I absolutely know the problem is in me! i stated that and keep it, but i also know i am not acting all that bad, i am not doing anything yet the only flirting done was after a dinner from his work(and i won´t do it again for my own sake...i paid it hard) Only would ask for some cooperation from him to listen to others around him a little more too, age doesn´t give you the right to make of yourself the spokesman of truth.

VoplySoply i understand your point you explained it very well, though it´s not all like that. I never been jealous before with a guy(maybe because i didn´t fall) and i understand of course his past lovers i don´t mind about that, if only that would make him more mature about relationships so in that matter i should be grateful. I don´t want him to be talking about his experiences all time but it is a bit strange he never wants to mention something about it, anyway that cannot the problem really. I don´t really mind what he did, is what he does NOW. I get a lot of attention from him, but he never gives in about something i could propose in order to share together something that i said, it´s his attitude what bothers me. It bothers me and would bother anybody who is around.

I fell in love for what he is knowing his perpetual stubborness but there are limits... my behavior is not childish but it´s i suppose a bit bold sometimes, i am twentyfive and he´s thirtyeight and we´ve been together for about three years now, it´s a long time so if he really saw me as a child(wich i am not) i don´t think we´d have lasted this long. The only babyish thing there is my stupid wish(that very well i punctuated as awful)but he drove me to that! you are right that it have to do with insecurity, who has not insecurities? i try to work on myself because i am conscious but he is TOO self-confident and he´s not always right. I adore his every trait but what about listening a little more who cares for you?

I am grown up enough don´t be fooled by my enthusiasm. I know it sounds rebelling, childish and it is, but i mean this urge i can FEEL all the time for years now, i want it to end. We´re fine in our daily life there is not really much to complain but he is that square and always have to get his way so it pushes me to wish certain things. I am not the only complaining about his behaviour anyway, some friends of him say it too, he never give in even if someone prove he´s wrong.

VoplySoply: in fact sometimes i feel like his child instead his girl but because he treats everyone like that, not just me. And no, i don´t think he reminds me of somebody else, i don´t keep grudges with anybody from past so it couldn´t be that, i can see him clearly as himself i couldn´t compare. I am almost certain it is because past experience, he never talk about such so my imagination explodes, if that were the point then i am troubled i know, but it is not convincing yet anyway...

yep i do, you can see what blindravenouslove does...

i am a sag, and please although it seems so i am not as b**ch as you could imagine for a moment...

so it´s never late to discover new bastard sides of our dear taurus, anyway having you for granted in his pocket or whatever is part of his possessive s**t, in fact i think they can´t live without something or someone to control so then they pet you. The secretive indifference comes at same times and if they don´t want you to know anything about something then you will not, i don´t ask about the past of my taurus but i know he wouldn´t be honest if i did. The question is, after you take your time and heal yourself, would you be interested about him anymore, you could find out surprising yourself afterwards.

i kind of feel ashamed for any taurus reading all this about themselves... hope they keep it cool though...

attention indeed... taurus crave attention in every form, so one could say this little crab it´s lucky somehow. I am seeing that cancers and taurus have many traits in common, but others radically opposite. Both taurus and cancers need attention but cancers need the love and be taken care of their emotions it´s less selfish than taurus who at times seems so materialistic and the attention they look for it´s shallower, so it could be violent for a crab. Anyway it looks like a good couple of signs... sure there are a lot of couples with these two, i am wondering now why i am with one...

by all odds what other taurus suggest you it´s fine if we´re talking about him, but what i was saying is for you, to be selfish for a while because you must be having or had a hideous bad time, you even got sick, you two. When i was that bad i wished i had the guy at my side although he would see me loser all around, i was so very broken that i didn´t mind for a second, i lost my dignity. So i wished at that time i had him next to me, thing that never happened and today i have not yet gotten over it altogether. That´s why i recommended you that, from a selfish point.

Further to him it may be true, your taurus is leaving open doors for a future so it could be good to do what the others are telling you to remove him from your life but not totally please. Knowing how proud this bullheads seem to be, perhaps he´ll grudge a bit for your actions, my taurus has that bad blood. And it´s a little contradictory because if you cut him all off you are showing how much affected you are just seeing him and the purpose of that is to show him that you can go on without him too. I am not sure, i am insanely in love with one so i am as lost. And definitely that other new bud is a puppet for him to control now and deal with everything that happened. So probably you have everything in your favor, you´re lovely.

thanks i think you´re right but i don´t feel very happy with his attitude now anyway and i know he won´t change although i talk to him about it. I doubt he will listen to me. It´s like the only way to make him realise. I also would like to know the real reason why i feel this urge because i love him a lot so i shouldn´t feel this way.

no problem, i feel bad for your bad time too, maybe because i passed thru something alike. Though your taurus doesn´t seem very Taurus in the fast way he found another buddy or at least as far as i know the treats of a taurus, or maybe like i said its his way of dealing with this(or he has some air or fire in him). What i asked you to try is hard and i feel stupid trying to advice you, but i think is the only way to heal oneself because you´ll habituate to see him and the pain will subside, in the other way, if you avoid him altogether then you won´t overcome him and in the future with a simple look back your weakness will come instantly all over you again.

i can only tell you for my experience, right now i am with this taurus and he always have to be right, part of him is very childish, but he rarely takes my opinions into account. In past arguments i left him hysterically and he didn´t come searching for me, he went his way forward without looking back, people told me he was bad but i didn´t see so, so i didn´t believe it. I guess he shields himself behind that charming faultless facade and likely his stubborness is due his ego, i can´t find another reason and that would explain why he looked so conceited. He ALWAYS thinks he is right. Nothing makes change his mind and that´s very loveless. So we reconcile only because i calmed my nerve, swallowed my pride and tried to be like if nothing ever happened and giving him the reason of everything he said. It´s a wrong thing i know, but i couldn´t let him go at that time.

Right now i have the tempting urge of cheat him for not apparent reason even though i don´t really want. He´s so bullheaded that it leaded me to feel that far..