Well here's a winner.. funny you should mention a VIRGO on a Astrology website..
I am a Scorpio my husband is a Virgo..We have been married for going on 14 years.
For 12 of those 14 years he was a drunk or a struggling alcoholic. I lost count of how many rehabs he's been in and out of all up and down the east coast. I never got caught up in that stuff or any other kind of addiction except ciggarette smoking, (which I'm working on) Ma--n I tell you I have read every chart, sent for every reading and explaination there is. I'm sorry, but his intellect just does not match up to his behavior ..at all.. Even his youngest brother died from a drunk driver, why in H.. didn't that wake him up then? His own brother (the only other one he has left) said NOT to bring him to his own mothers funeral or he would be escorted off the premisis..WOW!
He and I have gone to college together , He got on the President's List consistently every semester. He's in a college of his choice now to be WHAT? A COUSELOR! How does he figure THAT! Does he have the smarts YES Does he have the common sense? NO! Incase your wondering I went to college for Private Investigation and Crime Scene Investigation..HA!
At this time, his brother (younger than him is all he has left) is out of touch in some other state and is a recovering alcoholic. I have an older brother and two sisters left (I'm the youngest). So my question is this.. Thus far we go everywhere together, and I mean everywhere...Therfore I have up till now been going to class with him and waiting outside for him and riding back home with him (reason being, the last time I stayed home and waited, he was gone for three days, and came home drunk and broke). However, I really need a break..I really really need badly to live my own life and go my own way..If only I could trust him NOT to destroy my life while he chooses to destroy his. I pray for t he strength and power to rise above this delima no matter what happens.. If you think I've stayed with him due to co-dependace..Your wrong..I had and still have a disability that keeps me from keeping a job (cognative disorder) and I'm only 52. So even though when he was violent, angry abusive and cheating and leaving me with no intimacy at ALL.. I tried and tried to leave and couldn't keep a job long enough to ever get away..Until Now! Now I have disability income every month as he does..So, the question is can I trust him or not? Will the fact that i can finally leave him if Iwant to stop him or just remind him he needs to be more careful? And, what in the world does he mean when I ask him for intimacy and sex and he says "What do you want me to do? Use You?) And, here's the really clencher.. At the same time I get my first "back check" from disability, my doctor is telling me I have cancer! Now What do I do? So far, I've done nothing and asked her for the summer off, since I only have two cells and don't qualify for anything but a hysterectomy.. I can't handle that, I always wanted at least one child no matter what the cost, and even if he left..He doesn't want kids, Too bad, he would have been shown through the eyes of a child where he REALLY stands in life..
Anyway, I stand at the crossroads of time.. One final piece of info before I click submit..I got so desperate to understand him, I called a psychic and ended up spending around $100.00, but, one of them finally came out and said, "Well Penney, are you sure you couldn't find some way around him, he doesn't seem to have a future much beyond a year from now, So it looks like he's going to die anyway"..When?,I said.."She said : By December of this year or February or March of next year." Hmmmmmmm. What Now? PS He is 59 this September..