Yeah, it's me again. The one who gets phone calls from the guy I care about. He still calls every night. Sometimes 2 or 3 times. The conversations are changing somewhat. More personal now. A couple of days ago, we spent the whole day together. It was wonderful! Maybe I'm wrong but I'm getting the feeling like something's on the brink of happening. Every single day, I get the same comment. "You don't see things." When I ask what he's talking about, I just get laughter. Or "You'll find out." I wish I could tell all of you that helped me so much that something great has happened but that would be a lie. The major difference is that now when I tell him that I disagree with something he says, he talks and talks trying to get me to understand why he thinks what he does. He used to not really care what I thought. Well, that's about it. I just wanted you to know. Especially to The Captain. You were great with what you've told me. (I think Sagittarius is a more stubborn sign than Taurus!) Thank again!
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Somebody please tell me something - update
Boy, you said a million. If you put his goodness toward me as opposed to his "crankiness" it would be 95% good. He has helped me with so much. I just want him to realize that I want to do the same for him. I guess if I he didn't care he wouldn't talk with me every night. We've both been through so much and it's nice that I have the gift of having someone like him to talk and be with. Thanks for all you've said. You made me feel so much better.
P.S. If he were perfect, I wouldn't love him so much.
Yeah. I know. Still getting confused by a Sag guy. The last few weeks he was as sweet as can be about everything and anything. He's never really mean but once in a while it seems like his "understanding" seems to be short. Remember, he stil calls me every single night. I asked him last night why he calls me if he's not in a good mood? His reply is always the same. He feels like he's said nothing out of the ordinary. Believe me, he can get downright "cranky" at times. Is this a Sag trait or is it my Taurean trait not to take out my bad mood on anyone else? His moods never last for more than a day but they last in my mind a lot longer than that. I promise that I don't say or do anything differently when he gets like that. I truly love him and if these little ruffles are normal for either men or his zodiac sign, I would sure like to know. I'd put up with them always if that;'s the case. They're not that bad. Thanks for anyone's help!
You're special, Captain!
I don't know how you did that but your last paragraph seemed to describe my guy to the tee. I want nothing more than for him to have his freedom but I also want him to realize just how much I care about him. He seems to need me to tell him that I do in my own way and I love doing just that. He's proven to be someone that I can trust fully. He's been so good to me.
I hope that one day my dream will come true with him. Maybe my feelings weren't wrong at all. Thanks to you.
RE: Somebody please tell me something
Dangala - Funny you said that because for someone that has always said he has no "feelings" about anything, he's told me some things that makes me believe it's just a cover up. Again, I've always been so open and honest so this has been very confusing for me. Thank you for what you've said. I hope I've been a good influence on him.
Somebody please tell me something
Long story short. Known this man from work for over 4 years. He doesn't really talk unless it's about work. We began speaking to each other and now he calls me every night. Sometimes twice. If he doesn't call, he explain why even though I never ask. I've had many at work (including my boss) tell me how much he cares for me. I guess I never believed them. He's a really good guy. We've both been hurt in our pasts but he doesn't speak much about his. He knows all about mine. We've been a couple of places together but never really dated. If a man doesn't care does he call and care about a girl so much? He's always concerned about me. I'm so confused. The only thing I was told was to listen to the song "I'm not in love" by 10cc. That confused me even more. Does anyone have any kind of explanation for this girl? I really care about him.
I'm a typical Taurus and he's a typical Sagittarius if that helps. Thanks!