he’s very upfront about everything and has expressed he wants a relationship but just hasn’t found someone special yet. My sister asked him in front of me if he can see me and him going in to a relationship and he said he doesn’t know yet.

My question is, will he get bored of me taking things slow? I know usually Virgos like to move quickly but I am very slow paced and I’m thinking he will get bored and just not even bother to answer my calls when I do call him eventually.

I have a friend I am interested in, he’s a Virgo with Sag moon and Scorp Venus. (11 sep 1994)

I am a Pisces with Scorp moon and Aries Venus.(12 mar 1993)

We have just recently met not long ago, and we both already have gotten intimate with each other.

The problem is he asked me at the beginning if I was looking for a relationship and stupidly I said no only because that’s what I thought I wanted after coming out of a heartbreak.

Now I want to get to know him but not push for a relationship or any commitment from him I just want to get to know him.

Does anyone know what I am to expect from this person with his chart? And how I can maybe pursue him?

@TheCaptain thank you. Do you think it may be a case where he goes between the both of us because he did love me at one point too? Not that I want him back but I was told by a psychic to expect him to come back

My boyfriend dropped me suddenly, he’s a Cancer with an Aquarius moon and a Gemini Venus.

He started to go cold with me, and very distant, I started to suspect he was speaking to an ex again and possibly got back with her behind my back.

When I was with him last Saturday to Monday we had a good time, he was normal with me but it’s when I leave him I don’t hear from him and he makes no effort to call me.

So I “accused” him of being back with his ex and cheating on me, then he started to act a victim and wanted me to apologise to him.

Then I apologised to him (I know I shouldn’t have) and he just broke it off with me saying that he never said we was together, and he never loved me, and never saw me in that way. It was really evil like it came out of nowhere he basically said that everything he said in the past was a lie and I took it the wrong way.

He then changed his number, out of nowhere and disappeared. Now I’m broken. I’m learning to accept, and let go it’s only been a week but of course as you can imagine when someone drops you just like that out of nowhere it leaves you confused and insecure about yourself wondering if you are good enough for anyone at all.

I just want a little insight as to why he dropped me, and why he suddenly wanted to break up with me. Did he get bored of me? And just wanted to have something new? I was so good to him and I treated him well and never gave him headache it’s only when I started to suspect him cheating on me I started to stress him out.

@Incescre he spoke to me today. I’m going to visit him on Saturday and speak face to face about everything. Thank you

@TheCaptain thank you so much. I’ve been crying almost everyday and I just needed that confirmation. Thank you it was much needed.

@TheCaptain thank you! At the minute he’s needing space because he’s been going through personal issues, and he’s scared of the development of our relationship (he never wanted it to move too fast) he’s got trust issues and has fallen in love with me now he thinks I’m going to leave him and didn’t expect to have these deep feelings for me at first especially since he didn’t want us to move so fast.

Shall I give him some space and wait for him to come back? I’ve been constantly reaching out to him first to let him know I’m there for him so he knows already but I feel like I’m doing too much now.

@TheCaptain it’s 12/07/1998

Currently struggling with insecurities in a relationship not sure if he wants to break up with me or not. Not sure if I’m being insecure or what?

My date of birth is 12/03/1993