Posts made by Phiner79

@jodomi thank you! I didn’t want to believe that this was the reason he sticks around. I just don’t understand, this guy has a pool of women to chose from, why does he even stick around. We haven’t seen each other in months. We’re not even having sex anymore, what’s the point. I’ve walked away, but doesn’t change I still have feelings for him, and was thinking that giving him his space, would give him time to think things over. And even walking away he still contacts me. Ughhh men...

@jodomi thank you for the response! I saw 111 and 1111 a couples of times today.

I am seeing 111, 1111...like at least once or even twice a day. What is the meaning of this? Thanks!!

Thank you @TheCaptain very insightful! I guess I’m moving in the right direction by walking away.

Hi There!

I have been knowing a Taurus man since 2007, we had a casual relationship then. However, I felt we had a special connection, but it never turned into anything serious. Although, I wanted it to, but I never pushed for it or let him know. Fear of rejection. We eventually went our separate ways, moving to different cities, and just stopped talking to each other.

Fast forward, he reached out to me 10 years later. We texted each other occasionally, just saying hi. I then randomly ended up, moving back to my hometown. Which put me 3 hours away from him, and my new job was sending me to his city for training. I hesitated to let him know I was there, I didn’t know what to expect. I met up with him, and our casual fling started up again. But this time, I had to be honest with myself. I didn’t want another casual relationship with him. I have always had feelings for him, and always wanted for us to go beyond the casual thing. So after months of struggling with it, I decided to tell him how I’ve always felt about him. And it seems after I’ve told him these feelings, that I want more than just a friendship, he’s been distant. I would come to his city all the time and see him, now he’s always busy. But what is confusing, he keeps telling me he’s going to be better with communication and making effort to see me. 7 months have passed, and I have not seen him. And the conversation is so stale, I get Hi, GM, and Hey texting. I told him that the communication has to get better. Again he gives the impression that he’s going to make more effort. And the excuses... he’s busy with work, and he has partial custody of his son, he travels between cities (it was a really bad break up with an ex, that I feel really hurt him). So nothing has changed, and I’m mentally exhausted. So I’ve been ignoring him for the past two weeks. He has reached out to me. And it’s not that I’m playing games, I’m just emotionally drained. I still care about him, but I can’t continue with something stagnant, especially with someone that I have history with. My question is, what do I need to know about my relationship with him? Or any anything that you have insight on? Thank you so much, can’t thank you enough for this reading. I’m mentally exhausted, but still not ready to give up on us.

Him: Shawn May 7, 1978
Me: Pamilla June 15, 1979

@jodomi Hiiii! I was wondering if you’re still offering readings? If so, here’s what’s going on. I don’t even know what to call it. A man I dated years ago, 2007, has come back into my life. I felt there was something special between us then, but it never turned into anything serious. We went our separate ways. He contacts me 10 years later, we stay in contact texting occasionally. Fast forward, I move back home to Texas. I’m now 3 hours away from him. My new job randomly sends me to his city for training, and our fling starts up again. I’ve always had romantic feelings for him, but never expressed that to him. So I felt it was time to let him know. I also wanted to let him know, that I wanted more than a casual relationship. Now it seems since I’ve expressed these feelings, he talks less and doesn’t want to see me anymore...he’s always busy now. Busy with work, his son (bad break up with an ex, he has partial custody). I can feel that break up was pretty bad for him, and I know it was a disappointment for him (although he hasn’t said it, I can feel it). But they’re still excuses. My last conversation with him, was telling him that I didn’t want to force him into a committed relationship, but our communication needs to be a lot better, and I wanted to see more of him. I thought he agreed to make more effort. But he hasn’t changed. And now I’ve decided to ignore him, walk away...I still care for him deeply, and honestly in my heart I feel he cares for me too. But it’s becoming emotionally draining for me. I try so hard to show him I care, and he gives me nothing. Dry texting messages saying hi, and every time I push for more effort from him, he goes away. He may go away for like a week or two. This last time he went away for two weeks and came back sending me a Hi text. I just couldn’t take anymore. He tried texting and calling me, I haven’t answered. It’s not that I’m being immature, I just needed a mental break from him. And I also didn’t feel like he was sincere in contacting me. I guess my question is, What do I need to know about my relationship with him?
Him: Shawn May 7, 1978
Myself: Pamilla June 15, 1979
Thank you so much, hope I hear from you!! ️

Hello All! Awesome, I stumbled upon this site googling, ignoring a Taurus man lol. He’s being stubborn and closed off, so I’ve decided to walk away. Anyways, glad I stumbled upon this site.