Hi Emergence

You are so right about taurus men. My ex was a taurus, and their level of cruelty is unbelievable, you can cry and plead, all to no avail, but they demand nothing short of total complience. In the beginning they are so adorable, and then the minute you do one thing they deem wrong, they dump you. But they never acknowledge their role in things. Very fustrating. I am sticking now to leos, scropios and aries men, LOL

You have the answer, you just don't want to see it, because you are too afraid to lose him. Well the truth is, this is one guy you should lose. I don't know where to start, the worst is the swingers club, any man who truly loves you would not be taking you there, and of course he has someone else, that is why he is not sleeping over

If you ever feel that you can't trust someone, listen!! It is not because of your past, it is your warning system. This man will only hurt you, never listen to his words, just watch his actions

LA1524

Just like your ignorance saying to this woman that 95% of men go back to their wives, not true at all, you wrote this to make yourself feel better because your husband came back, what does that have to do with hers? And this woman is also separated and it does not matter what he said to her, they shared memories together. And if you want statistics, women who take men back after they cheat, they cheat again because they know they can get away with it, it is sad that you wrote this to her and don't even see that it will make her feel worse, and I have nothing else to say to you.

To the other people that posted the comments about not getting involved with a married man, he was separated and so was she, this is not about him being married or single, or a leo or not, single guys do this too, and for the women who took her husband back, cheaters don't change,he will do it again. And 1525 how did any of this help her, this is your story and we her to help her, not make her feel guilty. If he was living with his wife, then yes of course not, but he was not. This happens to single people all the time

this hurts, no doubt about it. It does not matter that he is a leo, all signs do this. Maybe he could not deal with the depth of his emotions, it is sad but now a days, men run from their emotions instead of staying and working it out. Maybe he felt guilty that he was happy, acutally it does not matter why he did that, all that matters is that you are hurting, and you will be for a long time. Of course you are struggling becasue it makes no sense, unfortunately people in love do things that make no sense, and those of us who don't act that way, sit at home and cry and wonder and analize and think, what did I do wrong, why, how, and make ourselves crazy. The only postive thing I can say to you is that better he did this to you now then after you were married, that would have hurt more. I know right now you can't see this, but to not return your calls, he is not as nice as you think he is. He did you a favour that it might take years to see. Of course you are not ready to date anyone else, because you really love this guy, I would recommend reading anything by colin tipping, he has a website called radical forgiveness.com, All you can do now is take one day, no one hour at a time, slowly you will emerge okay. You are a good person and you did not deserve this, the issue is his. Read, clean, walk outside, exercise anything to try to get your mind off of the pain. At least it is summer so you can go sit outside in nature. God bless and it will get easier

Anyone who has an addiction, can not put a relationship first, the addiction comes first. Love is never enough and you already know the answer. And why would you want to be with a man who steals? You need to love yourself now, enough to see the truth. You can't change him, but you can change your own self destruction by staying with this man

You are not seeing the writing on the wall, he has made it clear that he does not want you that way, and by talking to him everyday you are making it worse for yourself. Listen to a man when he tells you that to marry someone else and that he won't make you happy. And he is proving that, he is not making you happy. You say you can't live without him, no you can't live without air or shelter, you just don't want to live without him, and he is married to boot. The only person who can help you now is yourself, you will survive this and go on to find a single man who you will love and he will love you and then marry him. yes right now you think you will never love anyone this way again, but you will, and this time around, go for a single man, a man who is married is a cheater, and why would you want that, if he does it with you,he will do it to you. Put yourself on some free dating sites, stop talking to him, read the the bood "don't call that man" excellent book and now that you will survive and one day thrive