I need some advice about my girlfriend who is Aquarius (Jan 30), and who has Pisces moon, and Virgo rising.
We met online about 15 months ago, and met up for the first time last June. We have continued to meet up every month since then for a long weekend each time as we live about 400 miles or so away from each other. Due to the nature of our relationship we mostly hold it over the telephone a couple of times a week except of course for those weekends each month when we meet up. We are coming up for our 12 month anniversary next week.
As my user name shows I'm a Pisces and so I'm rather emotional and sensitive etc.. all the usual Piscean traits, however with my gf being Aquarius, she embodies the typical emotionally detached personality that I keep reading about.
She isnt very good at opening up emotionally or talking about herself - talking about other people and things she is interested in are not a problem for her.
As you can imagine this is very frustrating for me, and even though I try to get her to talk to me and open up a bit, even to get her to admit things like she misses me, or has feelings for me its really really difficult and she almost freezes up in fear and gets very very quiet.
For someone like me who can be emotional and expressive etc.. I am now starting to feel resentful about this and recently (last couple of months) its felt as though any intimacy we had is essentially all over. Anytime we talk on the phone now its like we just sit and watch television together and laugh a lot - which is good, dont get me wrong, but I just want more now as I'm developing more and more feelings toward her.
At the start of our relationship things were a lot better - emails, photos, flirting etc.. and I know that during the start of any relationship its all new and exciting and the honeymoon period which does start to wane as time goes on.
Lately I've been having thoughts about leaving her as things dont seem to be moving forward. I will be talking to her when we meet up next weekend about all this, but I guess I need some advice about how to handle this and if its worth sticking with it. I've done loads of tarot readings on this site over the past couple of weeks and they essentially all tell me to be patient and not to throw it away and al that, but its just hard and I get frustrated over this whole thing.
If it makes any difference I'm 28 and she's 30 and although I dont know the full story about her ex'es she has been with 5 guys before me and has never had a relationship longer than 9 months. My track record with women isnt amazing either, and this is my longest relationship as well.
Thanks for listening, and if anyone can advise on where to move from here I'll gladly welcome whatever you can tell me.