Hi TheCaptain - I could doing with knowing what issues I'm here for ... it might explain the rough start I've had to 2010 DOB 1st March 1970 - Thanks

Well that didn't work! will try again. If this doesn't work I give up.

What a great idea.

I used to have a rescue greyhound (Ben), but had to rehome him when I changed jobs.

I do still have my marine fishtank, so had to attach a picture of Fuzzy as well (can't forget my wet friends!)

Something else to be aware of ... Pisces do not like confrontation (I certainly don't) and will avoid it at all costs. Don't beg and give him a bit of space. Leonessa is right, if you put pressure on him to reply, chances are he will pull away more, which is why I suggested, don't ask questions, keep it light and let him know you are thinking of him. If someone pushes me and asks questions when I am angry or upset, I withdraw further into myself and can become even more angry/upset. Pisces can definitely pout a bit! It is normally self pity and they can get into a mode of thinking no one understands them, etc. That would explain the change in his IM screen name.

There is a chance the Christmas gift will mellow him a bit and start to bring him round. I know it would me, but then he is a man so may not be quite so "easy" :))

BTW any tips you have on Taurus men would be much appreciated! I am at the stage of having communication issues with one - same reason as yours ... trust. So any tips on gaining his trust would be much appreciated.

As a Pisces woman, I'll tell you how I would likely be and what I would want. Just remember though that everyone is unique if you consider the full natal chart and general life experiences,

Personally, I find it very hard to trust someone and if they gain my trust, but then hurt me, I am very cautious going forward for fear of being hurt again. If I am hurt or angry with someone, I want and need a bit of space. I would want the person that made me angry/hurt to feel my pain and show understanding that they have done wrong - even a simple apology. I have also been known to ignore texts as a form of "payback". I wouldn't suggest breaking all contact with him (that would drive me up the wall), but keep it light, don't ask questions and don't push. A simple hello, hope you have a good day, thinking of you, that sort of thing. Try that for a few days and see if he starts to mellow. Personally, I never stay angry for long, but if someone pushes the wrong buttons, I can seethe for days making the whole thing a lot worse. The fact he has still sent you the odd text says to me he has not given up on you. If he had, you wouldn't get any texts at all.

Your a Taurus, which means you probably have the patience and persistance to see this through. Good Luck.

Thank you LibrasLair for your suggestion, it is such a simple thing, but I had never thought of trying it. I will give it a go - it is normally worse at night when I am trying to get to sleep or get woken up in the middle of the night/early hours of the morning.

Merry Christmas / Seasons Greetings / Happy Holidays to you all.

luv2laf >> I already have a set of tarot cards, but struggle to understand the meaning of them. I will look for the book you have suggested.

TheHangedWoman>> Thank you for the link, which I have saved. I find I need to read things a number of times before I truly grasp or understand the meaning so will be going back. I am seeking all you have said, but realise it will not come overnight.

LibrasLair>> You struck a chord - although I do live in a small village in the UK, like most people I work long hours and find it hard to switch off. My mind just never seems to stop no matter how much I want it to.

Thank you all for your replies, I regretted posting this message initially, but now I am glad I did. I will continue reading, learning and see where it takes me.

I’ll apologise up front as I suspect this will be a long post. I also feel a bit stupid asking this question, because surely if I was, I would know the answer, however, I will plough on.

In the past couple of months I have become more interested in the spiritual side of my life. I have been doing some reading up on Astrology, Tarot and Dream Analysis. I did a Numerology report the other day and it did say that between the ages of 35 and 40 I would turn more to the spiritual side of life and I would start to try and develop this. I turn 40 next year.

I have called quite a few psychics lately about a friendship/relationship problem I have been having. I know I shouldn’t be calling them as often as I have, but each time it has helped me get through the uncertain period when I have been feeling very down. Two of the psychic’s I have spoken to have said I have psychic abilities myself. One of them (the first one) I simply didn’t believe, as the reading just seemed like a con. However, the second one that said I had psychic abilities made a number of short term predictions, all of which came true.

I have had one incident happen to me that makes me wonder if there might be something there. The incident relates to the “relationship/friendship” person, who I hadn’t heard from for a few days (it used to be daily contact). One morning I woke up and just felt he would contact me by 11:00pm on the Friday night. The latest he ever used to text was 9pm at night so I thought it was just wishful thinking on my part, however, on the Friday in question he sent me a text at 10:20pm.

So this has me wondering, do I really have psychic abilities that I am just not aware of ? Is this something someone can learn and if so what are the first steps?

Although I am not a regular poster on here, I do spend a couple of hours each day reading through the forum and I have found it very useful and insightful, so thank you to every one of you regular posters.

I can only comment as a Pisces female (Saggitarius Moon, Scorpio Rising, Venus in Pisces).

I am forgiving, however, if someone hurts me enough, I would never make the first move towards reconciliation. Call me mean, but I would also be looking for some form of apology or acknowledgement of the hurt caused (don't try and pretend nothing happened/was said). Someone that just tries to pick up as though nothing happened would never gain my trust or forgiveness.

Another point is that I will sometimes go into hermit mode when I retreat into my own world and will largely ignore the outside world (as much as is possible!), particularly if I have been hurt.

My suggestion would be give him a bit of time and then make the first approach in a concillatory manner (if you can swallow your Leo pride My brother is a Leo and I am closer to him than any other member of my family.

Good luck and I hope things work out for you if that is what you really want.

Thank you Blmoon. What you say makes a huge amount of sense and it is over the last 2 to 3 weeks that I think I have started to realise that I am in this to learn some lessons. I have taken a step back from the situation, and since doing this I feel less frustrated. I have always been an impatient person ... if I want something, I want it now so this experience is definitely teaching me the art of patience.

The psychic I have called more than once I have used more as a counsellor on the last 2 calls, I have gone to him for advise on how to handle the situation. You are right, he has advised patience on all occasions I view him as a sort of teacher for me through this as we seem to have a good connection.

I am definitely learning more about myself and this experience has allowed me to make peace with another aspect of my life tthat had been troubling me.

Once again, thank you so much for replying.