I hope you had a wonderful day Chris. Keep your faith and all will be well. We all have challenges in our lives to overcome. I just know that you will be ok. I feel it in my heart.
Stay strong and keep in touch. Bless your heart my dear.
You sound as if you already have it figured out my dear one. Your knowledge of how you feel in your soul is the first step to moving forward. You need to dismiss the feelings you have of nothingness for yourself, you do matter and you are important. You need to love yourself for who you are what you stand for and what you are about and except no less. Do not feel as if you are a caged devil child. You have a beautiful soul. We tend to try and keep others happy and disregard ourselves in the process. Find yourself, love yourself and most of all be yourself. Im not saying its easy but with time and patience you will find where you feel comfortable. I for one understand your confusion. I as well had to learn to love myself. You will find peace dear chris and its the most wonderful impowering feeling you will ever know. Keep shining sweetie your doing great.
My dear Dorluv,
I am so sorry you feel so much hurt. And it will take time to get through this, one day at a time dear. Now is the time for you to think about yourself and not another relationship. By finding yourself you will then be able to open your heart at the right time knowing what you want from a relationship. Move forward and learn to love yourself wholly. Dont let anyone take advantage of your heart and trust. Believe in yourself and march forward. Take care my dear and I hope to hear that all will be well with yourself in the near future.
I am so glad I was able to find you tonight dear. I have complete faith in you and know you will come out of this just fine. Remember to stand your ground and not let him manipulate you any longer. Stand up for yourself and be proud. By the way my dear Tendrops, I to am a Capricorn and know that you have the will and desire to succeed. I will be here if you need me okay. You sound so much better about things and that makes me so happy. All my respect and understanding to you. For it takes a big person to admit to their faults and a even bigger person to correct them and stand proud.
Classic my dear, classic. Remember a leapord does not change his spots. He's playing on your emotions and manipulating them. Your friends are looking out for you and you should listen, they dont want to see you hurt. Chances are this is'nt the first time and will not be the last. Stop listening to his excuses and move on with your life. Dont let anyone disrespect you in this manner. Chances are you will have a brighter future if you take out the garbage. Keep it real with yourself and you will succeed.
My dear Tendrops, I am so sorry this situation has taken such a turn, regardless of marriage or not it takes two and you are not the scapegoat. Stand up to your fears and face them, as hard as it will be you will truely never have peace within yourself until you do. By him putting the blame on just you is enough if it were me to stand back and say HELL NO!! we were in this together and well go out of it just as responsable as the other. It also shows me that you need to get past the sad feelings you are having and get pissed off enough to stand up for the truth. All the love you had for him was genuine and real, I feel it. But he did not feel the same way if he found it so easy to disregard you when it all fell apart. Be wise and stand up for yourself and believe in your strength to overcome this coward. Show your full glory dear for he has already disregarded you so what do you have to lose. Stay strong and be yourself always. And remember!! SHINE ON.
You sound like a very intelligent woman. And you are right. Lifes lessons are hard to swallow at times yet all we can do is learn from them and become stronger from them. Set your soul free from this for a while and work on finding yourself. Your strengths, weakness. Learn from them and let them guide you into a bigger better tomarrow my dear. I do truely wish you all the best in your life and know that you have the strength to overcome this. SHINE ON!!
In my opinion things happen for a reason, this relationship was never destined to bloom. As much as you wish it had it has only fallen apart because it was never meant to be. It was wrong from the get go dating a married person. You need to do some serious soul searching. I beleive you will be ok in the end, but you must remember that we reap what we sow and although you may not admit it now, you know in your heart that this relationship should never of happened, for it only left you broke my dear. I wish you all the best for a brighter future.
cris1962, I dont know you but yet wanted to tell you that I feel bad that this has happened to you. Dont waste your energy on those who disrespect your wishes. Ignore them and center yourself on the continuing effort to help whom you wish. You sound as if you are a very wonderful and helpful person and I wish you the best. Take care.
I am very thankful for my life given, despite all the failures and set backs I refuse to give in and or give up. I am thankful for my family and all the challenges which have been brought forth before me. For they have only given me strength and made me wiser.