How should I approach this guy to help him make easier his decision process?
We know each other for 4 years and last summer I gave him an ultimatum for making a decision on making a live with me. He asked me for time to figure out other things going on with him and our relationship. We live in different countries and I know he gets overwhelmed when he has to make a decision.
This week we talked and I told him that I was close to giving up and I feel he got scare of it and asked me how we could make it. His nature is a little bit negatives, so he can find obstacles everywhere, I gave him my insights and left the ball in his corner...
Him (J, 23, 02, 76), Me ( Pao 01, 05, 79)
Thanks a lot for your help