Thanks Captain, although disappointing but every moment teaches a lesson in life and I am growing with it. Thanks again.

I know captain helped me once before about a virgo man, this time its a taurean and came out of the blue, saying a hundred times that he loved me madly and would marry me, etc etc, i first accepted his proposal for a relationship then i thought that he was saying nothing but a bunch of lies to me as he was married with 2 kids, i decided to test him and told him that i was ready to take divorce from my husband and get married to him, because I am unhappy too with my married life and am looking for a suitable partner. When he heard this, he started making excuses and avoided talks on phone, rather he would just keep cracking jokes and divert attention. He would chat with me for hours at his convenience and would not pick up my phone and just avoid me when busy. Then finally after 11 days of online relationship I finally said that enough of his lying as he was trying to start a relationship based on lies and false assurances and that he should never try to contact me again, he said its so easy for u to break my heart everytime and then he texted me that day that i love u , i miss u badly and then stopped.

I want your insight on this matter, if he was seriously involved with me or was just saying I love u to use me in his own way, and if u see him contacting me again. Please help Captain...please

I have had this episode of leaving with my husband a thousand times, that's why it has lost its effect, will have to think of a different approach now.

yah, in the end after break up, i think he became jealous of me too seeing that I have many good friends in life (some of them males) whom I could trust and was close to, only as a friend though, and I was always jovial and had a light attitude towards life, whereas on the other hand he was an introvert and could not share any feeling with anyone, didn't have any close friends, only I was his such close friend with whom he could share and actually he did share everything.

Thank u so much Captain for taking the time to answer me, if u don't mind and if u can give me an insight on what he started to dislike about me, never mentioned anything?

Now instead of making my marriage a disaster, i need to work on it to make it peaceful and loving relationship, the only problem is that i have tried several times to sit down and talk on the serious and delicate matters but he always seems to avoid the whole topic all together and never answers me and that annoys me even more. I hope u can get to what I am trying to say, I am the type of person to always discuss problems and sort them out but he is just the opposite, lives in his own world and always avoid discussion. I just dont know how to make him a part of the discussion so that the problems get solved rather than just me becoming more and more unhappy and sad.

Hey, I am a saggie too. What I know about myself may be quite different and at the same time some similar traits too. I trust most people so deep that it almost always hurts. I trust them the way I make a image of them to be and always think that the other person is also giving their 100%, which is never true in most cases. Secondly Captain u are very right that we have a very strong sense of obligation that keeps us tied down to things, the biggest example is my mariage, I have been married with my husband for last 9 years and it has been very rough without a drop of happiness, but i am still clinging on sometimes due to fear of hurting him and sometimes for children etc etc.

But on the contrary as i have and my friends have seen me, I am very very bold and courageous and never get scared of ANY situation and ALWAYS speak the truth, I hate lies, no matter what happens, I want to be dead honest in any relationship that we are in and thit is what brings in a lot of problems for us.

The other thing that I see in myself as a saggi is the strong bond of love, I fell for a man about 15 years ago before I got married and made such a strong bond with him that I could not ever come out of it and could never except the fact that he has gone, he never took me serious enough as I was dead interested to get married to him for a long term commitment and always thought of him to be my ideal partner.And now down the road after 9 years of struggling married life, I encounter another fling that also left me on the top of a cliff and I felt nothing but dissolutioned and broken as I completely trusted this old friend of mine from the core of my heart and never expected him to behave in such an indifferent manner. I am shattered again and its taking a lot of time and effort to outgrow the feeling.

We tend to idealise things for ourselves and we have a very very good adapting capabilities, like for instance, if I am in love with a person , I can go to any extent to be compatible and live a life full of love with him, but only if I love him. We are very dominant and freedom loving but like to be submissive by the person we are strongly in love with. No other man can rule us unless we want to be ruled. This are my readings about myself as a saggi and in general. I am also thinking about more....

Captain u answered very right about my question, but please do answer again on the same thread reagarding my present marriage situation as i have been unhappy for the past 9 years but never looked out for any relation. But now since i had soft corner and feelings for this friend of mine, i just want to know if he will ever try to make contact with me, and secondly what should i do with my husband, leave him or stay in hoping for situation to change....kindly please try to answer both of my questions....on this thread or on the previous one ...i have given my husband's DOB there as well- 25 may 1973 and mine 17 dec 1974 and my friends 23 aug, 1975.

Hi Captain.

Can u read my vibes please!

I am also giving my husbands DOB is 25 may 1973 if u need it in giving me a reading regarding our marriage., please reply soon, i'll be very thankful to u

First and foremost, I want to thank u for taking the time to answer me and yah u are right, i agree and realize it, but do u see him try to make contact with me again as i have lost him for this time and am not in contact, but if he wants to start it again, this time i'm not letting him do it, i'll be clear to him, but i just want to know if he will return or not? And this question also i am asking u because he left me without an explanation and abruptly, we never fought andd we were always at talking terms, still he could not explain or write or call me in a proper manner to end things, and this issue became real big for me and hurted me severely as i had not expected this from him being a very close friend. And also please if u can do a reading for me that what would be better for me, to end this marriage? and will i get another suitable man in my life or not? I 'll be very thankful please...