Hello Ellisangel,

I am new to this site, how can you tell that a thread is closes and how does one get answeres to their questions/problems?

Thank you,

Paco

Hi Ms Sunny,

I am new to this site and I am an Aries female and have just recently met a Virgo male. What do I need to do to get some advice?

We have recently met online, have spend 5 days and nights together, he asked me to come to his cousins place for new year, seem to have openeded up to me quiete a bit (told me a lot of private things). However, the problem is that is works 2mths overseas and is back for 1mth. I can deal with that as long as I know that I am with the person. Anyway, in this case it makes it really difficult as we had only just met. He did tell me that he liked me, but seemed a little worried that it could cause a problem. He doesn't communicate that much from where he is as he is very busy, but he seems to have time to check the online dating website on a regular basis.

To his defence, I need to say that he did say that I shouldn't stop with this dating website and that we should pick up where we had left of before he left.

Now I find myself thinking about him and wondering if he is going to drift away? He did tell me that he didn't like one night stands and that he is being honest to me.

Can you help or tell me what I need to do to get an answer?

Thank you

Reading everyones comments above, makes me feel a little more relaxed. I have just recently met a Virgo man, unfortunately due to the Xmas holidays, etc we didn't have much time to get to know each other. So we made the most of it. I staid at his place the last 5 days. He even asked me to spend New Year with him at his Cousins place. Hope that's a good sign. Anyway, I had a good feedback form his friends... (so he told me) Apparently, he was told that it took him 26 years to finally bring a normal girl around Unfortunately, our time is quite short lived as he is going away for work 2mths on 1mth off. Not a good timing at such an early stage. He did tell me that he liked me, that he is a one girls man and he hoped that I could see that he is being honest. He also told me that liking me could be a problem... I guess due to the circumstances of him being away. He also got hurt previously, but haven't we all at some stage? He is leaving tomorrow and has heaps of things to do before leaving.. but hasn't called me. Apparently, Virgo men are quite focused and can kind of forget about you until they are done. I am just worried that I'll loose him before we had a fair chance. 2mths is a long time to keep something new going. Do I contact him or do I let him get in touch with me on his own terms? He did say, lets see how we go in 2mts time and he did talk about doing and showing me things when he gets back. I just wish he would give me some kind of assurance or sign that he is thinking of me... Not hearing drives me crazy. I am not needy and quite independant, and can handle being seperated from a man as long as I know ... does this make sense? Instead, I keep questioning everything that happend and was said and keep goind over it in my mind..

Would appreciate your opinions

I have just met a virgo man (2weeks ago), and have just spend the last 5 days together. We had a really good time, we both felt comfprtable with each other and we both seemed very open and honest to each other. Lots of cuddles, laughs and talks. He told me that he liked me and that worried him due to his last relationship and his current work situation. He works away 2mths and back 1mth. He'll be leaving in one day and I am worried that he might drift away over the next 2 mths.... since he'll be away for so long after we have just met. When he told me that he liked me he also said and that is a problem. (I think he meant his situation) I know he is very, busy getting organised for his flight , but he hasn't called me. And that makes me question his feelings and what he had told me. I am an independant person and not clingy, but I would like to hear from him to make me more feel a little more secure about him liking me and that he at least thinks of me. Just because of the circumstances. I know it's only early days, but it would help... am I being impatient? Do I just wait for him to contact me, do I give him some time and contact him at a later stage? I don't want to push him away but I don't want him to forget me either.... If I could only tell what is going on inside of him?

I have just met a virgo man (2weeks ago), and have just spend the last 5 days together. We had a really good time, we both felt comfprtable with each other and we both seemed very open and honest to each other. Lots of cuddles, laughs and talks. He told me that he liked me and that worried him due to his last relationship. He is away working 2mths and back 1mth. He'll be leaving in one day and I am worried that he might drift away.... since he'll be away for so long after we have just met. When he told me that he liked me he said straight away that this could be a problem. I know he is very, busy getting organised for his flight , but he hasn't called me. And that makes me question his feelings and what he had told me. I am an independant person and not clingy, but I would like to hear from him to make me more feel more secure about him liking me. I know it's only early days, but it would help... am I being impatient? Do I just wait for him to contact me, do I give him some time and contact him at a later stage? I don't want to push him but I don't want him to forget me either....