Ow and Happy B-day LG!
Wow loads of new stories, need to dive into them
For me at this point, I'm relieved. Yesterday I've spoken to my virguy about my "I feel left hanging" feelings, his distancing from me etc. All the virgoans bad habits that made me so confused and insecure. He opened up to me, told me things, and gave me time to look at him...the real him. And OMG he's so gorgeous, loyal, sweet, caring, and everything I wish for on the inside!! It's like we're both relieved we're on the same side again. He gave me loads of affection afterwards without me asking for it. I told him that maybe he find it stupid that I want to hear from him when I'm not with him, and he said he never stood still thinking about that, cause he knows where I am...Kinda duh, but today he sends me loads of text messages like in the beginning...sweet, caring messages I was so longing for.
So, we're not there yet that we love eachother aswell that we're in love with eachother. Ok can't deny that my love is growing every minute...
So I think I don't belong in this thread...I just wish you all could feel the same like me at the moment. When you have a virgo, who wants you...Damn, he's the best you can wish for...sigh
@Jenever: Bring on the booze Yes I know what Jenever is, and allthough I'm not into this kind of liquor...well let's party
Welcome to all the new readers and posters to this Virgo thread. We're all in the same kinda "boat" lol.
Well, if someone read my thread about my virgo man, I also was confused by this typical virgo behaviour of push and pull, hot and cold, and I was on the edge of breaking things off, because I didn't feel that it was there anymore, or that it was all in my head, or that he as a virgo couldn't live up to my piscean dreamworld of how a relationship "should" or "could" work. But this weekend, I used a different strategy on my virgo man lol. I've kept my distance at times, did my own thing, let him do his, and from time to time I said to come over and give me a hug or kiss, and after that kept my distance again. When we went out, I spoke to mutual friends, but glanced at him from time to time and when he looked back, gave him my ever irresistable smile never clinged at him, but never stepped away from his side too. And he came back to me every time I walked up to another friend.
On saturday his parents came by for coffee (typical dutch too, to have coffee at 8PM with a cookie lol) and I told his mom that I really have to get used to his personality of making jokes at my expense, eventhough I really think it's funny, and she said that's just the way he is, that they're all that "nuchter" and that I just have to go with the flow (reassurance from the family builds confidence too) He even asked for my opinion on new blinds he wanted to bought cause i had to like them too (OMG) We went to a friend that night and he glanced the whole time at me with his clear blue eyes and smiled his gorgeous smile a lot (I'm friggen melting from this guy, with his famous virgo stare!!)
Yesterday we saw the GP1 at a friends house and he was joking with me the whole time but in a sweet way, and pulled me close to him a lot and than kissed my head, or stroke my back...finally some affection!!! When we were lying in bed I pulled a little Pisces again told him if he knew how much I liked him, he was stroking my face and back and said his hmmhmm and than sad "A lot" and when I asked him if it was mutual he did the hmmhmm thing again lol...
I'm not there yet where I want, because it was hard not to fall back on my piscean personality, but actually this was a great weekend with my virgo man, and i never had expected it. It seems we have to not expect anything and just go with the flow, than it turns out for the better (well for me this weekend) at this point I can't wait for the weekend again to see MY virgo man again...YAY!!
Ok, sorry this was a selfish egoboost post from me ...so sorry will respond on others soon, but I'm just to happy now lol
@Flowsco: LOL I always thought I was the only Dutch citizen that isn't as "nuchter" as the rest of the Netherlands. I think a lot, and I easily lose reality out of sight. The world can be such a happy place in my head
Offcourse I know that virgoans not only drain watersigns, but with our personality of so emotional, sentimental and boohoo we need their attention they can't give us, it's hard to deal with them. So I can only speak for me as a watersign involved with an earthsign.
We sure need to keep our heads together, which is almost impossible on my end cause my head is wandering off a lot lol.
@Jenever: aaww that's sweet that you want to send me a clover lol, and about the world cup...Well I knew they couldn't beat Spain, and my Virgo man was pissed about me I said they would lose, but I had to comfort him after the match.
On the Virgo subject, like you I'm a watersign and I'm dealing with the many faces virgoans have. At this point I don't think I have such a long breath to keep up with my virgo as you did. When I'm alone I think a lot about the actions and words from him, and come to the conclusion I don't want to be in his shadow, till I see him again and all seems good again. Yes, being with a virgo is emotionally draining for us watersigns, and I don't want to give up on him just yet, but on the other hand I'm not going to put myself least in this relationship....