Beware Ladies!!! Being in a relationship with a Virgo man is Not for the faint of the heart. I'm a Pisces and constantly find myself in relationships with a Virgo. I've been with my sept Virgo for 8 years and its been a hell of a roller coaster ride. If I meet another Virgo man I'm running for the hills! No way, will I endure the torture of another Virgo relationship. I do believe the Aug Virgo are different from the Sept Virgo men. I think the Aug Virgo are more emotional and clingy while the Sept Virgo are cold and distant.
I've come to realize I'm the type of person that likes challenges and am not a quitter. I think I'm with this Virgo man to learn more about myself/relationships. Even though most days I want to scream and knock him upside his head lol, I choose to learn from my experience with this man and try to focus on the positive ways I'm growing as a woman. "Every hardship is an opportunity in disguise."
My Virgo guy has good qualities such as independent, patient, easy going, logical, Strong, smart, sexy, gentle, humorous, down to earth, dependable, good work ethic, gives me space, etc. He's able to read ppl really well and usually he's right. He's laid back and reserved but don't underestimate him. He's observing and analyzing everything and everyone and even though it seems like he can be a pushover. He's far from it. He speaks up when you least expect it and tell it like it is. He don't care who it is, he will get his point across.
Negative side includes being cold and distant, worrying and negative energy (depressed at times), sexually reserved, always on the go (pursuing career), lying, etc.
I call him a weirdo and he tells me I'm weird too. There is lots of love between the two of us but it takes constant work and it feels like if we can get thru the week without me getting upset at him is a miracle. Pisces can be easily manipulated but don't under estimate us. We have strong instincts and intuitions and once we on to you, we usually know what's going on. I'm detailed oriented and notice everything while he's laid back and nonchalant, so it appears I start the arguments. Whatever, if it doesn't make sense or feel right, then I have a problem. I know when he's lying and I will let him know. He will keep his feelings bottled up and will let them out on rare occasions. Once he does let his feelings out depending on what he says, it can hurt your feelings or make you feel so loved. He's definetly not the romantic type but will do nice things like surprising me with flowers or a surprise bday party or surprising me at work with a gift. Since this doesn't happen often, maybe once or twice a year it's special when it does happen. He's charming and flirt with other woman I'm sure. But I think he's all talk, he wants other ppl to think he's the opposite of what he really is. I notice around other ppl he's this fun, happy outgoing guy; around me I see the real him, the worrier, the complainer, the quiet guy thinking about his future.
There has been infidelities on both our parts. He forgave me. He even said he blame hisself for not spending more time with me and showing me more attention. The constant rejection and being lonely in a relationship led me astray. I was good for a loooong time but after a while I figured he didn't care and was doing him do I started doing me. It's crazy because we been thru so much together and I've been trying to figure him out for so long and wondering why he act the way he does. Looking back at our relationship i understand where we went wrong. I was expecting him to be something he's not. I took his rejection and his ways personally. Now I understand how he express his love. He has his own weird way. Reading about his sign online has helped me realize it's in his nature to act the way he does. It's soo annoying but true.
I learned that being emotional and affectionate in a relationship is important. Usually I'm passive and a non aggressive person and I would expect my men to make the first move and shower me with love and be affectionate. Now I'm becoming more aggressive. Before I would keep my emotions to myself but now I learned to express it. Before I would tell my partners no to sex and think they're crazy cuz they act all retarded if you say no. Now I understand sex is important and crave it. What a 360 degree turn for me lol. I'm even more sexually motivated thanks to my Virgo.
Anyway it's been quite a ride. I'm not going to say Virgo men are the devil. Taurus men has that title hands down lol. But being with a Virgo is mentally demanding and I wouldn't suggest this sign to a woman who isn't willing or capable of compromising herself. They will def take you out of your normal character. But for me the transition to becoming the best woman I can be is worth it. Would I go thru it again? HELL NO!!
V men need to have "space" and time to theirselves To think and analyze. But I wonder what they're Really thinking about because whatever it is doesn't help in my opinion. They waste all this time "thinking" and still not perfect lol. My V guy still can't lie and tells on hisself and still makes the same mistakes like getting a car ticket over and over again, still have the same problems, etc. so I don't get it. All that thinking isn't helping!