This sounds fun
Thank you so much.
Happy New Years!!! May 2012 be peaceful, joyful,and full of blessings.
Ok so here's my story. I was cleaning out my junk draw to shred old mail and stuff and low and behold I discovered that my birth certificate had a different time of birth than what my Mother had told me. So if you can be so kind to do a new reading for me please I would greatly appreciate this.
My new birth info is 11/07/1967 @ 9:43 am also my cancer is the same 07/06/1961 @ 08:00 am
Thank you so much!!
Hey! Just checking up on you. For one you have to understand that you are in control of you and the way you want to live it,and also the things or people you want to be a part of it. You don't have to be bullied by men. Some of them have a tendency to use gifts and manipulate feelings just so you won't move on. If a man loves you and you tell him that you need a little time and space to yourself to make sure you're making the right decision. He should respect you for that. And if he loves you and has enough confidence in himself,and really has strong feelings about his love for you and the possibility of marriage. Then he would give you the space that you need and understand that the decision you make might not be the one he wants to hear. You should avoid being bullied by any man at all cost. Because men that has to have everything their way is telling you from the start what kind of person they are. They are selfish and most of them don't mind telling you. They sometimes just you choice words to get the message across. If a person says that they love you but their partner is requesting space that should be a red flag that they are hurting and not happy. This is the point he should get and not try to make you stay with him. Relationships are about two people with feelings. And if one persons feelings are damage,than the other should step in and ask how can I help to make things better or what can I do to help make our relationship stronger. If you are not feeling good and you don't have your relationship issues resolved before that trip. You will be miserable,and people will read right through you. Or you will find yourself pretending to be someone else just to make him and the relationship look good. I don't know how you're going to figure things out but believe me a decision can't be made if you dont have the alone time to figure out what you want in life and how important it is to be in a relationship and what type of man you want to be with. Its important to know these things. Just remember love yourself first always. Relationships are about taking chances and knot knowing the outcome and being able to walk way with your heart in tact if things didn't work out.
I pray that 2012 will be full of joy,peace,and happiness for you.
Wow! Im a scorpion female too. What does your heart tell you to do. I say too much drama and manipulation. And that should hurt when a guy says that you dont do the the things that turn him on. Nonsense! He should just state clearly what is he want you to do and than let you decide if that would be something that you want. Relationships dont work if it's only one person wanting it. Sounds like a control issue to me. If s man can't give you what you need and you do the same for him and still love each other,than what is the point. Relationships aren't one sided and if you find yourself stressing out over being with him or not. Look deep within you'll know the answer. There's always someone out there willing to love you for who you are where you wouldn't need to change a thing about yourself. Try a cancer man lol at least they love you for you. They may be difficult because they are insecure at first but as long as you assure them that you are with them and only have eyes for them they will love you and only you till death do you part. Especially if you guys charts are compatible.
He is not worth anymore of your time. He seem immature and disrespectful. Some guys get a kick out of other people pain. He seem like a love them and leave them type of guy. Honey never let him see you sweat or crack under pressure. It's not the end of the world. It could have been a worst situation than what happened. I understand you two work together. Just act as if he is invisible. He's probably has a reputation around the company anyways. You're not the first and the other woman won't be the last. It's a good thing that he took the garbage out first. He just saved you the trip of tossing it out yourself. Lol
Have a good day
I am a Scorpio woman and am with a cancer man. I invite you to view my posts where I had a reading regarding my relationship by the captain. Its the one with the eighteen posts. As far as my input on your scorpion lady. Its best to meet with her where the two of you can get a real feel for one another. Scorpio's are pretty good at reading who's real and the same goes for cancers. I also will say that we have a lot in common which you would find true once you meet with her. Just be patient until you meet and dont worry about being nervous as she will be also. I love my cancer with all that I have we both are emotional and respect each other and know when to give each other space when needed. Trust me you will feel a lot better once you meet with her. Just dont be aggressive and you will be fine. But make sure to be a gentleman we love that. We love romantic men. And for the ones that dont they have mental issues and probably not a good upbringing. There is something very special about scorpios and cancers. If you take the time to get to know and understand one another. I will keep in touch. Oh and great move by giving her your number first to call you. Sometimes we have to build ourselves up to make the call.
Good luck with your date
How are you? I would like to ask if you can give me a reading on what my future looks like. I have been wondering what I would like to do next in my life. I have often wondered how successful I will become. Or if I will receive at least half of the things I would love to have in this lifetime regarding finances, career,health and love. I think a lot about getting older and enjoying my life to the fullest.
I agree what you're saying and I feel as though from my past experience that I have matured and have learned lessons regarding life and relationships. I feel that I am ready to have a healthy and stable relationship. And would like to share my love and time with my cancer friend. What concerns me though is how to deal with him as a divorced man and knowing the right things to say when he is feeling low. I know he gets moody a lot and so do I. I have no idea on how to communicate with someone coming out of a bad marriage whether its him or a female friend. I just know how to share who I am as a friend and be supportive. You just don't know the right things to say. I know as for myself when I have problems or an issue I deal with it. If I am having a bad day then I will do something to kind of snap myself out of it. Maybe relationships are not for me I don't know. I do know that I care about people and what they are going through. I understand that some are weaker than others. Who are we to judge? Or is it that some of us as a people their life is so perfect that they are to above anyone else to say a few words of encouragement. Sometimes just listening helps when people need to just vent. I know that I am not perfect and I respect others for their mistakes as well as accomplishments .it would be great if we all can try doing this. The world would be a better place but ot has to first start with the people. I have a lot to offer of myself for a relationship and would like to even have a husband one day. But that is only by the grace of God. I will still be able to function as a mature healthy minded individual if I don't have one. I told myself many years ago that it is not my fault if people don't want to accept what love I have to offer. Hey! We are not perfect. I will take things one day at a time as far as building healthier relationships hopefully things would work itself out between my friend and I. And when things are a little too overwhelming. I will seek my comforter as I have always do. Jesus Christ. Well as always it's a pleasure speaking with you. And if you have any information that you can share on life after divorce and how to cope and be supportive to someone coming from one please advise. I would greatly appreciate it.
Again. Thanks for the invite
Thanks once again for the information. I so appreciate everything that you are saying I feel as though you went deep into my soul as well as his . Your hit the mark right on with both of us. And with both of us owning businesses and the kids it is a little difficult to figure things out. I dont have a problem anymore with being alone. I spent a great deal of my time alone raising a child because I had put him first in my life and Didn't date much. But I will say after my son left when he be and grown I felt as if I lost my best friend. He and I are sooo close. But were in you h everyday. I dont fall into relationships to fast the longer the friendship the better for me. I dated the sag for five yrs before I gave in to commitment with him. Before him and cancer I just dated. Bit o understood that I needed to do some soul searching after a abusively relationship with my Childs father an Aries...i've learned lot on my time and had an abusive mother as well. But through everything I love me and who I've become through the years lifes ups and downs has made me unbelievably strong. My cancer is a mirror of myself and he scares the crap out of me. My friends use to call me runaway bride because when people got close while dating...i ran without a trace. I don't like to be pressured into anything and when I tell someone that I like them but not for relationship and they dont get it I just disappear without a trace. I dont fall on love that easily and I have to feel it in my heart. I dont have a clue as to how to work this out with cancer but I know we love each other and I'm willing to sit down and talk about is maybe having a future. Captain he is truly my first love. The others I wasn't in love I just loved and respect them. I truly want to say to you again that I appreciate you as I dont share my life with anyone because people don't understand me I feel that I have found a friend in you and thanks for being real up front with me you know us scorps love real friends and truths .
Sorry again for the novel....lol
First and foremost I want to thank you for the information. I just wanted to share more information about our past. Me and cancer dated ten years ago for 1 yr and 6 mos but ended the relationship because he wanted to renew his vows with his kids mother. I didn't even know they were married and separated. Anyway I told him good luck with that and left and he never saw me again for ten yrs. Only for the cancer to run into my sister and kept sending messages that he would love to see me. I met him one day and he was shocked to hear I was with the same person after we split up for the whole ten yrs. My relationship was with a sag much younger 12/20/75 and was the worst relationship ever he cheated the whole ten yrs . Now me and cancer are trying again and he told me he never stop loving me while we were apart and i still love him the same as if we never parted....but I'm afraid to trust him with my heart again...but i love him dearly and would love to marry him one day. I dont want to be without him again. But he had a very bad marriage as well.....please help me with this i have no one else to help me.
Thanks again for your time